Being a long time jelqer, I would like to share my findings and encourage jelqing for penis developement.
Jelqing should be fun, not a chore. I paid 25 bucks for the instructions, now you can get them on line for free. Rule number one, dont panic, enjoy playing with you cock and learn to develope your own style. Forget about long tedious workouts with hundreds of reps. Forget about hot towelling to warm up your lovely boy. Have a nice warm bath or shower, your sweet little guy will soon get nice and warm and ready for your loveing attentive caressing. Jelqing is of itself a propper nurturing stretching motion that developes. Like stretching your legs before you run. Dont tug and pull and damage something. A nice gentle milking action pulls blood up the shaft to the head.
I lay in the tub till Im nice and warm and then lift my mid section up and out of the water, dry off with a nice damp warm face cloth and then apply a small amout of Dove Mosturizing hair conditioner and milk stroke nice and easy. Soon my cock is full and pouty. Go easy, it takes time to learn your own style of stroke milking for a more lovley cock. I know mine sure is. My cock is so much more beautifull, I can hardy take my eyes of it. My cock is 1' longer which is average, and getting fuller. I never squeeze the head, if anything I want more blood into it to expand it. I know one thing, my cock is like a balloon, it gets so small and tiny, and it gets so big and large.
The traditional ok sign hand grip is a good grip for stroking. So is the two fingers and thumb, with the thumb on top, two finger under. Now that Im a pro -lol- I also use the fist over fist, it is also nice.
Three quarters of an errection is about as hard as you want to get when jelqing, work up to that from soft. Go easy, easy, take your time its not a race! If you get to hard, wash you hair or something and then start again. Or just shoot your milk and start again tomorrow. Make it fun, not a chore. If you get some blood blisters, stop for a few day and decrease your intensity. Like all good things to learn, it takes time. But it is so much fun learning.
Just think, there actually are 'cock' exerscises! Yaaaaa for us guys! Learn to P.C. flex, man, it is also great! I do mine first thing laying in bed on my back with my legs appart, its wonderfull. I even power flex with a very hard cock, sitting on the edge of the bed and hang my jogging pants on my wonder boy and flex away. Not to sound like a loud mouth bragger, but, I do have a power cock, its like this little muscle man. -lol-
Lets not forget. A well kept body, get healthy - A nice hairless body, with a small cock looks great! I love a small cock. On the nude beach I frequent, big and small alike, they are all nice to look at. Get in shape or stay in shape. Trim that hair right down, dont shave, to many nicks and ingrown hairs and stuff. A hairless body takes off ten lbs in looks. A hairless cock adds one inch in looks. Develope yourself untill 'you' are satisfied. Love what you have and develope it to the best of your ability.