Define yourself
Re: Define yourself
My most orgasms have been through masturbation, second, straight sex, and gay sex a distant third. However, in terms of defining my cock, I would have to be classified as gay, as I usually ejaculated to gay porn and male memories. I had experiences with men long before I did with women, as a kid, and now I am with a male partner.
Re: Define yourself
Although I am married to woman and have considered myself bi for some time, my sexuality has been changing over time and believe that I am now probably gay. All my sexual thoughts and desires these days are of sex with other men. Hard for me to imagine having sex with a woman now.
Re: Define yourself
I am definitely straight. I have absolutely no interest in having sexual relations with another man other than masturbating on cam.
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I am straight but I have had thoughts about men. I have felt attracted to some men, sexually desired a couple of them, and had oral with men. The first time, although I had desired it, I felt my masculinity was challenged. I had a sense of guilt for some time. I thought that having sex with many women would wipe clean my guilt or shame. Later on had another session of oral but I realized that on both occasions the men I had been with were the wrong ones. Then I met a younger man and I felt very attracted to him. I don't know how many times I thought of him while masturbating. Although nothing happened with him, I came to realize that my sexuality is 95% straight, I have that that 5% that attracts me to men. Some cocks are very...-appealing, but most are a big Nah!
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Now that I’m older and having fucked a couple of miles of vagina.
What I’d really like is a shot at group sex with lesbians. But one on one with a mature lesbian that wanted try out a penis for the first time would be way cool.
What I’d really like is a shot at group sex with lesbians. But one on one with a mature lesbian that wanted try out a penis for the first time would be way cool.
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blackboxer500
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Re: Define yourself
There are various aspects of my sexuality. The clearest line comes when love is concerned. I can love women romantically but not guys. I have fallen in love with women multiple times, with five serious longterm relationships. I enjoy sex with women and everything about them, and enjoy being married to a great, sexy, open minded woman. My best friends, save one, are women, with just a few close ones. (My BFF, other than my wife, is a gay man).
I’ve never fallen in love with a man, and the likelihood that I ever could have has always been low. But I think a lot about, and crave, sex with other men. In particular, it is hard ejaculating cocks that I crave. I don’t want to kiss and cuddle with men, though I,would,if they wanted to, but I want their cocks in my hands or mouth.
Aside from a childhood experience over two or three days with a boy a year older, I’ve only had sex with two guys. One was my best friend in college after a night of beer and bongs, although we weren’t highly intoxicated. He gave me a handjob and I gave him a blowjob. We never spoke of it after that night but I wish we had because I now know he would have liked me as a no strings FWB. It was a very homophobic time in the deep American south and so I guess that kept us quiet.
The other guy is my gay best friend mentioned above. It’s hardly been sex, however, rather just getting naked, masturbating, and yes suck and massage each other’s cocks, but never cumming. It was always too late in the night for us to really get into it, plus a little too much alcohol. But we laughed at how odd this was after decades of friendship. We were both in our early 60s when it happened, but not in the past couple of years. He thinks of me more a platonic friend. We’re both cool if it ever does happen again or if it doesn’t.
I’ve online chatted with many guys and had a knack there for a couple of years for chatting them to orgasm. Apparently I would make a good sext worker! I’ve exchanged naughty pics with guys I’ve met online. I’ve considered meeting up with such a dude but have a bolder libido than I do personality to go through with it. But I’ve not written it off. In the past couple years I’ve moved to a large city with an active masturbation club, the Atlanta Jacks, where up to 40 or so guys meet a couple of times or so per month at a sex club to masturbate. I want to go there and have not written it off. A temporarily disabling injury soon after we moved here slowed down my plans to go to a Jacks meeting, and who knows if I’ll ever go. I hope I do but not confident I will. I will feel good about it regardless and put zero pressure on myself.
My wife knows about all the above and is cool with it, and consents to me having safer-sex with guys. For example she advised me to get mpox vaccinated, which I did, and encourages me to consider PrEP if I do more with a guy than mutual masturbation. She reads about sex and based on her understanding she cocluded I am hetero-amorous/bisexual. I can fall in love only with women, but want sex with all genders. Yes, I would consider sex with a nonbinary person, but given how limited my non-straight experience has been, pansexual or omnisexual sounds way too esoteric for me, who in practice has been 99.9% straight.
