My wife Sarah and I have been married for fifteen years, and we married quite young at 19. Sarah was highly sexual before our two children came along, but since then, I guess like many married couples our sex life has tailed off somewhat. Until...
I repair electronic equipment and have a workshop in the house. I had three video cameras on soak test and was out for the day on house calls. When I came home, I decided to check the recordings. One of the cams was looking at a test card. The other was clearly no longer for this world.(quite an oldie anyway), but the third one was just looking into the room. I checked the first ten minutes of the recording and was about to switch it off when on the screen the workshop door opened and Sarah walked in. She sat in my chair for a few moments and then right before my eyes, she eased up her skirt, spread her legs and started to masturbate. (Something I thought she stopped doing years ago.) And holy cow, was she getting into it. At one point, using the handle of one of my screwdrivers to help her out. She was vocal too...calling herself all kinds of abusive names. As she got closer to her orgasm she had her eyes closed, her head right back and she said 'Say it, you know what I want to hear' and followed it almost immediately with 'You dirty little fuck, cum like the whore you are' and that is precisely what she did...for quite some time!
I was in a hot sweat after having seen this and, filed the tape away for use later...but then....I had an idea.
The children were in bed and we had cleared up after our evening meal. I had steered the conversation around to before the children and we had played 'remember when...' I took a deep breath and said 'You know, Sarah, before the children you really were a dirty little fuck.' Sarah stared at me and for a moment I thought I had really messed up. Then she said 'Say it again.' 'You dirty little fuck. You used to cum like a fucking whore in heat.'
What happened next is not for this site, but with a great deal of shame I realised that partly the reason our sex life had gone off is that I had stopped doing the one thing that she really enjoyed, which in Sarah's case is being talked dirty to and verbally abused. She loves it.
Shortly after this, I asked her one evening to just sit opposite me with her legs spread. She was wearing a dark blue pair of panties and, looking right into her eyes, I started talking dirty to her. I could actually see the material darken until there was a large wet patch there. Then, I asked her to finish herself off in front of me. This time, we made the video with her full knowledge. Since then, I find that she likes being filmed a lot, and she also likes it rough which is something really new for her.