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mash2014
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How do you define sexually? Straight? Gay? Bi? Bicurious? Heteroflexible? Wanting to experiment with the unknown?

I've been straight although I've had in the past experiences with men. When I was around 15 I remember a classmate that I thought was cute. After I married I met a younger man that I thought was beautiful and for the first time in my life I masturbated thinking of another man. Lately, I've found myself attracted reading male to male stories, when not too long ago I didn't find them desirable at all. Maybe, in the last 3 months I've masturbated thinking of cock more than in my entire life. However, I still don't feel attracted to any man.
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ive always been bi but ive always favoured men. i had sex with women and men all throughout my teens but when i got to 25 its been a hell of a lot of men and only a had full of women. i mainly watch straight porn or men masturbating not really into gay porn.

im totally comfortable with my sexuality
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I call myself bi-curious although I've had very few experiences with males. When wanking I usually start with female porn but will often cum while watching men wanking or (a particular favourite) older women wanking young guys. Love to see hard cocks shooting out big ropes of cum!
I really enjoy watching men I've chatted with on here - if anyone wants to send me some more. :D
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For me, as a straight male, I would define myself as very much bi-sexually curious!
For sure not gay!
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Game for anything count?
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An update to my initial post.

Memory is bringing back things that happened in my early teen years and that for some reason went deep and I didn't remember them.

I am sexually attracted to women, I lust women, I masturbate thinking mostly about women. But, I have very few times found a man sexually attractive but I have. There had been some men I've known who provoked the desire to be and do things with them. Also, I've seen porn and I have seen naked men and I have fantasized about doing them, and many stories I've read here on male to male that have aroused me to the point of orgasm.
I admit I now want to have a sexual experience with a man.
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I have always been attracted to women, but keep going onto Shemale sites. What really gets me aroused is an attractive looking tranny with a beautiful cock. I get so excited seeing a hard or soft cock and saggy balls on a person who has smooth body.
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Submissive,
Exhibitionist,
Not sure about ‘Bi’
I like to suck a pretty penis occasionally but only enjoy oral when a woman does it to me.
As for women, I want older women, much older. I love every grey hair and wrinkle. I love the fact that they are delicate and I have to be gentle.
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Straight and mostly aroused by women in real, everyday life. But also bi-curious and love to jack off around men, let other men stroke my cock, and play with cocks every so often. For the most part, I am an exhibitionist and like to let other men see me jacking off. Although, I like the feeling of a strong male hand stroking my penis and love the fact that I'm engaged in sexual play with men, in the end I like to finish myself off until I explode while being watched.

I'm not into receiving blowjobs from other men (although I let one guy do it briefly), but I do fantasize about giving a blowjob and will do it if the circumstances are right.
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I am a timid, closeted bi man (have had bi desires for over 30 years) in his 70's who talks a good game but is too shy to meet others who may share the same interests. Thank goodness I was bold enough to go to a male erotic massage therapist two years ago and experience handling and sucking another man's cock. Now, if I could ever get up the courage to go meet some people, maybe I can have that fun again.
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oldfan wrote: Wed May 17, 2023 2:25 am I am a timid, closeted bi man (have had bi desires for over 30 years) in his 70s who talks a good game but is too shy to meet others who may share the same interests. Thank goodness I was bold enough to go to a male erotic massage therapist two years ago and experience handling and sucking another man's cock. Now, if I could ever get up the courage to go meet some people, maybe I can have that fun again.
Oldfan, I also am shy and I’m scared of opening up. I had 2 experiences with men but I was under the influence of drugs and alcohol which didn't allow me to really get the feeling as I wanted to. One of them was with the wrong person, although I guess I was the promoter.
However, my mind is starting to bring back some hidden memories and there have been other situations where I felt attracted to men or had crushes on others. Also, being very young I was touched by a man, and from the little I can remember I didn't feel uncomfortable but never allowed anything to happen because my mother learned that this man touched another kid so she forbid me to go there.
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mash2014 wrote: Sat May 20, 2023 2:29 pm
oldfan wrote: Wed May 17, 2023 2:25 am I am a timid, closeted bi man (have had bi desires for over 30 years) in his 70s who talks a good game but is too shy to meet others who may share the same interests. Thank goodness I was bold enough to go to a male erotic massage therapist two years ago and experience handling and sucking another man's cock. Now, if I could ever get up the courage to go meet some people, maybe I can have that fun again.
Oldfan, I also am shy and I’m scared of opening up. I had 2 experiences with men but I was under the influence of drugs and alcohol which didn't allow me to really get the feeling as I wanted to. One of them was with the wrong person, although I guess I was the promoter.
However, my mind is starting to bring back some hidden memories and there have been other situations where I felt attracted to men or had crushes on others. Also, being very young I was touched by a man, and from the little I can remember I didn't feel uncomfortable but never allowed anything to happen because my mother learned that this man touched another kid so she forbid me to go there.
Somehow we need to overcome our shyness and try to embrace our desire to play with other men. I am working on it here.
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It took me many years to get to the point of getting over the fear/embarrassment of masturbating in front of another person. First it was female partners and later anonymous men. I find that any fear/nervousness gets the adrenaline pumping which in turn can lead to very explosive orgasms when I cum.

