Don't hesitate to ask? You never know the exciting intimacy you may be missing.
I have read dozens of contributions regarding people who are turned on by secretly watching their partner masturbate. After all, one of the most arousing things that usually will turn a person on is watching someone else masturbate until they orgasm.
Why so many are too shy or hesitant to admit to their partner they enjoy masturbating but won't masturbate together is beyond me! I've also read many contributions from both sexes who are turned on secretly watching and then masturbate later to the experience.
Add a little spice to your life. Just ask and do it! To me, one of the most intimate things for a couple to do is to masturbate and cum TOGETHER.
One of the most arousing 'first times' my wife did one night was to surprise me with a hand job. We had just gone to bed (nude as usual) and she began by lying on her side facing me with her upper body across my thigh and began to slowly stroke me. I massaged her waiting 36C breast and her nipples began to harden. She looked into my eyes and raised her knee to give me access to her shaven pussy and said, 'Put your finger in me'.
Since this was a 'first' she knew it wouldn't take long to get me off. As I was fingering her she said, 'When you are getting close take your finger out and rub my clit and I will cum with you'.
She was right! In less than a minute I was rubbing her clit. She loved watching me cum and I could tell she was also getting close. She then started to rapidly jerk my throbbing dick and as soon as she saw cum start to shoot her body tensed and we had simultaneous orgasms.
So, don't hesitate to ask? You never know the exciting intimacy you may be missing.
'Those who masturbate together usually stay together'.
Y'all CUM! I'm already hard and about to...!