... There are times when you are simply too tired to have sex with your spouse. As a teenager I couldn't imagine ever being too tired for sex, but you get that way as your married years tick by. You work all day under stress and pressure and at bedtime you just can't muster up the effort to do it. It takes a lot of energy and effort to do it right.
There are plenty of times when maybe my wife wants it but I'm just too damn tired, or I want it and she is just too damn tired. It's normal. On many of those occasions when I may want it my wife has said 'Honey, I'm just too tired ... you can jack off if you want to.' I always agree to that! I'll pull the covers down to just above my knees and if I'm still soft I'll start working up a good hardon. She will snuggle next to my left side with her head on my shoulder and look straight down my chest and stomach as I begin stroking my dick with my right hand. When it gets really hard I will stand it straight up so we can both look at it's full grown length and thickness, and I'll jack it with a slow to medium stroke. It feels so good to jack myself with my wife's head on my shoulder watching. She will ask me if it's feeling good and I'll tell her how wonderful it feels. Sometimes I may throw some naughty language in like 'ummmmm, I could f**k your pussy so hard right now...' After a while I'll get down to business and jack myself more diligently. When I'm about to cum I'll tell her to watch because I'm cumming, and I will start shooting cum all over my stomach in repeated squirting contractions.
I keep a box of tissues on the night stand and I grab some and clean up the mess on my tummy and dry my dick off as she watches. Then I'll pull the covers back up and we kiss each other good night and I turn off the lamp and we go to sleep.
I'm happy my wife lets me do this beside her and she doesn't mind at all. She usually suggests it when she is too tired. I love it!