With men, I have gotten to the point where I actually can verbalize what I might want and say I want to see their cock or jack off. I look forward to the day I say to a man "I want to suck your cock".
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Pretty much a vanilla hetero guy here. I’ve never had any desire to touch other guys but being around other naked men never bothered me during the odd group sex episode or two over the decades.

I never had any hesitation about masturbating around others, although some female partners have objected to it at times.
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Bi-curious, Bi-sexual, voyeur, exhibitionist
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Hetero-amorous (women are so lovable), bi-sexual/bi-curious. I like touching and sucking cock, but will never fancy the person it's attached to :)
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Not sure, tried for years to define myself. Officially it is probably 'bi'. But I think I am just a perv who likes sex with anyone and likes trying exciting and new things.
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Good question!
I'm hetro - just adore women and always have. I just get on better with women and it took me a long time to work out that I have a strong inner female inside of me. If it was much stronger, I would have to transition and start taking female hormones. I've thought about this a lot, but as it effects the male reproductive system so much, I've chosen not to go down that path - I love my penis & balls too much! :D

I am though a cross dresser/transvestite and this took me many years to understand and accept. It's more a fetish thing for me as I don't bother with makeup and wigs, nor put on a female voice. It's not that I object at all to this, I just can't be bothered. I've had a couple of "transformations" done by professionals - the full dress up and makeup and it's a lot of fun, but too much effort for myself.

So how did this all happen? Well at a young age I started flicking through my mother's Women's Weekly magazines out of curiosity and then around 10, my half-sister visited (she's a lot older) and she started talking one night about a new magazine she had started to read called COSMOPOLITAN. I had started to notice this magazine up at the local store and this just grew and grew within me. When I was 14, a friend of the family left a COSMO for my mother to read and this was the every first COSMO I got to read and in fact had my very first orgasm with. From that point on I was hooked to COSMO and my inner female self I call my inner COSMO Girl. I now have thousands of COSMO's in my collection.

Saying all this as I've gotten older, I've become more interested in Shemales as part of me would love to be one. I'd dearly love to have breasts more than anything. I have silicon breast forms, but wish I had real boobs. So getting into watching Shemale porn, I've started to get more into penises. I love my own and am getting turned on my watching other penises do their thing. I fantasize being on the receiving end of a mass Bukkake event - spurted on by hundreds of men and covered in delicious warm semen and then drinking it all up - that would be heaven for me! I'd love to be wearing my lingerie as well - dripping in warm cum - YUM! So does that make me Bi when I'm not attracted to males at all - just their penises, I don't know. So I guess I'm a hetro transvestite/wannabe COSMO Girl and penis curious.
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