I’ve never fallen in love with a man, and the likelihood that I ever could have has always been low. But I think a lot about, and crave, sex with other men. In particular, it is hard ejaculating cocks that I crave. I don’t want to kiss and cuddle with men, though I,would,if they wanted to, but I want their cocks in my hands or mouth.
Aside from a childhood experience over two or three days with a boy a year older, I’ve only had sex with two guys. One was my best friend in college after a night of beer and bongs, although we weren’t highly intoxicated. He gave me a handjob and I gave him a blowjob. We never spoke of it after that night but I wish we had because I now know he would have liked me as a no strings FWB. It was a very homophobic time in the deep American south and so I guess that kept us quiet.
The other guy is my gay best friend mentioned above. It’s hardly been sex, however, rather just getting naked, masturbating, and yes suck and massage each other’s cocks, but never cumming. It was always too late in the night for us to really get into it, plus a little too much alcohol. But we laughed at how odd this was after decades of friendship. We were both in our early 60s when it happened, but not in the past couple of years. He thinks of me more a platonic friend. We’re both cool if it ever does happen again or if it doesn’t.
I’ve online chatted with many guys and had a knack there for a couple of years for chatting them to orgasm. Apparently I would make a good sext worker! I’ve exchanged naughty pics with guys I’ve met online. I’ve considered meeting up with such a dude but have a bolder libido than I do personality to go through with it. But I’ve not written it off. In the past couple years I’ve moved to a large city with an active masturbation club, the Atlanta Jacks, where up to 40 or so guys meet a couple of times or so per month at a sex club to masturbate. I want to go there and have not written it off. A temporarily disabling injury soon after we moved here slowed down my plans to go to a Jacks meeting, and who knows if I’ll ever go. I hope I do but not confident I will. I will feel good about it regardless and put zero pressure on myself.
My wife knows about all the above and is cool with it, and consents to me having safer-sex with guys. For example she advised me to get mpox vaccinated, which I did, and encourages me to consider PrEP if I do more with a guy than mutual masturbation. She reads about sex and based on her understanding she cocluded I am hetero-amorous/bisexual. I can fall in love only with women, but want sex with all genders. Yes, I would consider sex with a nonbinary person, but given how limited my non-straight experience has been, pansexual or omnisexual sounds way too esoteric for me, who in practice has been 99.9% straight.
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scoobysnack69
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Re: Define yourself
I’d guess that there’s not really a *single* word or definition that describes where I’m at, but I consider myself straight. Some of you might want to argue with that, and I’m ok with that. Let me explain.
Married. Kids. Happy. Not looking to go anywhere, regardless of the sex or attractiveness of the other party.
On the other hand, I’ve had three years-long jerk off buddies over the years, and those memories are incredibly freaking hot to recall, and thinking about those times will get me to bust a nut in no time flat.
Here’s the way I look at it…
I’m attracted to women. Love them, love their shape(s), all types, flavors and sizes. If there’s a woman and she’s showing anything much more than a normal amount of anything, it’s noticed and probably admired by me.
Also, if I think of kissing/romance/attraction, I’ve only ever felt that for a female. Ever.
Remembering my (horny) youth, I wanted to get off. Pretty much always. Multiple times a day for many days in a row was not out of the norm. But I was the class pipsqueak, small for my age, and landing a girl, especially one that would let me have sex with her in any form, was out of the question.
But in talking, as boys do, about anything and everything sexual and all of the fantasies one has at that age, we did a good job at getting each other worked up to the point (and over time) where we’d be comfortable not only jerking off in front of each other (holy crap - you want to talk about a major turn on, just watch somebody cum. Amiright?) but with each of the three, over time, things progressed physically to jerking each other off to completion, some light anal, 69ing each other, finally to 69 with cum in mouth, the whole gamut. Gay stuff. And this was years ago long before anything other than straight was accepted socially. You got beat up for that crap.
You also need to know that my feelings towards anyone -any one - other than straight, in my eyes? Great. Have at it. You do you and I’ll do me. Seriously. No judgement.
And when I say gay stuff, what I meant there is gay sex. But to me there’s another component to being gay, or at least other than straight. It’s the attraction component. Let me explain further.
Any of the three guys that were my JO buds over the years? Never kissed one. Never wanted to. They’re friends (*close* friends) and I care about them as friends but there’s zero *attraction*. It was just the raw sex component. I could honestly say that some of the sexual memories I have from those days are some of the hottest sexual memories that I have. And recalling those can send me over the edge almost immediately. But even in those hottest of moments, I never felt the desire to kiss, or be romantic, or anything of that sort, with any of them. In fact, the thought of kissing any of them is actually a turn-off. I never looked down at any of them when they had my dick in their mouth and thought to myself that I wanted to give them a kiss…. Same when I looked up as I sucked them off…. And never thought about our “relationship” or any of that…. It was just about getting our rocks off with each other, and a great deal of deep trust. Maybe someone can explain it to me, I’m not sure.
