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Just wondering how many other straight males enjoy being given a HJ by an experienced male?
And how many straight males enjoy giving another male friend a HJ?
What is it that really turns you on about giving a HJ?
My experience is, that I really enjoyed the feeling of his long, hard, shaft jumping and pulsating in my hands and knowing that I had complete control over making him Explode! I love showing off my stroking skills that I have learned from watching solo males stroking themselves videos.
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From the time I fondled cock when I was very young I do remember the hardness of another cock was indescribable. So hard yet so soft. When I touched and BJ’d another man I questioned my virility or manhood but then as I reached a certain age I started to reconsider many things of my sexuality, to the point that not too long ago I started to have a desire to touch another man and go down on him or be on the receiving end, even to the point that accidentally another man's cock brushed against my buttocks and I felt aroused. However, I have no desire of cuddling or having anal sex with men, giving or receiving but feeling him and he feeling me is what I find exciting.
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I had a few limited experiences with other boys growing up, once feeling compelled to grab/stroke/fondle a friend's erect penis as he started to masturbate and a few times fondling another friend through his clothes. At the time I felt a little guilty about it afterward (particularly the first time when the unexpected urge to play with my friend's exposed dick was strong enough that I did it with 2 other boys there watching), and after the curious phase focused on girls/women.

In middle age, the desire to play with other men returned. I have played with a handful (pun intended) of other men's cocks and had men play with mine. Although I have jacked off for other men a few times, I have yet to cum via a handjob from another man or milk another man's penis until he releases his load.

One of my hottest erotic goals is to give a handjob to another man until he explodes.

I recently was in a porn theater which had a sofa in the back. At first, I was the only one there, but was joined by a man who saw me openly masturbating. I patted the seat next to me inviting him to sit down. When he sat next to me, I saw he was a young man, probably 22-23. This was exciting to me so I immediately told him I wanted to see his dick (this was the first time I ever said that to another man). I was already hard, but he started out soft. We took turns stroking each other's penises and our own and I enjoyed feeling and watching him grow hard and erect. I had him very close to cumming, but he wanted me to stop before he did. I was looking forward to feeling his penis throb in my hand, watching the semen shoot out, and feeling his hot load on my hand.

He said he wanted me to cum on his face (which I had never tried), so I stood over him as he knelt on the floor. He opened his mouth and stuck out his tongue as he continued to stroke his cock. Seeing him like that sent me over the edge and I rewarded him with a few hot ropes of cum on his face as he desired. As I was unloading on him, I looked down and saw that he was ejaculating on the floor.
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Sounds like my kind of theater. I'd add a load to the mix!
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Mash 2014,
I too have no interest to suck another male cock and especially any anal stuff or pain or bondage. Just mutual stroking ourselves together.
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Rathb69,
I totally understand what you mean. One of fantasies is to actually get a chance to give another male a long, edging, and teasing HJ. The feeling of knowing that I had complete control over making another male explode , feeling his long hard cock jumping and pulsating in my hands must be amazing!!
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Growing up in a very rural small town in the 1970's gave us guys a lot of opportunities to experiement. My slightly older friend introduced me to the excitement of playing with our cocks and I began to initiate these activites with my other friends. Looking back, I find it interesting that practically all of my friends were game at some point in our friendship. I discovered that playing a game truth or dare was usually a good conversation starter.
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As a young teen my friend and I would explore each others cocks. We often gave each other hand jobs but what we really liked was froting. We always tried to cum at the same time but it only happened a few times.
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ive milked quite a few men off. mainly internet hook ups.

one married guy he use to go jogging on a sunday as an excuse to get away from his mrs. i would tie him to the bed and take control of his cock and wank it, tease it, suck it, use a fleshlight on it, have him begging me to make him cum. other guys ive milked on all 4's. i like oiling up their cock and finding those sweet spots that get them gooning

myself i have a submissive guy who visits me. he sucks and wanks me off for hours one end whilst i edge to porn.
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See my story here, "My First Time at the Glory Holes," about my first visit (last September) to an adult bookstore at age 76. Heart- pounding excitement playing with other cocks.
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This is a great topic and discussion, and I count myself as a mostly straight guy who likes hard, ejaculating cocks. My experience is limited and concern about STIs inhibits me, but under the right circumstances I would love to give or receive handjobs and blowjobs with other guys.

I call myself "mostly straight" because am I "straight" if this is on my wishlist? Traditionlly one might say no -- if a guy wants cock then he's not straight. But it isn't that simple, is it? My wife helped me understand that sexual attraction/desire does not (necessarily) correlate 100% with emotional attachment. She helped my see that I am probably best described as hetero-amorous/bi-sexual. That is to say I can only become emotionally attached to women, the most extreme case I guess would be falling in love -- but I like the idea of sex with guys, too.

With women I get all fuzzy inside and want to hug and kiss and have all sorts of physical interaction. I'd prefer it if her emotional attachment to me was the same as mine for her. With guys, if I lived out all my desires, I would focus more strictly on penis pleasure, both his and mine. Emotions wouldn't really be a part of it.
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wankwank wrote: Wed Mar 09, 2022 5:30 am ive milked quite a few men off. mainly internet hook ups.

one married guy he use to go jogging on a sunday as an excuse to get away from his mrs. i would tie him to the bed and take control of his cock and wank it, tease it, suck it, use a fleshlight on it, have him begging me to make him cum. other guys ive milked on all 4's. i like oiling up their cock and finding those sweet spots that get them gooning

myself i have a submissive guy who visits me. he sucks and wanks me off for hours one end whilst i edge to porn.
Thats funny, coz I was seeing a lady who was deserted by her husband 5 hours Sundays to play golf with his 'business' friends. So we started with a brunch and had happy hours till 2 pm. Great time had by all. She liked hj/ bj me of course, and after the routine she had me fist her to the giggles.

Also she started to pick me up from city when he was away late and we'd forgo dinner except some wine and pretty much play till mid-evening. Who needed a needy gf when you have a much more benevolent lover.? And yes, we had a MMF 3some one weekend!
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i prefer frotting than hand jobs by guys
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Sean1969 wrote:
> i prefer frotting than hand jobs by guys

Some won't have tried it, me, I'll take a mix and match any way/ day... :ugeek: :x :x
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Your not a straight male if you do hand jobs with another guy.
Put another way,
If you have any kind of sex with someone that’s the same sex as you your at the very least exploring your bisexual side.
Get over the homophobia and get it on!
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iamnaked wrote: Tue Jun 06, 2023 10:39 am Your not a straight male if you do hand jobs with another guy.
Put another way,
If you have any kind of sex with someone that’s the same sex as you your at the very least exploring your bisexual side.
Get over the homophobia and get it on!
I don't like putting people in fixed boxes/categories. Having said that, I have always identified as straight, but now like pushing my own envelope by doing things that others consider "bi" or even "gay".

I get off watching videos of men masturbating (mostly) and sucking cock (can also be hot) but not so much having anal sex. I sometimes give in to the urge for cock play with other men. I don't know what that makes me other than "curious", but I love my explorations into this taboo side of myself. When I was growing up, "homo" had a certain negative meaning, but now I feel adventurous for pursuing and indulging in some of my homo-erotic cock fantasies.
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Horney is a powerful thing.
A hand is a hand, a mouth is a mouth and a back door, well these things are pretty much the same on males and females.
If it feels good do it.
No one needs to be labeled..
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Love frotting here
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Sean1969 wrote: Sun Sep 03, 2023 1:13 am Love frotting here
Some like boundaries, and arms length, (or even just observing) is often the case. Me i'm happy to both and he pleasure of a non-violent recipient is all that matters.
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