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by maturebator
Wed Oct 13, 2021 10:51 pm
Forum: But Seriously...
Topic: Couples who share masturbation
Replies: 12
Views: 10104

Couples who share masturbation

I've probably posted on this topic before. Aren't there any other couples out there that share masturbation in their relationship? And by that I mean not only doing it together or doing each other, but who also are comfortable with each other enjoying solo play time? We've been doing that for over 5...
by maturebator
Wed Oct 13, 2021 10:45 pm
Forum: Confessions & Fantasies
Topic: My fantasy
Replies: 49
Views: 23036

Re: My fantasy

I think that's wonderful.
by maturebator
Sun Oct 10, 2021 8:16 pm
Forum: The Lounge
Topic: How honest are you going n the forum?
Replies: 53
Views: 144638

Re: How honest are you going n the forum?

I prefer to open all the doors. Be honest. That's some of the most arousing sharing.
by maturebator
Sun Sep 05, 2021 8:43 pm
Forum: Sexuality After 60
Topic: Masturbation vs Penetration
Replies: 15
Views: 8135

Re: Masturbation vs Penetration

For us - a happily married couple who have been masturbating (solo and shared) for over 50 years - it was never a question of one form of sexual pleasure being "better" than another, but then, that's an individual's choice. For us, each form of pleasure had it's own place "on the shel...
by maturebator
Tue Apr 20, 2021 7:34 pm
Forum: The Lounge
Topic: Kinkiest thing you have done?
Replies: 69
Views: 72185

Re: Kinkiest thing you have done?

Great post and great (redundant) question: what is kinky? Perhaps as the saying goes,"It only seems kinky the first time." As long as it's clean and safe, what is kinky? Shooting your load into your own mouth? (done that) Getting fucked with a carrot (peeled)? (done that) Fucking a melon? ...
by maturebator
Wed Apr 07, 2021 1:07 pm
Forum: But Seriously...
Topic: Masturbation in a loving relationship, right or wrong?
Replies: 39
Views: 39483

Re: Masturbation in a loving relationship, right or wrong?

I've been coming to Solotouch for a long time and it is rather notable that you don't see more submissions or forum activity from people in relationships that enjoy sharing masturbation. We've been enjoying that from almost the very beginning of our relationship. "Coming out" to one anothe...
by maturebator
Fri Aug 21, 2020 11:35 am
Forum: Sexuality After 60
Topic: Erections through the years
Replies: 16
Views: 21263

Re: Erections through the years

Erections - or should I say "quality erections" - come and go as we age. I can still enjoy hammer handle boners through using Levitra. But the urge to masturbate is pretty constant. Enjoy what you have. It's all good.
by maturebator
Fri Feb 14, 2020 9:58 pm
Forum: Toys
Topic: Ladies and Gentlemen.. your fav toy used?
Replies: 21
Views: 23183

Re: Ladies and Gentlemen.. your fav toy used?

I always encourage masturbators to check out The Eroscillator. It's my wife's tool of choice and it has been for 40 years. We've used all manner of toys and it was great fun, not to mention it FELT great. But after a while, she got tired of having cheap vibrators crap-out on her at just the wrong mo...
by maturebator
Sat Jan 25, 2020 1:33 am
Forum: SoloTouch Chat
Topic: Older Guys Masturbating
Replies: 172
Views: 9213535

Re: Older Guys Masturbating

70, here. Healthy. A passionate masturbator for 59 yrs. My wife and I have been enjoying sharing our self-love for decades.
by maturebator
Sun Dec 29, 2019 10:49 pm
Forum: The Bedroom
Topic: Pubic Hair on Females
Replies: 19
Views: 14097

Re: Pubic Hair on Females

My wife maintained a soft little bush for years and then one day in her 40s she shaved it bald and has kept it smooth for decades. She likes it that way, too. Especially when she masturbates.
by maturebator
Sun Nov 10, 2019 1:30 am
Forum: Sexuality After 60
Topic: Lubrication or Dry
Replies: 45
Views: 61520

Re: Lubrication or Dry

I go "both ways," too. I like to start out dry with my warm-up and then lube up as I get more aroused. I almost always finish off lubed. Astroglide for me, fellows.
by maturebator
Wed Oct 09, 2019 9:59 pm
Forum: Confessions & Fantasies
Topic: Tasting your pre cum vs tasing your sperm
Replies: 77
Views: 77910

Re: Tasting your pre cum vs tasing your sperm

I've been tasting and eating both my pre-cum and my cum for decades, but it's not something I do every time, or at least I don't necessarily plan on doing it. I also like to reserve it for those "special moments" and sessions. It's a gourmet treat. An "acquired taste." But if you...
by maturebator
Mon Sep 30, 2019 1:22 pm
Forum: The Bedroom
Topic: Mirrors
Replies: 35
Views: 17001

Re: Mirrors

I've always enjoyed mirror play and will never forget the very first time I masturbated in front of a full-length one, in my parent's bedroom. To be able to look at myself, look into my own eyes and truly "own" my masturbation for the first time. Priceless. I've always considered this to b...
by maturebator
Sat Aug 17, 2019 1:10 am
Forum: Confessions & Fantasies
Topic: Were you taught?
Replies: 76
Views: 111253

Re: Were you taught?

I may have posted on this before, but.....I was taught, or should I say "inducted" into the world of masturbation by the kid next door who was a few years older than me. It was a hot, humid August day and I was sweeping out the garage, dressed only in sneakers and short cut-off jeans. The ...
by maturebator
Sun Oct 22, 2017 11:31 am
Forum: Sexuality After 60
Topic: Masturbation after Retirement
Replies: 63
Views: 237213

Re: Masturbation after Retirement

Oh, it's definitely a matter of opportunity; opportunity to both THINK about it more and DO it more. The two go hand in hand, don't they?
by maturebator
Tue Oct 10, 2017 11:38 am
Forum: But Seriously...
Topic: re:"addiction"
Replies: 19
Views: 11160

re:"addiction"

In late 2016, AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) issued the following statement: "AASECT does not find sufficient empirical evidence to support the classification of sex addiction or porn addiction as a mental health disorder." That's pretty cle...
by maturebator
Fri Oct 06, 2017 2:48 pm
Forum: The Lounge
Topic: Your "default" technique
Replies: 1
Views: 1519

Your "default" technique

Just curious if anyone else out there has experienced this: When I sit down to masturbate, a majority of the time I start out using the very first technique I was shown way back in the beginning. ("pencil grip;" thumb atop and index finger below, the other fingers curled-in). Of course, I ...
by maturebator
Wed Oct 04, 2017 11:16 am
Forum: Frequently Asked Questions
Topic: uploading an image
Replies: 1
Views: 9288

uploading an image

Can you explain how to upload an image from my computer to a forum posting? Thanks.
by maturebator
Tue Oct 03, 2017 8:04 pm
Forum: The Lounge
Topic: "Positive" Masturbation
Replies: 5
Views: 3005

"Positive" Masturbation

By "positive" masturbation, I mean that all of my masturbation-related activities in life - save for the one time my mom found a porn mag stash of mine - have all been pleasant. Enjoyable. As opposed to negative, traumatic. On the internet, I've seen quite a bit of postings where the perso...
by maturebator
Tue Oct 03, 2017 4:48 pm
Forum: But Seriously...
Topic: Bisexuality
Replies: 37
Views: 33821

Re: Bisexuality

I'm definitely bi, and so is my wife. We've both had the pleasure of watching each other with another person of the same gender. But "unconsciously," I think I knew I was bi at a fairly early age. As a pre-teen, I had two very good neighborhood "masturbation buddies" and our get-...