And now? I play a sport as an adult in organized leagues. Twice a week I’m in a locker room with a dozen other guys, and over half of them will head to the showers after a game. And when guys like that(for the most part) head to the shower, they’re carrying their body wash and towel and heading there nude.
And I’ve never seen a guy naked from any of those experiences and thought about his dick, or any desire to “hook up” with any of them, much less the want to kiss anyone.
And through the years? I’ve seen my share of “attractive” guys, whether it’s their physique or their face or their personality. And never once have I thought that I wanted to have a relationship with them, let alone kiss, or suck their dick. Just never happened.
So I hope that explains why I say I’m straight, but I also want understand if someone disagrees and wants to argue. I get it. Blurred lines, not clear ones.
And even after all these years, any of those three JO buddies show up unannounced? I’d very much consider either giving or getting a BJ….
In fact, one of the three recently contacted me through social media, and wants to get together to “relive some old memories”.
I’m considering it, and if it ends up happening, I doubt that either of us will end up telling our wives about it…
After all… they might end up questioning their husbands’ sexuality…
Married. Kids. Happy. Not looking to go anywhere, regardless of the sex or attractiveness of the other party.
On the other hand, I’ve had three years-long jerk off buddies over the years, and those memories are incredibly freaking hot to recall, and thinking about those times will get me to bust a nut in no time flat.
Here’s the way I look at it…
I’m attracted to women. Love them, love their shape(s), all types, flavors and sizes. If there’s a woman and she’s showing anything much more than a normal amount of anything, it’s noticed and probably admired by me.
Also, if I think of kissing/romance/attraction, I’ve only ever felt that for a female. Ever.
Remembering my (horny) youth, I wanted to get off. Pretty much always. Multiple times a day for many days in a row was not out of the norm. But I was the class pipsqueak, small for my age, and landing a girl, especially one that would let me have sex with her in any form, was out of the question.
But in talking, as boys do, about anything and everything sexual and all of the fantasies one has at that age, we did a good job at getting each other worked up to the point (and over time) where we’d be comfortable not only jerking off in front of each other (holy crap - you want to talk about a major turn on, just watch somebody cum. Amiright?) but with each of the three, over time, things progressed physically to jerking each other off to completion, some light anal, 69ing each other, finally to 69 with cum in mouth, the whole gamut. Gay stuff. And this was years ago long before anything other than straight was accepted socially. You got beat up for that crap.
You also need to know that my feelings towards anyone -any one - other than straight, in my eyes? Great. Have at it. You do you and I’ll do me. Seriously. No judgement.
And when I say gay stuff, what I meant there is gay sex. But to me there’s another component to being gay, or at least other than straight. It’s the attraction component. Let me explain further.
Any of the three guys that were my JO buds over the years? Never kissed one. Never wanted to. They’re friends (*close* friends) and I care about them as friends but there’s zero *attraction*. It was just the raw sex component. I could honestly say that some of the sexual memories I have from those days are some of the hottest sexual memories that I have. And recalling those can send me over the edge almost immediately. But even in those hottest of moments, I never felt the desire to kiss, or be romantic, or anything of that sort, with any of them. In fact, the thought of kissing any of them is actually a turn-off. I never looked down at any of them when they had my dick in their mouth and thought to myself that I wanted to give them a kiss…. Same when I looked up as I sucked them off…. And never thought about our “relationship” or any of that…. It was just about getting our rocks off with each other, and a great deal of deep trust. Maybe someone can explain it to me, I’m not sure.
And now? I play a sport as an adult in organized leagues. Twice a week I’m in a locker room with a dozen other guys, and over half of them will head to the showers after a game. And when guys like that(for the most part) head to the shower, they’re carrying their body wash and towel and heading there nude.
And I’ve never seen a guy naked from any of those experiences and thought about his dick, or any desire to “hook up” with any of them, much less the want to kiss anyone.
And through the years? I’ve seen my share of “attractive” guys, whether it’s their physique or their face or their personality. And never once have I thought that I wanted to have a relationship with them, let alone kiss, or suck their dick. Just never happened.
