To start things off, I am a single mom with two kids, one Katie (17) and the other Ron (15). I work a lot to support us and don't get to spend as much time with the kids as I'd like, but last week made me think I need to spend more time at home.
I have tried to teach both of my kids the 'birds and the bees' and up to now it has been fine. I know that both of them masturbate on a regular basis, as we have an open relationship and my insistence that they not become sexually active.
Last Thursday I came home from work late and just wanted to relax, the kids went to bed around eleven, and I stayed up to watch the end of Letterman. When I headed up to bed I noticed Ron's door was ajar, his lights were off so I assumed he had just forgotten to close it. I looked in, and indeed he was asleep on top of his covers. Just as I turned to leave, I saw through the dark, a piece of pink material peaking out from under his boxers. I opened the door a little to let light in from the hall and walked over to his bed. Looking down even in the dim light I could tell what it was, a pair of katie's pink underwear with sunbursts on them.
I didn't know what I should do, punish him, talk to him, take him to see a specialist? I left the room and closed the door, but I couldn't stop thinking of my fifteen year old son wearing girls underwear.
I think Ron may be masturbating with the underwear because when I did laundry on Monday, I found the panties in the pile crusty with cum. As a parent I am at a loss of what I should do, at this point, I'm just looking for advise.