Masturbation First Times Survey

[iammmd55]

M or F?
Age?
First time you masturbated away from home?
First time you masturbated twice in a row?
First time you masturbated together with someone?
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating?
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”?
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy?
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?)
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex?
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture?
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie?
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation?
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating?
First time you masturbated after getting married?
First time you masturbated after getting divorced?
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing?
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed?
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub?
First time you masturbated while in hospital?
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband?

[wanklover]

M or F? Male
Age? Over 70
First time you masturbated away from home? At a guest house when I was 24
First time you masturbated twice in a row? I have only managed that once around about my 17th birthday
First time you masturbated together with someone? With my best friend when aged around 24
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? During my then girlfriends period after we had been dating for about 2 months. I would have been 25
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? I have never made a toy myself !
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? Around 3 years ago
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) When in my teens I often stuck my cock between my bed's base and it's mattress whilst kneeling on the floor. I could thrust easily in that position and ejaculated there.
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? My partner never turned me down !! Only exception being during her periods !!
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? When aged 24. Girly mag
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? Never done that
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? Never done that
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? Never done that
First time you masturbated after getting married? No idea but probably within a month. I was 29
First time you masturbated after getting divorced? Never been divorced
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? Never happened to me
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? Never done that except at the previously mentioned guesthouse
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? Never done that
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never done that
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? About 2 month's after we started dating. I was 25
Sorry it's a bit boring. We didn't get up to much in my day !!

[mash2014]

M or F? M
Age? 66
First time you masturbated away from home? I would guess around 15-16 when I traveled and had a room to my own.
First time you masturbated twice in a row? Sure when I was 12.
First time you masturbated together with someone? That was around 30.
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? When I was maybe 18. I think when I was dating this girl and she had her period so I pulled out my cock and masturbated in front of her
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? I was in my 40s I used an electric toothbrush. I also inserted it in my ass
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy?
Other than above, never used a toy.
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) Never
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? That's been the story of my life. Maybe 15 years old.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? 15
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? After the movie, when got home and went to bed. My brother and I were at a friends house watching some porn movies. Never masturbated or admitted to my brother that I was/am a wanker
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? 18, watching a neighbor girl get nude. She didn't know I watched her every day
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? I'd fallen asleep in the car being drunk. Woke up and heard my buddy having sex in the car. The smell was intense
First time you masturbated after getting married? I believe 2 days later, after having sex, went to the other room for a smoke and was so turned on I masturbated
First time you masturbated after getting divorced?Never been divorced
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? I've never cared but she doesn't know about my masturbation
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed?Cousins bed
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? I've only masturbated in my shower
First time you masturbated while in hospital?never
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband My wife about 20 years ago. She came about 3 times and she was sore so I masturbated until I had an orgasm.

[duke2000]

M or F? Male
Age? 24
First time you masturbated away from home? I think 11 on holiday.
First time you masturbated twice in a row? 14 that I remember, had a great session at a sleepover with my wank buddy where I came first, then helped him, but was then ready to go again myself.
First time you masturbated together with someone? 13 with a guy, 14 with a girl
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? My mum walked in on me when I was 13 but was cool with it, and a couple of weeks later when she walked in on me I just carried on.
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? Never
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? 15, anal with a suction cup dildo.
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) Not a humping furniture kind of guy.
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? My only long term girlfriend is as sex mad as me so not happened yet.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? I think 10 to a photo of Amanda Tapping wrapped in a flag (I was a big SG-1 fan).
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? 10, princess Leia in the bikini.
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? 14, spying on my mum sunbathing nude in the garden.
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? Never
First time you masturbated after getting married? N/A
First time you masturbated after getting divorced? N/A
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? After my mum caught me when I was 13 she said it was all fine and not to hide it so I didn't anymore.
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? First time not in a spare/guest bed was not until 17 with my girlfriend.
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? 13, friend's house
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? 17 with my girlfriend, actually before she was my girlfriend.

[rathb69]

M or F? Male
Age? 60's
First time you masturbated away from home? 18, freshman year of college
First time you masturbated twice in a row? 18, freshman year of college
First time you masturbated together with someone? 20's, my wife
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? 20's, at a resort was horny with no time for sex, so jacked off while wife watched.
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? Never
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? 40's, bought and used a fleshlight
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) 30's, humped a chair and a bed (dick between cushions) while on a business trip
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? 40's, lover was not in the mood, so I masturbated while she watched and made rude (fun) remarks until I came in my hand.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? 18, freshman year of college
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? 18, freshman year of college after viewing a XXX movie with a mixed crowd of friends. I jacked off to orgasm for the first time after seeing guys do it in the movie.
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? 30's, at a peep show watching a woman strip and play with her tits and pussy
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? 20's, at an adult bookstore hearing other men jack off
First time you masturbated after getting married? Next day
First time you masturbated after getting divorced? Never been divorced
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you were doing? Never
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? 20's, gf's cousin's bed while visiting
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? 20's, gf's shower after sex
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? Wife, on honeymoon

[russ195]

M or F? M
Age? 60
First time you masturbated away from home? Probably 12, at cousins house.
First time you masturbated twice in a row? 11 or 12
First time you masturbated together with someone? 12ish with cousin
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? not sure, maybe after married.
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? 25ish
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? 30ish
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) Not sure, lol.
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? About 30.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? 11
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? 18
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? teenager
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating?
First time you masturbated after getting married? Probably a month or so, wife wouldn't give much sex.
First time you masturbated after getting divorced?
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? 13ish
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? 12
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub?12
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? About 19, me and girl masturbated together a lot.

