Climbing a rope during PE to have orgasm

[mainejoe]

This was masturbation for me until probably about 14 or 15. I discovered it in elementary school probably kindergarten or first grade. I used to climb the poles on the playground And got this wonderful feeling. I didn’t say anything to anyone but just kept doing it on the playground and pretty much every pole around the house etc. I could find. You could pretty much get away with doing anything climbing like that as a kid but I still wonder if anybody had an idea of what I was doing. I would have at least 2 to 3 orgasms every day during recess(Probably more at home as well but I wasn’t keeping track lol) but had no idea what they were. One time when I was using the tetherball pole the teachers whistled for the end of recess. Everyone was supposed to line up with their class to go into their rooms. I just had to have one more so I climbed back up to finish. Everyone else was lined up and the teacher was yelling at me while I was exploding. Probably 200 or so people total watching me at the top of the pole while I went. The teacher was complaining later that I was “playing Tarzan“ while everyone had to wait lol. The last time I probably did it in public was in sixth grade gym class on the ropes. I wasn’t even trying to orgasm but I could not help myself. I had a little more understanding then what was going on.
By the time I was in junior high I was home before my younger siblings and since I didn’t have recess anymore I had to take care of myself around the house. My favorite was the banister at the bottom of the stairs. I could grip the top and grind myself silly. Since I was home alone I could also do it in the nude for the first time. Wow! Better and more frequent orgasms. Four or five usually sometimes seven or eight and once 13 over the course of an hour. I miss those days

[jman2211]

Wonderdick
I bet your Mother knew what you were doing but like most Mothers when it came to masterbation she said nothing.

[effinjeff1965]

Wonderdick
I bet your Mother knew what you were doing but like most Mothers when it came to masterbation she said nothing.

Why do you think that is? Are they embarrassed about saying anything? Or they think "boys will be boys"? Or she likes the idea that her son is sexual in some way?

My mom walked in on me and a buddy with my dad's Playboy. We had our pants down and our hard dicks in our (own) hands. She looked at my boner and said, "You've been playing with yourself." Then she grabbed the magazine and stormed out of the room. She never said another word about it. My dad didn't either, so either she didn't tell him, or he didn't know what to say either. I wondered if she was more surprised or freaked out by the fact I was with a buddy, but her comment made it sound like she was more surprised or embarrassed that I was hard.

[amibroken]

Okay, so I’m brand new here. I was searching online to see if I was, well, broken. And I stumbled across this. I thought this was more of a female thing until I saw all these posts by males.

I was in preschool. I used to climb the support bars on the gigantic metal slide. I could never quite make it to the top. About 3/4s of the way up, I’d stop, grip the pole tightly between my legs, shiver uncontrollably and then slide back down. Had no idea what it was, just that it felt great.

Fast forward to elementary school gym, fitness tests, climbing the rope and guess what… I could never quite make it to the top. Same exact thing, get about 3/4s of the way to the top, stop awkwardly, shiver a bit and then slide back down.

I’m not sure at what age I started to climb our banister at home. By that point I knew it was wrong and should at least do it when no one else was around, if not be completely ashamed that I was doing it. Banister at home, side of tubs (of course with a pillow on top, otherwise ouch!) or backs of couches.

I knew it was wrong, but that didn’t stop me. Just kept it secret.

So super fast-forward to my first boyfriend. Sex was fine. It was something I was supposed to do. Eventually it would feel good, right? Several years into it, I started grinding really hard when I was on top, and I found IT! It hit me and I finally understood the lyrics, “She only comes when she’s on top.” Except I realized it was she only cums… duh! What an idiot.


So here I am many, MANY years later and I’m just not that into sex. Realized I maybe never had been I mean sex is okay. Sometimes I remember it being pretty great. But it was always so much work to get to climax with my partner. I mean, 10-15 minutes is AGES compared to like literally 1-3 minutes on my own. So, my question? I miss the possibility of that intimacy with my partner, but I don’t know it’s worth the effort of trying to climax with him. Am I just lazy? Am I asexual?

Don’t get me wrong, climaxing is great when I choose to do it, but I’m never really “driven” to do it. I never really look at people and get turned on anymore. I did briefly in my late teens, I think. I’m wondering about my sexuality. The older I got, I started thinking I was a little (okay a lot) weird, broken, low lobido or a combo of those?

I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember though. I just don’t fit into the mold that nearly everyone talks about or what all the movies/shows portray.

Has anyone else felt similar? I mean I like the act of having an orgasm, so I don’t think I’m fully asexual. But it’s not really worth the effort most of the time. And the older I get, it’s especially not worth the effort to do it with someone. It’s so much easier and faster on my own.

