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Solo touching in front of others

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This could be a poll type question and perhaps would also lean heavily on personal tastes; is it easier for males to touch themselves with other males or with females or with both somewhat equally. Same goes for females; would you find it easier to masturbate in front of a male or another female? What are the possible dynamics here?
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I guess it would be either. I have masturbated in front of a girl I was dating but she had her period so I ended up masturbating in front of her. I masturbated in front of a guy, we had been drinking heavily and snorting coke and watching porn we both decided to jerk off. I would love to do it completely sober.
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It's been decades since I masturbated with another male. I was probably 14 at time. And six decades later I'd like try again. In a heartbeat.
Apart from my wife who I've done it in front of a million times, I've done it in front of a female co-worker 2-3 times, her fully clothed. I dropped to my knees in front of her, dropped my pants, pulled out the cock and masturbated while she watched.
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wheelboy2 wrote: Sat Feb 03, 2024 1:57 am It's been decades since I masturbated with another male. I was probably 14 at time. And six decades later I'd like try again. In a heartbeat.
Apart from my wife who I've done it in front of a million times, I've done it in front of a female co-worker 2-3 times, her fully clothed. I dropped to my knees in front of her, dropped my pants, pulled out the cock and masturbated while she watched.
That’s so cool to have a wide range and variety of such experiences! So good for you :P
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mash2014 wrote: Fri Feb 02, 2024 5:35 am I guess it would be either. I have masturbated in front of a girl I was dating but she had her period so I ended up masturbating in front of her. I masturbated in front of a guy, we had been drinking heavily and snorting coke and watching porn we both decided to jerk off. I would love to do it completely sober.
A true pleasure to be shared in good company :P
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I still think that this is an intimate matter, no matter what they say about it. But, at the same time, if it so happened that I became noticed, then of course I would be grateful that I was not prevented from completing the process.
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I'll happily strip naked and wank myself off for any male who wants to watch. Done it hundreds of times over the years in front of singles, couples, and groups.
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When I was in my teens and twenties I masturbated with other guys lots of times. They were always close friends whom I could trust. As I got older, I much prefer to be with my wife but there were one or two guys but it was no longer a regular thing.

To answer the questions, I guess I am more comfortable wanking with other guys if I can trust them.
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I find it equally hot with either.

However, I can enjoy jerking with a male that I don't otherwise find attractive. If I didn't find the female attractive, however, I wouldn't be as excited about it. (But probably would anyway if the situation arose!)
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I also have discovered over time that I like both.

As far as women go, it has been great doing it with women that I am involved with or know. I've also done it in front of women at peep shows and in my car in front of "working" women, but as far as anonymous women for the most part its not easy because of limited opportunities where the women would feel comfortable or not threatened.

I've never been involved with another man or done it in front of male friends, so its only been in front of anonymous like-minded men. If you know where to go (Adult Bookstores, XXX theaters, Jack-off Clubs) it is pretty easy to find willing voyeurs and therefore easy to do. As far as mindset, I used to worry about being seen or negative reactions from homo-phobic guys, but I've yet to have a negative experience, so have grown comfortable with masturbating around men.
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