My wife and I have ALWAYS masturbated (privately and together) since our very first year of marriage. For us, it was a no-brainer. We both enjoyed self-pleasure before we ever met one another, and saw no good reason to abandon that pleasure, just because we now had unlimited opportunity for intercou...

Basically, it's just identifying with the person who's ejaculating. Since you enjoy masturbation, you enjoy seeing images of OTHER people enjoying it. Nothing unusual about that. And since it's the culmination of the act, it's always nice to see a particularly good one. Isn't it?

I've enjoyed a number of toys over the years. My very first introduction to them was when I touched my parents' classic Oster vibrator to the tip of my young erection. I probably came in seconds. Later, as an adult, I bought different kinds of masturbation sleeves and vibrators, but right now, my on...

Not really. I'm totally into shaved and trimmed pussy. Plus, my wife shaved hers bald for me decades ago and that's the way she's kept it for me (and her) ever since.

At 68, I'm still doing it at least once a day. I don't miss too many days. And I don't necessarily need or choose to ejaculate every day; at least get in some good edging. I probably ejaculate - on avg. - every other or every third day.

Oh, absolutely! I remember, right prior to my retirement, I was thinking about all the activities I'd have more time to enjoy and I guarantee you, masturbation was on the short list! And now, a few years into my retirement, I've definitely seen some increase in my masturbation activity (totally inte...

I'm another of those men who was never a big producer of pre-cum. I eventually found that the more aroused I was, the more pre-cum I produced (which was still never a great amount). The arrival of my pre-cum sort of became a benchmark for just how aroused I was, and I have found that any kind of ana...

Like a lot of people, at the computer. Not just browsing web sites but masturbating to my own personal collection of images and videos. BEFORE computers, I used to sit on the couch and go through my magazines on the coffee table. I was never that much of a shower 'bator. I do enjoy the occasional nu...

I was fortunate as a pre-teen to have had two really good masturbation buddies. We felt like pioneers of pleasure. It was so wonderfully educational as well as pleasurable. Later in life, I had the opportunity to masturbate with some other male friends (mutual and shared) and loved every minute of i...

If I become really aroused while masturbating and viewing images, I may start to verbalize to myself. Not real often, but it happens.

Actually, one of the most exciting part of our relationship is the fact that we don't have much in the way of "secrets" when it comes to sex/masturbation, because we've so enjoyed confessing them to each other. We were delighted to discover that we both had bi tendencies and that she actua...

I've been "edging" since before the term ever became common. Originally, my masturbation sessions were something like 45 min. max, as that's about the time it took me to browse through a new issue of Penthouse (or whatever other magazine I had), select an image that I thought was the best,...

Well yes, thanks to the efforts of women like Dr. Ruth and Betty Dodson, masturbation - as a legitimate form of sexual pleasure - has perhaps become more "mainstream," but I think we still have a long, long way to go. I always found it interesting that men I knew (friends and coworkers) wo...

I could be wrong, but I don't think I first tasted either my pre-cum or my semen until I was in my late 30s. That was when I (and my wife) began what I'd call a more "serious" exploration of our masturbation and our general sexualities. I found my pre-cum to be a sweet kind of gourmet trea...

A: neither is "better" than the other. In our opinion they are both equally pleasurable forms of sex. Everyone is entitled to their preferences and opinions, of course. We just like it all, equally. And here's an interesting related comment: last year, my wife announced that her vagina jus...

I'm delighted to say that my wife and I (47 years) have been enjoying watching one another masturbate for that entire time. In fact, we "came out" to one another about self-pleasure the very first year of our marriage. It was like a weight being lifted off your shoulders. We loved (and lus...

I'd like to recommend the Hot Octopuss Pulse II. I bought one about a year ago and I've got to say that while I don't use it frequently (it's a pleasant change of pace), I like it more than any other toy I've used (sleeves, vibrators). I like the way it's constructed, I like that the "sweet spo...

My use of condoms for masturbation is not a frequent thing, but I found that I rather enjoy the slight sensual "buffer" that an ultra-thin condom provides. Maybe it's just me, but I find that I can perform some of my "nastiest" strokes (the ones that might otherwise get you off f...

Like a lot of men, I began my relationship with masturbation at age 12. I was shown how by the kid who lived next door. Even though the first ejaculation was "dry," it was a life-changing experience; something I wanted to enjoy and explore for the rest of my life.

I've used a variety of personal lubes over the years and found that the ones I liked best were water-based gel types. And then I just developed a preference for Astroglide - regular formula. It's somewhat thin, but I think it provides the perfect amount of lubricity for me. I tried their gel formula...