I wish you and your chosen soul mate a wonderful life together.
When first wife and I married I was 22 and she was 20. We came from very conservative religious families and had learned very little in the form of sex education except for cuddling and smooching on dates in the 50's and we were virgins regarding actually making love. Can you imagine that today? Please note: There is a difference between having sex and making love you know!
We were too young to think about what was to become making love or what to ask concerning our long term future. We only felt we were in love and ready for a long term relationship. Looking back I wish I had been much wiser, more mature and had learned what I now know about sex and being in true love.
I had masturbated since I learned how when was about 13 and have enjoyed doing it at least once a day since then. Several years after being married to my first wife we finally discussed it and she adamantly declared she had never masturbated nor did she approve of it, PERIOD!
It pays to learn to openly discuss your likes and dislikes and what you will and will not do. In this day and time it actually pays to live together in order to learn more about each other, otherwise the 'real person' usually rarely surfaces.
Before being married the second time, in order to see if we were compatible (I was 63 and she was 54) my fiancé and I lived together now and then on week-ends and openly discussed what we felt had been missing in our previous attempts at marriage.
We freely discussed quite a few things regarding what we enjoyed doing sexually such as: How do you feel about nudity at home, do you masturbate and how often, would you feel free doing it together, do you enjoy oral sex? When you aren't compatible believe me it will be a bumpy road!
Statistics have shown, unless two people are mature plus true soul mates, first marriages usually fail. So not to bore you with the details I have attached a few previous contributions from my wife and me. I wish they were available to read when I was much younger but unfortunately the internet and Solo Touch didn't exist at the time.
I hope they are of help to you and I would appreciate your feed back.
I wish you and your chosen soul mate a wonderful life together...........BC