Oh, I almost forgot… the whole reason I started searching online tonight was that I am wondering if it is even POSSIBLE for someone like me to be able to have an orgasm another way? Like from penetration or really anything besides pretty hard back and forth grinding/climbing-type friction?

[prvjobud]

In middle school or before, I would hang from the Bathroom stall and rub my penis against the style as I pulled up. The harder it got for me to pull myself up the harder I got the harder I got off.

[jimmyl55]

Nice thread here. When I hit puberty, I found out that by putting pressure at the base of my cock, I could have an orgasm. The first time it happened, I was straddling the stair bannister in our house and had my first orgasm that wasn't a wet dream. I quickly found other furniture, such as the arm rests on chairs, that would do the trick. If I was outside, I would climb on tree, straddle a limb and rock back and forth until I ejaculated. In fact, this technique was how I masturbated for the first couple of years. I didn't think of using my hand until much later.

Funny thing though, I did lots of rope climbing in PE, but never once had an orgasm.

[bodyandmind]

I like your story, mainejoe. I relate to it a lot 'cause climbing was my main way of masturbating for years in my teens. It felt different and better than the traditional method. And it was addictive like you said - in a good way. Helped me build upper body strength. And you're learning about your body at that age and how to give yourself pleasure.

I didn't do it in public or in school situations with a lot of people around like you mention, but more on playground equipment, poles, laundry lines and trees when no one or very few people were around and far away. As I mentioned in an earlier post - I'd wrap tissue around myself so I wouldn't stain my clothes and risk my mother finding out. And yeah, like you, when no one was a home, I'd get to strip down do it hanging on shower stalls or a pipe that I put up across doors. But I'd still wrap my c*ck in tissue. There were a few rare times when I would go out at night in the yard when no one was home and climb the tree in my backyard naked. I still remember the feeling of the night air on my skin and the freedom of being able to let my cum fly without having to cover my c*ck - that feeling of pushing yourself almost to muscle failure and letting every last drop spew out of you as a result. Like you I would sometimes cum several times in one session. As an adult - though it doesn't happen every time I try - I can still bring myself to orgasm by climbing or doing leg lifts. And it feels just as incredible as it did in my teens. But I haven't had too many of those opportunities to do it outside. I wish!

This was masturbation for me until probably about 14 or 15. I discovered it in elementary school probably kindergarten or first grade. I used to climb the poles on the playground And got this wonderful feeling. I didn’t say anything to anyone but just kept doing it on the playground and pretty much every pole around the house etc. I could find. You could pretty much get away with doing anything climbing like that as a kid but I still wonder if anybody had an idea of what I was doing. I would have at least 2 to 3 orgasms every day during recess(Probably more at home as well but I wasn’t keeping track lol) but had no idea what they were. One time when I was using the tetherball pole the teachers whistled for the end of recess. Everyone was supposed to line up with their class to go into their rooms. I just had to have one more so I climbed back up to finish. Everyone else was lined up and the teacher was yelling at me while I was exploding. Probably 200 or so people total watching me at the top of the pole while I went. The teacher was complaining later that I was “playing Tarzan“ while everyone had to wait lol. The last time I probably did it in public was in sixth grade gym class on the ropes. I wasn’t even trying to orgasm but I could not help myself. I had a little more understanding then what was going on.
By the time I was in junior high I was home before my younger siblings and since I didn’t have recess anymore I had to take care of myself around the house. My favorite was the banister at the bottom of the stairs. I could grip the top and grind myself silly. Since I was home alone I could also do it in the nude for the first time. Wow! Better and more frequent orgasms. Four or five usually sometimes seven or eight and once 13 over the course of an hour. I miss those days

[travisballs]

I discovered dry orgasms early on climbing the street sign on our corner, probably around 8 years old. I couldn’t get enough of that feeling, of course I didn’t know what was happening. Now jump to high school gym class when we had to climb the ropes. Thankfully I had lots of practice in my younger years because reaching the top that great feeling would return, but now the orgasms are wet lol. So I knew how to control that. But one kid Brain wasn’t so skilled, climbed the rope, had a huge orgasm and came down with soaked gym shorts, of course we all laughed at the poor kid, and we all knew his shorts were full of sticky cum. Gym teacher just sent him to the locker room to shower.

[jman2211]

Wonderdick
I bet your Mother knew what you were doing but like most Mothers when it came to masterbation she said nothing.

Why do you think that is? Are they embarrassed about saying anything? Or they think "boys will be boys"? Or she likes the idea that her son is sexual in some way?

