Here's an "everything you always wanted to know" about a male masturbator. This is me looking back on the page 48 years of solo fun.
The stories on Solo Touch are great and it shows how much we all have in common. We love self-pleasure and sometimes we share it or enjoy watching others do it. I think this site proves we all have a natural curiosity about each other. My "story" is my life's masturbation story written in quick and easy Q & A session. Maybe this will be a new kind of topic here on Solo Touch.
When did you learn you could masturbate?
I was always a horny boy and I remember stripping necked in my parents bathroom and playing with myself. I loved to see myself naked in the mirror and I still love to see that.
When was your first orgasm?
Surprisingly late, at age 15! I always played with my cock and I felt waves of pleasure (dry orgasms) but I wasn't sure how to actually ejaculate. I was too afraid to ask my older brother. Then in school I noticed a kid make a mock jack-off hand signal teasing a kid and I thought "Ah, I need to try that stroking technique." That night, while laying in bed I stroked and those dry waves of pleasure erupted onto my stomach. At first I was in shock but it felt so good. I used socks on the floor to clean up.
How often did you masturbate once you discovered how?
Everyday, lol and often twice a day! When I was young I could get hard so easily. My parents had a back massager that vibrated. I would wait until everyone was gone and I would sometimes hold it to my cock and vibrate myself to explosive orgasms. It was my first toy and I have a similar one now but I mostly like a good hand job. Today in my 40s I masturbate once or twice a week.
How does masturbation fit into your love life now as an adult?
When I got married (and we are still married, with kids) I continued masturbating but not openly in front of my wife. I used masturbation as a "release" in the shower or when travelling on the road. My wife isn't as much of a masturbator herself (no toys etc.) but she's cool with me doing it -- there's no guilt there. We sometime incorporate my masturbation into love-making. After I bring her to orgasm, she will watch me jack off or she will stroke me to orgasm. For me, it's very erotic to share my masturbation with her.
What do you think about when you masturbate?
When I was young - women. In my twenties I liked lesbians. In my thirties more extreme sex like anal. In my forties my fantasies are more bi-sexual. I'm not sure why my tastes keep evolving. I wonder if this is true of other guys?
Have you ever masturbated with another man?
No but I would like to try it. I'm sure it would be very erotic to share cocks with another man. We'd have so much in common!!!
What's kinky about you that nobody knows?
I love watching orgasms -- when who squirt and when men shoot their loads. That moment of climax is beautiful and impossible to fake, it's real and raw. I also like the taste of cum -- my own, since I've never been with a man. A lot of porn has cum swallowing so maybe it piqued my interest to know what women were tasting. I tried it over and over and I find it a real turn on to taste my pleasure.
Any masturbation tips?
This one is for guys. If you're in bed and you cum on you stomach or chest, don't rush to clean it up. Lather your cum across your torso and sit with it for awhile. The creamy white dissolves into a clear liquid and it smells wonderful -- it's you!