Lubrication!
Lubrication!
Okay, I for one don't mind a dry run for a quickie, but if I am going for a long session, I prefer a good lube.
One of my favorites is a coconut moisturizing body lotion, which is fairly thick to start, doesn't run out in minutes, once you have coated your member a couple of times, and will last for an hour or so.
What do Solo-Toucher's use? Proprietary brands, Slick Household Fluids such as butter/cream, good ole Vaseline (I have heard that mineral oil combined with Vaseline is great?), Saliva, tell us your best combination, what works for you?
Of course I am speaking as a male, do women require as much or just a little lubrication to get going, (most of the women I have had fun with have self-lubricated and have been wet, wet, wet!
One of my favorites is a coconut moisturizing body lotion, which is fairly thick to start, doesn't run out in minutes, once you have coated your member a couple of times, and will last for an hour or so.
What do Solo-Toucher's use? Proprietary brands, Slick Household Fluids such as butter/cream, good ole Vaseline (I have heard that mineral oil combined with Vaseline is great?), Saliva, tell us your best combination, what works for you?
Of course I am speaking as a male, do women require as much or just a little lubrication to get going, (most of the women I have had fun with have self-lubricated and have been wet, wet, wet!
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When I don't feel like sex (rare, but it happens) but go along to please my men, I use Vaseline on my lips outside and put some on his member. They like when I spread it on and work it in for a while.
When I masturbate, which is a regular habit, I don't need extra lube because I'm already wet and naturally well lubed. If not, I don't feel like masturbating anyway.
When I masturbate, which is a regular habit, I don't need extra lube because I'm already wet and naturally well lubed. If not, I don't feel like masturbating anyway.
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Not being very well endowed I have found any kind of lubrication problematic unless I am already VERY aroused.....by which time I don't need it anyway....
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Shampoo or Conditioner if I am in the shower - Really like the conditioner
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Just about anything will work in the shower. conditioner is a top choice. when I want to sit at the computer and look at porn and stroke for an extended period, I gotta go for the good stuff. All the products sold in the drug store are ****. they thicken and require soap to remove when the show is over. Pretty messy. I tried several lubes from the porn shop and found many pretty good, though a lot were still real sticky after 20 min of stroking. My favorite is called MOIST. Do not confuse this with a lousy product called WET. Moist goes on slick and stays slick for a while but only requires a couple reapplications to give over an hour of great slick stroking. Hardly any taste or aftertaste if you want to switch to oral while lubed up. when you are done , if you leave it alone it will fade away (absorb) in a little while. If you rinse with plain water it goes away right now. no soap or anything needed.
So, leave the kid stuff behind at the drug store and go to the adult shop and invest a few extra bucks in a good lube. You will not be disappointed. BTW, they cost a lot for just a little....about $12.00 for 2 oz. I smartened up and bought a 16oz pump jar for about 19.00. ONLINE. What a savings....I love it. Plus I dont have to go out to buy more every few weeks.
happy stroking.
So, leave the kid stuff behind at the drug store and go to the adult shop and invest a few extra bucks in a good lube. You will not be disappointed. BTW, they cost a lot for just a little....about $12.00 for 2 oz. I smartened up and bought a 16oz pump jar for about 19.00. ONLINE. What a savings....I love it. Plus I dont have to go out to buy more every few weeks.
happy stroking.
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For a quickie (rare these days as I like to wait a few days and then enjoy a lengthy wank) I don't bother with lubrication. But for my prefered longer sessions (preferably online with a fellow wanker) it has to be olive oil. I am cut and don't usually produce pre-cum, but olive oil is a great lubricant and encourages pre-cum - don't ask me why but maybe because if feels so damned good! As a bonus it tastes good too so if the desire is there to taste some pre-cum or spunk there is no problem. Also, it is 100% natural and cheap!
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I hope I'm not the only one who enjoys dry stroking. Sometimes when I use lube, I just cant get the desired duration I want and desire but with a good, clean dry stroke, I get great sensations and can last and last.
