If one of us isn’t in the mood then that’s expressed matter of factly, and pressure to change one’s mind is never applied. That said, either of us often will simply give the other what they need without expecting anything in return. (Funny how those situations frequently change the mind of the one w...

What is your concern? Virtually all married men masturbate. (I’d guess most married people do, but with men it’s a certainty.) It’s normal and should be expected. But in my opinion that discussion is one that should be had between you two. In my very strong opinion, any sexual question or concerns r...

It seems like i first joined back in the late 90s. Has it been around that long?

Am I alone if I masturbate in bed while my wife sleeps beside me? That’s not as common as it once was because now at 61 it usually takes enough vigor that I would wake her up. I mean it’s just fine that she knows, but I don’t want to disturb her. My favorite place to do it alone using my most power...

I do not have a favorite, rather it varies without any pattern. Sometimes I fantasize about fucking a woman, which usually isn’t my wife. (To be clear I adore and worship my wife, but I can fuck her virtually anytime I want, so no need to fantasize). Then my gears will switch and i fantasize about c...

People are attracted to sex, and many, many people have a much wider fantasy range than what they either practice or are willing to actually do. But people do often venture out of their safe zones and explore their fantasy. Straight people are seldom 100% straight, even though they may consider them...

Wanking is the worst term for masturnation.

Pharmaceuticals save lives and are great if used properly. As with any tool, they can be misused and abused, but without my daily anti-depressant i would have stopped wanting to live long ago. It’s a brain chemistry issue so please don’t suggest i could just will myself into being well or read a sel...

I’ve submitted a few to ST over many years. It takes a very good writer to turn out a hot story and I’m not confident mine make the grade. Everyone is different and will like things i dislike, and I can’t give a recipe for a successful story but I can say what I don’t like. 1. I don’t like fantasies...

I echo what other old timers have said. In the 70s and 80s, here in the American deep south, nobody masturbated. :lol: I mean you could ask around and nobody would admit to it. My best friend in high school once said to me “I admit it, I masturbate” and i thought it was the coolest thing anyone had ...

Not a complaint in any form or fashion to those who use slang but is there anyone else who finds technical terms for sexuality more sexy than slang? For example i simply do not like “cut” and “uncut”. Circumcised and uncircumcised take longer to tap out but, no offense to anyone, cut and uncut just ...

50 to 60 sex partners or 50 to 60 years of age? Im 61 with the sex drive of 21. But i am a man. But a man who both likes to fuck women and be fucked like a woman. I should call myself Tiresias.

Not exactly cheap but the Doxy extra powerful die cast wand vibrator, with the lovehoney Hummer deluxe attachment changed my life. A little loud maybe but super amazing!

Wow, the random phone calls idea and the response to telemarketers… never occurred to me. Today I’d be too concerned with caller ID and the growing ability to track even burner phones to do the random calls, but I may give the telemarketer idea a try.

My father died very young and so everything fell to Mother. I was an adult before I finally realized that the Life Cycle Library set was her way of teaching me about sex. I was petrified of the books for years. When I finally got up the nerve, the books explained among other things how masturbation ...

My wife and I masturbate together quite frequently. Occasionally it’s just pure fucking and sucking but probably most of the time sex either includes masturbation or we simply lay next to each other while one or both masturbates, usually with legs touching, or maybe her hovering over my cock waiting...

Long answer: I used to think we do it because it feels good, but there’s something a lot more powerful than pleasure-seeking going on. It really can be understood best in terms of drive, as in sex drive. Our species is so very successful in large part because of how much we are driven to have sex. C...

My wife helped my understand that I am bisexual and heteroamous. This means I like sex with men and women but can only fall in love with women. I’d never have thought to separate the sex and emotions like that, but this made my self understanding fall into place very neatly. Previously I befuddled m...

I measured myself to size an Eddie by Giddy cockring, and am almost exactly five inches in circumference. They don’t ask for length, but i had a big hardon and the tape measure and am exactly six inches long. This meant i was supposed to order the size D, their largest, which didn’t seem right becau...

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