This is a brief follow up to my recent contribution when I mentioned compatibility regarding openly discussing:
How do you feel about nudity at home, do you masturbate and how often, would you feel free doing it together, do you enjoy oral sex? When you aren't compatible.... believe me it will be a bumpy road!
Although my first wife was quite reserved, for the first year she and I were fairly open concerning nudity. Sex was fairly frequent, but always with the lights off, and initiated only by ME after a good bit of coaxing. When one of us was in the bathroom the door always had to be closed and only once did we bathe together. After the first year rarely did I see her nude and our love making dwindled to once a week and eventually to once a month. Sad story, huh?
My second wife was in her mid 50's and I was in my mid 60's and therefore more mature and before marrying we openly discussed our sexuality, our goals, desires and our fantasies.
We were very comfortable with nudity, frequent masturbation, whether alone or together, intercourse and oral sex. Rarely was there a closed door plus we usually bathed together. We usually made love daily (always with the lights on) PLUS she initiated at least half of our love making sessions. Many times by sexily saying, 'I'm in the mood Darling, want to join me?'
So you see, before you plan to become involved in a potential extended relationship it pays to be open with each other. Discuss your likes and dislikes plus what you will and will not do and your future will surely be blessed.