I have always enjoyed the sexual relations I have had with my wife. Having said that, I have also enjoyed masterbation as a regular part of my sexual activity. There is a very pleasurable place that I can bring myself to that I have never been able to get to with any other partner. My wife and I had been married for approximately 15 years and had never mentioned masterbation. Masterbation was something I had always done in private. I would find myself sneaking away for a little quiet time alone, to take care of myself.
Approximately a year ago after making love to my wife for the first time in several days, she made the comment-'Wow twice in one day, just like when we were first married'. Of course my comment was, 'twice in one day, now wait a minute this is the first time we have been able to work this in in several days'. She came back and said, 'Their are times a person just has to take matters in their own hands.' Imagine my surprise when I found out that she loves masterbation as much as I do.
Since then we have openly taken care of ourselves on numerous occasions in front of each other. This has really opened up our sex lives. By being more open and honest. So now if she is to tired, or just doesn't want to, she says 'If you don't mind, just take care of yourself tonight'.
Just a few nights ago she fell asleep in the chair. I was horney, so I went to the bedroom and started masterbating. She woke up and came back and found me with my tool in hand and said why don't you turn to a certain channel on the TV, there is a show on about major league cheerleaders with a lot of hot looking women on it. Maybe that will add some excitement into what you are doing. She was right. After finishing myself off, I got the back vibrator out and massaged her all over and finished up by getting her off with the vibrator.
If you are married or in a committed relationship, and also enjoy masterbating, somehow find a way to bring it into a conversation. I am sure glad my wife did. I look back on all those years of sneaking around and realize what I missed out on. If I had of only been up front with her 15 years earlier. How great it is to be able to sit naked and watch TV for hours, or sit on the deck, while stroking my penis, and not having to hide this from my wife. There are times when she will even come and join in, by rubbing my balls and my butt.
Several months ago I bought us both some sex toys and we have used them on ourselves and on each other. Many times while sitting around naked she has asked, do you want me to go get your little friend. My little friend, is a very exciting toy I came up with at the local exotic store. The first time I used her new toy on her I could tell she really enjoyed it, so much.
Many more masterbation experiences will follow.