My mom walked in on me and a buddy with my dad's Playboy. We had our pants down and our hard dicks in our (own) hands. She looked at my boner and said, "You've been playing with yourself." Then she grabbed the magazine and stormed out of the room. She never said another word about it. My dad didn't either, so either she didn't tell him, or he didn't know what to say either. I wondered if she was more surprised or freaked out by the fact I was with a buddy, but her comment made it sound like she was more surprised or embarrassed that I was hard.

Effinjeff
I think a lot of Mothers when they catch their son masterbating think like you said "Boys will be boys" they learn reading women magizines that its normal and very common plus mothers talk to each other and learn from other mothers they caught their son too. My guess thats the case with most mothers not all there's a few who are horrified and there to is a few who are open about it with their child my best friend growing mother was that way.

This friend and me would sleep over each other house over summer and I remember the first time I found out she knew what we were up too when after we were in bed for awhile we do what we did talk about girls which always ended up with masterbation this one time his mother walked in and I stopped and tired to act like i was sleeping and she says I know your awake and what you are doing I came up here to give you each a fave cloth that way you dont have wipe your mess over the sheets. I pretended to not know what she was going on about she told me it was ok nothing to be ashamed of then she stood up looked at the bump umder the banklet smiled and said i let you finish now because that looks painful pointing to my erection clearly pushing up the blanklet and she left and said goodnight.
From that night on she was never creepy about it like wanting to watch us or anything just we didnt have to lie about it or worry we would be in trouble.

Years later when i was in my twenties me and her were drinking at her NYE party and she joke with me saying I was one horny teenager that many a time in the room next door she could hear everything from girl talk to playing with our self.

I dont know if that was normal for a mother to be like but she had a way of making me feel ok with somethimg at that age I felt the need to do

[effinjeff1965]

Wonderdick
I bet your Mother knew what you were doing but like most Mothers when it came to masterbation she said nothing.

Why do you think that is? Are they embarrassed about saying anything? Or they think "boys will be boys"? Or she likes the idea that her son is sexual in some way?

My mom walked in on me and a buddy with my dad's Playboy. We had our pants down and our hard dicks in our (own) hands. She looked at my boner and said, "You've been playing with yourself." Then she grabbed the magazine and stormed out of the room. She never said another word about it. My dad didn't either, so either she didn't tell him, or he didn't know what to say either. I wondered if she was more surprised or freaked out by the fact I was with a buddy, but her comment made it sound like she was more surprised or embarrassed that I was hard.

Effinjeff
I think a lot of Mothers when they catch their son masterbating think like you said "Boys will be boys" they learn reading women magizines that its normal and very common plus mothers talk to each other and learn from other mothers they caught their son too. My guess thats the case with most mothers not all there's a few who are horrified and there to is a few who are open about it with their child my best friend growing mother was that way.

This friend and me would sleep over each other house over summer and I remember the first time I found out she knew what we were up too when after we were in bed for awhile we do what we did talk about girls which always ended up with masterbation this one time his mother walked in and I stopped and tired to act like i was sleeping and she says I know your awake and what you are doing I came up here to give you each a fave cloth that way you dont have wipe your mess over the sheets. I pretended to not know what she was going on about she told me it was ok nothing to be ashamed of then she stood up looked at the bump umder the banklet smiled and said i let you finish now because that looks painful pointing to my erection clearly pushing up the blanklet and she left and said goodnight.
From that night on she was never creepy about it like wanting to watch us or anything just we didnt have to lie about it or worry we would be in trouble.

Years later when i was in my twenties me and her were drinking at her NYE party and she joke with me saying I was one horny teenager that many a time in the room next door she could hear everything from girl talk to playing with our self.

I dont know if that was normal for a mother to be like but she had a way of making me feel ok with somethimg at that age I felt the need to do

How did her son (your buddy) react to her knowing what you guys were doing? She noticed your boner. How about her son's?

[jman2211]

Okay, so I’m brand new here. I was searching online to see if I was, well, broken. And I stumbled across this. I thought this was more of a female thing until I saw all these posts by males.

I was in preschool. I used to climb the support bars on the gigantic metal slide. I could never quite make it to the top. About 3/4s of the way up, I’d stop, grip the pole tightly between my legs, shiver uncontrollably and then slide back down. Had no idea what it was, just that it felt great.

Fast forward to elementary school gym, fitness tests, climbing the rope and guess what… I could never quite make it to the top. Same exact thing, get about 3/4s of the way to the top, stop awkwardly, shiver a bit and then slide back down.

