My understanding is that sexual fluidity refers to changes in sexual identity, orientation, or desire. And apparently some use the term as having to do more with gender than orientation. I’m not 100% clear as to its precise meaning, and not sure that when two given individuals discuss it that they n...

M&M. I look at it more generally in terms of how weed affects sex of all sorts. Marijuana almost always makes things I’m interested in even more interesting, and I’m very interested in sex and masturbation. In addition, when I was younger it physically made me hornier and enhanced the intensity ...

Anyone who thinks married people do not or should not masturbate are, respectfully, naive. It’s been proven many times that the majority of us do, and of course it is healthy and wholesome activity whether one is married or not. Every individual owns his, her, or their own body, and so long as we do...

It’s not even remotely cheating. Each of us owns his, her, or their thoughts. We are free to fantasize about other people in any way we want. I could not be with someone who felt I must think of them and them alone, not only because it’s my freedom to fantasize about whom I want, but also because I ...

There’s a reason humans dominate the planet, and intelligence is only part of the answer. Our sex drives developed in a way that makes us want sex regardless of whether the female is ovulating, which means vaginas tend to be continually replenished with semen, therefore increasing the chances of rep...

I am not qualified to give nutritional advice but I have strong thoughts about diet. In no particular order these are the guidelines I follow: 1. Base as much of my diet as possible on plants. I am not a vegetarian but meat is a treat that I do not have to have every day. That will be difficult for ...

I do not know if this will help others but what I’ve done in the past when overuse causes such irritation is moisturize it with polysporin. In the U.S., Polysporin is an over the counter topical antibiotic ointment that helps prevent and treat skin infections. Of course if you have an infection then...

I’m 64 and have a bit of experience that might be helpful. I really like viagra/sildenafil but it took a while to stop having unwanted side effects. At first I felt kind of spacey, I think because of the way blood flow in my brain might have been affected, and erections and organs seemed a bit off b...

I thought I’d never have to ask this, but what do we define as masturbating? If it’s simply manual manipulation of one’s own genitals for sexual pleasure, then about 30 minutes ago. I was at the computer working on an erotic fiction piece I’m writing and I reached down and squeezed my cock for a whi...

I’m not sure there’s an exact parallel given physiology. I would answer “horny and frustrated.”

I like to masturbate in front of a mirror , which is the main reason I might do it in the bathroom these days. In earlier times, bathrooms were frequent site for privacy, and I believe that’s the origin of watching myself. I have videoed myself masturbating, too, and like to watch the those on occas...

In college one summer while living alone I cut a hole in a watermelon and fucked it. But I couldn’t feel it well enough to repeat the experience. I forget where I got the idea because this was around 1980 when porn meant either a magazine or going to a porn theater in a larger city, or a videotape, ...

I would assume that sex and all related sexual matters have more slang terms than practically any other area, because of its special place in almost everyone’s life, and the the potency of the sex drive, all coupled with a long history of social repression and suppression. In my family, grown people...

Athens, Greece. I went on a high school senior trip that, shockingly, my mother agreed to. I don’t actually recall masturbating there but I was 18 and it would have been impossible that I didn’t. There were dozens of other kids on the trip, and that was way before people talked openly about masturba...

I have used condoms to masturbate quite a few times, but it’s not a regular thing. I’ve used them to fuck beds (between mattress and box springs), couches, and easy chairs. In college i had a fake leather easy chair that had the perfect texture to fuck, on my knees sliding my cock between the cushio...

I currently have posted nude pics of myself on a different popular masturbation site. I love that my cock is out there for others to see. ST used to host such pics but they stopped.

Here is the link to my pics, I hope it works:

https://bateworld.com/user_album_update.php?album_id=326512

I kept my semen tank pretty drained and so I only distinctly remember one wet dream. In those days I frequently sought out places to slip my erect cock, like between couch cushions or under a bed pillow, and one morning after the sun had come up I was still dozing and had a very erotic and realistic...

Yes to SD!

Nice to learn that the very exercise I’ve been doing for back pain has another benefit!

I have broadcast myself masturbating on a cam site. This was a few years ago when I first started watching people masturbate and have sex in such places. I think I broadcast two or three times, always just for a few minutes and for only a handful of viewers, never charging whatever coins the site us...