why pleasure in watching ejaculation?

[mash2014]

In the late 80s and early 90s, I had a video camera and I would record myself ejaculating. Then I would enjoy watching myself masturbate and my facial reactions. Sometimes it was a wow expression. And others was a deep deep orgasm. The latter was my favorite.

[erinslittlesecret]

Okay, this is the first time I've actually read through some of this thread. Someone lamented that no female members had responded here, and it seems you're right. So I'll be the first.

First off, while I really like written erotica, I usually don't care for "visual" porn. Probably because it's so often about the guy blowing his load and little else (though some is more female-oriented and I can get into that).

I like watching a man ejaculate if it's me that made him do it -- but ONLY if it's consenting and invited. I have to add that last bit on there because it has happened to me uninvited on a couple occasions, and then it's creepy or downright scary. Both of those occasions were on a nudist beach where some guy I didn't know checked me out and used me for his own gratification without my consent.

Now on the other hand, I do remember a few times on a particular beach in Santa Cruz where I had been chatting with a guy I didn't know but had casually met there and he got rock-hard. That didn't bother me at all; in fact, I kind of enjoyed it and I started getting turned on by it. In all honesty, if he had asked if it was okay, I'd have let him totally go to town on himself and maybe even helped a bit. But that never happened, and after chatting about random stuff for a bit (while I occasionally glanced at his throbbing cock), we eventually went our separate ways.

Now, I've also watched guys blow their loads at public events like sex clubs and the famous Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco. In that context, it's fun to watch, but it doesn't really get me super turned-on. I'll just watch with my partner and giggle about it more than anything

Anyway, it all depends on context.

But yeah, if I'm having sex with or otherwise playing around with a guy, I love to see him release and it turns me on wildly because it was me that got him there. But otherwise, I'm not really into it. Maybe because I can't really relate to it. Now, I do enjoy watching other women orgasm -- I suppose because I relate to it. And when I watch another woman cum, then I want to cum myself. And then I want us to help each other cum.

[joein]

Next time I am going to ask my mother this question. She watches me cumming but I never thought to ask her why she watches this part. I guess I am still a little embarassed.

[truthseeker12345]

Mutual masturbation is better than just watching. Mutual masturbation can be beneficial if there is consent and agreement between the partners. In mutual masturbation, both partners are in the same room when it occurs. The partners may participate in each other’s masturbation, or each partner may just face each other and masturbate separately. In the participation scenario, the partners will be lying on the bed side by side. The man would turn his head towards the woman and lick and/or suck her nipple. He could massage her breasts and kiss her and touch her sensitive zones. The woman could reach over to the man’s penis and stroke it tenderly. She could also use a bullet vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. The man could also aid in the orgasm by tracing a bullet vibrator in a circle around her clitoris, either with the clitoral hood in place or with the clitoral hood pulled back. A laptop could be placed on the bed with an erotic video playing on the laptop, or the video could be playing on the TV in the room. For the orgasm climax, the woman could use clitoral stimulation to orgasm. The man could use penis stroking to climax and ejaculate. Therapists recommend mutual masturbation to build intimacy in the couple, and it also allows the couple to learn the best arousal methods for both partners. Sex therapist Helena Nista created the video, What Is Mutual Masturbation & How To Do It, that provides more information on this.