Although I have a very good intimate life with my husband, I've continued to masturbate as well because it gives me a different experience from intercourse. There is a different kind of fun in being in total control of my own pleasure.
I have a rather large clitoris and have always enjoyed thinking of it as my very own little penis. It gets erect and sticks up from it's hood when I'm excited and I like to think of it as my very own 'boner.'
My husband and I have watched each other pleasure ourselves and I find the sight of him stroking his erect penis intoxicating. One day when I was alone, it occurred to me to try 'jacking off' just like a man does. I released my bra and played with my nipples. My areolas are wide and I teased them until the dark skin crinkled and shrank and my nipples were bursting. When I felt that familiar tingling between my legs I pulled off my panties and caressed and tugged my labia until I was moist and puffy. Using my index finger I felt my stiff clit through my hood and then stretched my hood back with my finger to admire my pink, shiny little 'erection' which was hard and reaching out from my soft folds just begging for attention.
My clitoris is usually too sensitive for much direct touch, so I released my hood and gently grasped my 'penis' through my soft hood skin with my thumb and index finger. I could feel the stiff nub of pleasure flesh, hard between my fingers and I proceeded to slide my hood back and forth along the length of my 'erection.' My hood gave me just enough protection to not overstimulate myself and by adjusting the firmness of my finger pressure I was able to provide the perfect amount of stimulation as I stroked my clit. The image I had in my mind's eye was of me jacking myself off just like my husband and it was an exquisite experience. I kept my grip and maintained my stroking as I rode my pleasure until my pussy needed something in it. I slipped a finger into myself and kept jacking with one hand while my pussy muscles spasmed and clutched at the finger of my other hand. It was the most amazing masturbation experience I've ever had.
One day, not that long after my discovery, I was bragging to my husband that he's not the only one who can jack off. He didn't believe that I could actually jack my clit so I let him watch. He was fascinated and he got so excited watching me that he started leaking and had to take himself out of his pants. We pumped together and it was an incredible experience.
Now, we sometimes open our legs and jack off together, stroking our 'penises' until we explode. Those are very special experiences for both of us.