Getting her sexed-up
A woman I spent many wonderful hours with several years ago, was slow to arouse. We'd kiss and slow dance naked and feel one another until I realized I was much more aroused than she. I realized I had to find a way to slow myself down, and help her become very aroused, in order for sex to be good for both of us.
So we talked about it and she finally admitted that watching a man masturbate was very arousing for her. She also said she got very hot when her pussy was licked.
So I offered to lie down on the bed, on my back, and caress myself and start jerking off for her. As soon as I was hard and stroking my cock, I got the first scent of her arousal! After a few minutes she began fingering her pussy, and then she swung her leg over me and offered her pussy to my lips. She was sitting facing my cock, so she got to watch me as I pleasured myself.
I could measure her arousal by the swelling in her labia and the among of juice coming from her vagina. When I knew she was very close to cumming, and I was ready to cum too, I'd start thrusting my pelvis up and down, slowing my jerking so to hold off for her. As agreed, she told me when she was ready to cum, so I speeded up and as my orgasm gained momentum, I'd lick furiously at her pussy.
We got so good at timing our orgasms, I'd cum first and she'd watch me shoot my cum from her good vantage point, and then she'd grunt and moan and buck all over my face and then her body would shake and her pussy would unload her hot orgasm all over my tongue and lips. Then we'd kiss and fondle one another slowly, and when I was hard again, we'd have our first fuck of the evening.
She took a long time to arouse but sex was so much better for both of us because we found a way to arrive at our orgasms together.