BJ to satisfy boyfriend without genital sex

[jemstone]

Somewhere I read that some mothers tell their teen daughters to give a pestering boyfriend a BJ so he will stop asking for genital sex. Is this a common thing mothers advise daughters?

[jschwa]

Somewhere I read that some mothers tell their teen daughters to give a pestering boyfriend a BJ so he will stop asking for genital sex. Is this a common thing mothers advise daughters?

I don't know about that, but I've heard that some teens don't consider oral sex as actual sex.

[oldfan]

I think some adults also don't think oral sex is actual sex!

[jschwa]

I think some adults also don't think oral sex is actual sex!

That's how some of them justify cheating on their spouses. "I didn't have sex with her, it was just blowjob and she doesn't mean anything to me!!" If my wife came home and said: "all he did was eat me out or all I did was suck his cock" she'd still be packing her shit and leaving!!!

[oldfan]

I think some adults also don't think oral sex is actual sex!

That's how some of them justify cheating on their spouses. "I didn't have sex with her, it was just blowjob and she doesn't mean anything to me!!" If my wife came home and said: "all he did was eat me out or all I did was suck his cock" she'd still be packing her shit and leaving!!!

So true...

[iamnaked]

We are all different,
My wife told me outright that mutual oral sex with other women was ok.
But she drew the line there. I was not allowed to fuck other women.
She liked sucking Cocks so that was her way of giving me some rope.
To even things out.
Been married three decades, all is well.

[scharff]

My wife doesn't consider oral sex to be sex. Just stimulation. It's how I ended up with my first FWB's. She was my neighbor and we were always flirting. When my wife got frustrated with me wanting any kind of sex, she told me to get a blowjob from my neighbor and I did a few days later. That was in 2018 and I have a few other friends who enjoy fun times together even though they are all married as well.

[mrhandy69]

I think some adults also don't think oral sex is actual sex!

That's how some of them justify cheating on their spouses. "I didn't have sex with her, it was just blowjob and she doesn't mean anything to me!!" If my wife came home and said: "all he did was eat me out or all I did was suck his cock"

I would have said, "So, why didn't you invite me?"

[jschwa]

My wife doesn't consider oral sex to be sex. Just stimulation. It's how I ended up with my first FWB's. She was my neighbor and we were always flirting. When my wife got frustrated with me wanting any kind of sex, she told me to get a blowjob from my neighbor and I did a few days later. That was in 2018 and I have a few other friends who enjoy fun times together even though they are all married as well.

Fortunately or maybe unfortunately, I never had that problem. My ex loved to suck my cock up until the day we got divorced!

[scharff]

To be fair, she never did like sucking cock and never, ever took cum in her mouth but that's how she is. No judgement. We're just different people. My neighbor on the other hand was quite different. She didn't enjoy fucking but she loved to suck dick and masturbates all the time. I like how we're all different.

[mash2014]

To be fair, she never did like sucking cock and never, ever took cum in her mouth but that's how she is. No judgement. We're just different people. My neighbor on the other hand was quite different. She didn't enjoy fucking but she loved to suck dick and masturbates all the time. I like how we're all different.

I am very much like your neighbor. I love to go down and also masturbate. Don't get me wrong I love fucking but I prefer masturbation. And I have gone down on everyone I've had sex with, male and female.

[iammmd55]

Don’t know about moms & daughters, but as a 20-something in the ‘90s, I was surprised by women’s attitudes toward BJ’s, which had always seemed to me (and still do) more intimate and / or risqué than intercourse. (Same with going down on her.)

So, to hear my female friends back then say blowjobs “don’t count,” to be offered one on more than one occasion, and to be getting one on a first or second date, was shocking (pleasantly so) to say the least.

[deeblue]

I remember reading many years ago that Japanese mothers were so concerned that their university student sons would be distracted from the their studies by girls, that they would actually let the sons have sex with them.

[jemstone]

Don’t know about moms & daughters, but as a 20-something in the ‘90s, I was surprised by women’s attitudes toward BJ’s, which had always seemed to me (and still do) more intimate and / or risqué than intercourse. (Same with going down on her.)

So, to hear my female friends back then say blowjobs “don’t count,” to be offered one on more than one occasion, and to be getting one on a first or second date, was shocking (pleasantly so) to say the least.

I was with a group of middle-aged women (our friends) who asked me if sucking a cock counted as sex. I said yes, but most of them said no.