Masturbating...A Great Way for a Gal to Relax!
I think masturbation is one of the greatest ways to relax...I was 15 when I first discovered masturbation. I had been dating a guy for a little while, and one night we were lying on the couch in his rec room, and he started fingering my clit. I had never been touched there before, and wasn't quite sure about what was supposed to happen. He kept rubbing my clit for a long time, but I don't think he managed to bring me to orgasm.
The next day, at home I started thinking about what he had been doing to me, and figured that there must be some reason for his attention to this one particular area, so I decided to experiment. I started rubbing myself and was soon experiencing my first orgasm. And boy did I love it!
I started to do it every day and I still bring myself pleasure many times a week. My favorite time is when I am getting ready to sleep. I lie in bed, and rub my clit with a clockwise motion through my underwear. This is my favorite method. I fantasize about a man making love to me while I do this. After my orgasm I am very relaxed, and a lot of the day's stress is gone, so I find it very easy to go to sleep.
Lately I've also been experimenting with a massager (one of the attachments is amazing) and with a battery operated vibrator. I also like to go to adult chat rooms and watch and use my imagination as others have cybersex in the chatroom. Or I can watch an online video of people having all kinds of sex. When I am watching it leaves both of my hands free, and I can play with myself and have an amazing orgasm while I'm sitting in the chair in front of the computer.
I have read some great stories on your site about watching guys jack off. I think that would be a great turn on and hope to be able to add that to my masturbation experiences soon!
Forgot this story... I met a guy on the net and we started to exchange some very erotic email. He would send me sexual fantasies to my office, talking about making love in a cottage, on the beach, in his office, etc. and boy were they HOT. So I'm sitting at my desk getting so very wet and I'm so horny it is almost unbearable. When I can't take it any more I head to the ladies washroom, and go into a stall. I pull my pantyhose down and start to finger myself. I stand in the stall, with my right leg slightly bent and my legs a few inches apart, so that I can keep my balance and have good access to my clit. I rub my clit through my damp panties and it doesn't take me long to reach an orgasm. If someone comes into the bathroom before I'm finished, I flush the toilet, pull my pantyhose back up and come back in a few minutes to finish the job in private. Some of those office bathroom orgasms are pretty intense, and I am weak in the knees afterwards. It is great to go back to my desk afterwards, feeling satisfied and I can get back to work without the distraction of my excitement driving me crazy. --Jen