I work up the courage to be a participant, rather than just spectator.
My final exam and course in Human Sexuality is now over and as in the past I did hold my end-term party. This time, inspired by some readers (I admit), I did get more involved--which obviously my students over the past have wanted me to do. Four girls and three boys, all seniors (I do not permit anyone under 18 to attend) came to the party. Our 'theme' was 'Controlling Arousal.' My students and I as well, this time, undressed and stood in two lines, facing each other, completely naked. No touching of ourselves or of each other was permitted. Small step by small step the two lines advanced toward each other, coming as close to each other as possible without touching. After each step, we paused for a few minutes simply carefully observing each other and commenting on what appealed to us about anyone (from either line). In my case, all of the boys and even two of the girls said they found my hairiness especially arousing, which at first embarased and gradually excited me tremendously. It was an unbelievably exciting experience, but all of us followed the 'cardinal rule' of no-touching. When it was over, we dressed and the party ended. (I'm sure the night ended with many happy students having multiple orgasms! It certainly did in my case.)