I’m not sure at what age I started to climb our banister at home. By that point I knew it was wrong and should at least do it when no one else was around, if not be completely ashamed that I was doing it. Banister at home, side of tubs (of course with a pillow on top, otherwise ouch!) or backs of couches.

I knew it was wrong, but that didn’t stop me. Just kept it secret.

So super fast-forward to my first boyfriend. Sex was fine. It was something I was supposed to do. Eventually it would feel good, right? Several years into it, I started grinding really hard when I was on top, and I found IT! It hit me and I finally understood the lyrics, “She only comes when she’s on top.” Except I realized it was she only cums… duh! What an idiot.


So here I am many, MANY years later and I’m just not that into sex. Realized I maybe never had been I mean sex is okay. Sometimes I remember it being pretty great. But it was always so much work to get to climax with my partner. I mean, 10-15 minutes is AGES compared to like literally 1-3 minutes on my own. So, my question? I miss the possibility of that intimacy with my partner, but I don’t know it’s worth the effort of trying to climax with him. Am I just lazy? Am I asexual?

Don’t get me wrong, climaxing is great when I choose to do it, but I’m never really “driven” to do it. I never really look at people and get turned on anymore. I did briefly in my late teens, I think. I’m wondering about my sexuality. The older I got, I started thinking I was a little (okay a lot) weird, broken, low lobido or a combo of those?

I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember though. I just don’t fit into the mold that nearly everyone talks about or what all the movies/shows portray.

Has anyone else felt similar? I mean I like the act of having an orgasm, so I don’t think I’m fully asexual. But it’s not really worth the effort most of the time. And the older I get, it’s especially not worth the effort to do it with someone. It’s so much easier and faster on my own.

Oh, I almost forgot… the whole reason I started searching online tonight was that I am wondering if it is even POSSIBLE for someone like me to be able to have an orgasm another way? Like from penetration or really anything besides pretty hard back and forth grinding/climbing-type friction?

I wish I came across your post sooner oh well better late than never. I know exactly what you are going through. I too was in the same situation as you all though my 20s and most of my 30s I would get depressed and even suicidal [just thinking never trying) because I accidentally stumbled upon reaching a orgasm by climbing a pole, rope or rail on a fence. I did it pretty all the time from age 7 to 16 years old I guess you could say I was a horny kid. lol anyway at 16 years old I hooked up with my first girl but unfortunately laying in the naked I was unable to get hard. I put it down to nerves then it happened again with another girl meanwhile just the thought of a pole sent the blood rushing down below by the third girl I was able to get hard thanks to her giving me oral. I know this is strange for a man to say this but after 20 minutes I faked a orgasm after that I would guess 70% of my sexual encounters I faked a orgasm so not to have the girl feel bad and I was tired lol. By 30 years old this was weighing on me the thought I get rock hard grinding a rope or something similar and reach climax very easy and yet unable to do the same with a woman.

By the end of my 30s I started to except that it is what it is and nothing is going to change then one day I hooked up with this woman if I am being honest not my typical type a little on the large side not obese but not my typical type thin waistline nice butt big boobs this girl had none of that except the boobs anyway the first time we had sex it was amazing she made me feel so comfortable and extremely horny so much my getting hard problem wasn’t a problem and reaching a climax no longer was either if anything I was coming too soon sometimes within a minute. I stayed with this woman for a few years and in that time we had amazing sex and most importantly she made me feel that there wasn’t nothing wrong with me. I even told her about the pole climbing and she worked me through the fear of not getting hard or afraid I will fake another orgasm.
Not sure if you will ever read this or even what you wrote is still an issue for you but if you do come across this and nothing has changed.
Don’t give up I have no doubt you too will meet a man who did what this woman did for me and you’ll have the best of both worlds a healthy sex life with another person and occasionally grinding a rope.
Doing a research on the subject I learned that you and I are part of the 15% of the population who stumble upon this form of pleasuring yourself something most people haven’t a clue it’s a thing. I too learned that some of us do it for self soothing others use it for relaxation while the majority of us who do or did it do due to our high sex drive at a very young age which follows us into adulthood.
So the way you feel is a normal reaction and just your body craving more and that more is out there all it takes is the right person to bring it out or a person you feel so comfortable with that you explain what you discovered in childhood and sharing that experience no longer keeping it bury inside your mind you free up your feelings and get what you are looking for in sex.

Good luck and if you ever what to talk or tell a person who understands how you feel hmu anytime I will get back to you as soon as I see a message from you
Take care bye
One last thing NO YOU ARE NOT BROKEN!! Just haven’t been able to unlock your true desires just like I was unable for all them years.