After reading Izzy and Dave's stories, I just had to write. I too, like their wives, find it very painful to have an erect penis in my vagina. Don't get me wrong, I love sex and still masterbate at least once a day.
Before my husband passed away, I would stroke him off as much as he wanted, which was about twice a week. His favorite position was for me to straddle his face while facing his feet and stroke him off, just the way Izzy and Dave described, except that while I was jacking him, I would lower my cunny onto his mouth and he would lick and suck my clit until I came.
When I come, even to this day, I produce a lot of love juice, and when we were finished his face would be all wet with it. This would always get me going again and I would lay next to him and rub my clit. Sometimes this would turn him on, though not enough to get hard again, and he would eat me again.
It's been three years since my cunny has been eaten and I sure would like it again.