So I hope that explains why I say I’m straight, but I also want understand if someone disagrees and wants to argue. I get it. Blurred lines, not clear ones.
And even after all these years, any of those three JO buddies show up unannounced? I’d very much consider either giving or getting a BJ….
In fact, one of the three recently contacted me through social media, and wants to get together to “relive some old memories”.
I’m considering it, and if it ends up happening, I doubt that either of us will end up telling our wives about it…
After all… they might end up questioning their husbands’ sexuality…
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dirtymind1976
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Re: Define yourself
48y male Straight, exhibist/nudist.
Love young women and girls 14y and up.
I've been abused and have also abused.
Love young women and girls 14y and up.
I've been abused and have also abused.
Re: Define yourself
Even though since puberty, I have gotten an occasional blowjob from different males, I still considered myself to be heterosexual because I never sucked a cock or had anal sex. However, over the last few years I have become very curious as to how it would feel stroking and sucking a man's cock. I'm not interested in men, their bodies or having a relationship with another man. I am only interested in their cock. So, at this point I guess I would consider myself heteroflexible!?!?mash2014 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 09, 2022 4:53 am How do you define sexually? Straight? Gay? Bi? Bicurious? Heteroflexible? Wanting to experiment with the unknown?
I've been straight although I've had in the past experiences with men. When I was around 15 I remember a classmate that I thought was cute. After I married I met a younger man that I thought was beautiful and for the first time in my life I masturbated thinking of another man. Lately, I've found myself attracted reading male to male stories, when not too long ago I didn't find them desirable at all. Maybe, in the last 3 months I've masturbated thinking of cock more than in my entire life. However, I still don't feel attracted to any man.
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How do you define sexually? Straight? Gay? Bi? Bicurious? Heteroflexible? Wanting to experiment with the unknown?
Labels Labels, why does everyone need labels ?
Labels Labels, why does everyone need labels ?
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Re: Define yourself
The older women seem to want me because I’m almost always naked when they come across me.
I think they find me attractive.
I think they find me attractive.
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You lucky dog!!! Where do you manage to get away with all this public or open nudity??iamnaked wrote: ↑Tue Oct 08, 2024 10:24 am Yes, several. The older men like me I think because I’m almost always naked when they come across me and I flat out ask if they’d like their cock sucked. It’s amusing how fast they pull it out and get hard.
When I’m caught nude it’s easy to tell right away if the guy wants it.
If they stop and ask any questions dicks coming out.
If they smile and move on they’re not into it.
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All I need is any place that isn’t frequented by the police. They can’t be everywhere.
Plus my point of no return tactics helps me.
For example:
Parks frequented by lonely horny guys, ALL guys are always horned up right !
I park far away and walk in.
Then I hide my clothes if I actually walked in with any.
I guarantdamteeya a nice looking non threatening nude guy WILL get approached.
Second :
Semi secluded nude sunbathing.
The problem there is it takes an extreme exhibitionist like me to,
‘Stay the course’ when the second or third or even fourth guy walks up to chat and have a look.
I have many other ways.
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I have never been afraid of anyone or any group seeing me nude, but I am always worried about getting arrested. I don't know what country you are from, but where I'm at they highly frown on public nudity, especially male nudity. For some reason a penis is very threatening or dangerous as far as the local "puritans" are concerned!!!iamnaked wrote: ↑Wed Oct 09, 2024 6:56 pm All I need is any place that isn’t frequented by the police. They can’t be everywhere.
Plus my point of no return tactics helps me.
For example:
Parks frequented by lonely horny guys, ALL guys are always horned up right !
I park far away and walk in.
Then I hide my clothes if I actually walked in with any.
I guarantdamteeya a nice looking non threatening nude guy WILL get approached.
Second :
Semi secluded nude sunbathing.
The problem there is it takes an extreme exhibitionist like me to,
‘Stay the course’ when the second or third or even fourth guy walks up to chat and have a look.
I have many other ways.
Re: Define yourself
Straight male in his 50s - also a curious bi-sexual. I have masturbated online with young guys, but never in real life. Addicted to voyeurism!! - contact me if similar or interested.
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dirtyfetishman
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Re: Define yourself
I'm predominantly straight. As in, I'm not romantically attracted to men but sexually I'm down for fun.
I guess I'm bi but like I said. I generally prefer females and I don't have thoughts of dating men..
I guess I'm bi but like I said. I generally prefer females and I don't have thoughts of dating men..