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I find lube rather overrated. Now it can be very hot on occasion but for the most part I stroke it dry. Then again I am uncut so don't really need lube. I've used fuck water I believe it was called and it was useless it was water based and dried up every minute or two. Astro-glide was another I've used but it gets rather messy and dries up rather quickly leaving little clumps of lube which aren't desirable! Durex tingle lubes are fun but I much rather the cold sensations to the hot lubes, the hot lubes were very uncomfortable to the point we had to stop having sex so I could wash it off it felt like my dick was on fire! Honestly spit is the best, plenty of it and easily cleaned up! Baby oil is good too for a slick jack but very messy
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I found an organic skin conditioner (mostly coconut and olive oil with beeswax) that is made by a local soap maker. It comes in a tiny 1" round container only 3/4" high so it's great for traveling and keeping out of the sight of prying eyes. It starts a bit sticky but a good dab will last me through an entire session. I have used KY warming liquid which isn't bad either.
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I am somewhat of an expert for the women's choice in lubes. As you can see by my avatar I am usually SOAKING wet when I even start to think of sex but there are times I want to spend literally hours masturbating or have a spontaneous quick fuck with a partner. I am extremely sensitive to bad or cheap lube and it can cause a woman a yeast infection (YUK) when used. I am a huge fan of the PJUR company's lite Eros lube for an oiled up cock to play with - I enjoy a slow, long, teasing/edging hand-job for my partner sometimes. For myself - Sliquid Organics Natural Lube is almost exactly what my juice looks like and it is tasteless. I buy from Cheaplubes.com and can almost always find a coupon code on the net.
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I love dry stroking! I am uncut, so I pull my foreskin back tight and rub myself with thumb and forefinger until I cum. However, that nearly always is for a quickie.
If I want to go for something a little longer, I usual use my own saliva to get started and then if I'm doing my job properly I usually create enough pre-cum to keep everything lubed up.
In the shower, I think conditioner is great but not the nicest taste if I get interrupted mid-shower by a blowjob from my wife (it happens quite often), as sometimes there's a little residue under my foreskin. I tend to go for a good soap and build up a thick lava, then just use that. Dove is great (don't know if you get that outside the UK, or what it might be called) as that's got moisturiser in it so it makes my cock skin lovely and soft as well as providing excellent lube.
If I want to go for something a little longer, I usual use my own saliva to get started and then if I'm doing my job properly I usually create enough pre-cum to keep everything lubed up.
In the shower, I think conditioner is great but not the nicest taste if I get interrupted mid-shower by a blowjob from my wife (it happens quite often), as sometimes there's a little residue under my foreskin. I tend to go for a good soap and build up a thick lava, then just use that. Dove is great (don't know if you get that outside the UK, or what it might be called) as that's got moisturiser in it so it makes my cock skin lovely and soft as well as providing excellent lube.
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Albolene is very good.
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Mainly I prefer dry stroking. It just feels better. The only time i use lube consistently is if I am using a toy, which is rare these days, and occasionally mineral oil or just saliva for the finish.
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My favorite is baby oil. Does not need frequent reapplication and is very slick. Good for the cock skin too. Only drawback is taste if you switch to oral. Relatively inexpensive.
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I tend to refrain from using lube when I jack off, but if I do I usually just use my saliva. I do enjoy the sensation of getting my cock nice and slick, but for whatever reason I feel like my orgasms are usually more powerful when I’m just jerking dry.
I do, however, have a kink involving masturbating with my own cum from a previous session used as lube, which is something I do on special occasions. Something about using the physical evidence/residue from my last orgasm to help me along towards my next one really turns me on. Although I think it gets a little sticky/tacky rather quickly, I usually get myself off while it’s still nice and gooey. Not to everybody's taste, I'm sure, but it does the trick for me.
I do, however, have a kink involving masturbating with my own cum from a previous session used as lube, which is something I do on special occasions. Something about using the physical evidence/residue from my last orgasm to help me along towards my next one really turns me on. Although I think it gets a little sticky/tacky rather quickly, I usually get myself off while it’s still nice and gooey. Not to everybody's taste, I'm sure, but it does the trick for me.
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Rarely use lube. If I have time to take my time, baby oil is wonderful, just messy. I am also a fan of conditioner, in or out of shower
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I use Astroglide. It's by far the best lube I've ever used!
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I use a brand called "Happy Penis" a lotion which comes in different flavors. We prefer the mint because it has that cooling sensation. We use it on our toys and during sex. I also prefer it for my jerk off sessions. I found if you mix in some Astroglide it is heaven.
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As I normally masturbate for several hours before climaxing, I almost always use a lube. Albolene and Astroglide are two favorites although I will also use store brand liquids as they are a lot cheaper than Astroglide. I have also tried about everything you can find in your pantry--from Applesauce to Zucchini. Some worked fairly well, some I only tried once--Mentholatum for example.....