[strokerjim]

M or F? Male.
Age? 60.
First time you masturbated away from home? In the school bathroom in 6th grade.
First time you masturbated twice in a row? About 5 seconds after my first orgasm ended.
First time you masturbated together with someone? Age 12 with my brother who was 9. We had no idea we were doing something sexual.
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? In junior high at a sleepover. I was in my sleeping bag & my friend had no idea I was doing it.
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? Never really made a toy though I stuck a few things up my ass from time to time.
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? About 10 years ago when I bought an Aneros.
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) Never really humped anything.
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? High school.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? 6th grade to a playboy I found in my parents room.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? In college my roommate had a porn tape. When he was in class I would use it.
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? Age 14. I would turn my bedroom lights on at night and openly masturbate in front of my window. No idea if anyone saw me.
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? Heard one of my dorm mates masturbating so I went to the bathroom and did the same.
First time you masturbated after getting married? On my honeymoon. Marriage didn’t stop me from masturbating.
First time you masturbated after getting divorced? Never got divorced.
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? Never.
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? Never unless a hotel room counts.
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? At a buddy’s apartment after returning from a strip club.
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never.
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? I masturbated in front of my college girlfriend all the time.

[rick43]

M or F? M
Age? 61
First time you masturbated away from home?
15, on vacation in Florida
First time you masturbated twice in a row?
I was about 14
First time you masturbated together with someone? Never have
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? I was about 25. In front of a woman I was dating
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? Never have
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? Never have
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) Never have
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? Month after I got married
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? Early teens
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? About 22
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? About 15
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? Never have
First time you masturbated after getting married? One week after
First time you masturbated after getting divorced? Not divorced
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? Never have
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? About 16. My best friend’s mom’s bed
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? Again, my best friend’s mom’s shower
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never have
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? About a month after we got married

[iammmd55]

Thanks for the responses, everyone!

Wanklover: I, too, fucked my bed the same
way with lotion or hair conditioner in a baggie up through high school.

Mash2014: I remember the first time I heard my friends having sex in the next room just the other side of the wall; I came with her.

Duke2000: Princess Leia in that bikini. MANY times as a teen! Never had any sexual thoughts about my own mom (I know my friends did, though) but it’s cool you got off to yours.

Rathb69: Wow, so much here…
-Really great that your first time masturbating with someone was with your wife on your honeymoon!
-Surprising that the first time you masturbated to orgasm was at 18 and after watching a porn. That must have been a very exciting revelation.
-I too had sex with my hotel room furniture on business trips. Fucked a couch one trip and humped a king-size pillow on a couple others.

Russ195: At 13 i was too self-conscious to masturbate freely with my parents home. They knew I did it of course, but I always would do it when I thought they couldn’t hear me. It wasn’t until I was in my early 20s sharing an apartment and hearing my roommate going at it that I felt confident enough to do the same.

StrokerJim: had to share a dorm room studying abroad one year and a couple times heard and could sorta see my roommate masturbating in the middle of the night. Third time, I couldn’t take it and I masturbated after he’d finished and, I hoped, had gone to sleep. Later, sharing apartments a few times I’d hear or see a roommate masturbating and I’d get turned on and then go to my bed & masturbate.

Rick43: At 16 in your friend’s mom’s bed & shower?! There must be a backstory to that!

[rathb69]

Rathb69: Wow, so much here…
-Really great that your first time masturbating with someone was with your wife on your honeymoon!
-Surprising that the first time you masturbated to orgasm was at 18 and after watching a porn. That must have been a very exciting revelation.
-I too had sex with my hotel room furniture on business trips. Fucked a couch one trip and humped a king-size pillow on a couple others.

Yes I was a late bloomer and did it in secrecy until I got married. After the great feeling that came with accepted mutual masturbation, the door was open for masturbation to be an open, exciting, and important part of my life. There has always been the solo/private masturbation once I started, but the real fun has been doing it with other people (lovers and consenting strangers) and interesting places (not at home, but especially in public/semi-public places).

[russ195]

Russ195: At 13 i was too self-conscious to masturbate freely with my parents home. They knew I did it of course, but I always would do it when I thought they couldn’t hear me.

My mom definitely knew, she even bought me tissues and a trash can with a lid and put it by my bed. Kind of embarrassing when she did, but looking back, she was so kind!

[rick43]

Thanks for the responses, everyone!

Wanklover: I, too, fucked my bed the same
way with lotion or hair conditioner in a baggie up through high school.

Mash2014: I remember the first time I heard my friends having sex in the next room just the other side of the wall; I came with her.

Duke2000: Princess Leia in that bikini. MANY times as a teen! Never had any sexual thoughts about my own mom (I know my friends did, though) but it’s cool you got off to yours.

Rathb69: Wow, so much here…
-Really great that your first time masturbating with someone was with your wife on your honeymoon!
-Surprising that the first time you masturbated to orgasm was at 18 and after watching a porn. That must have been a very exciting revelation.
-I too had sex with my hotel room furniture on business trips. Fucked a couch one trip and humped a king-size pillow on a couple others.

Russ195: At 13 i was too self-conscious to masturbate freely with my parents home. They knew I did it of course, but I always would do it when I thought they couldn’t hear me. It wasn’t until I was in my early 20s sharing an apartment and hearing my roommate going at it that I felt confident enough to do the same.

StrokerJim: had to share a dorm room studying abroad one year and a couple times heard and could sorta see my roommate masturbating in the middle of the night. Third time, I couldn’t take it and I masturbated after he’d finished and, I hoped, had gone to sleep. Later, sharing apartments a few times I’d hear or see a roommate masturbating and I’d get turned on and then go to my bed & masturbate.

Rick43: At 16 in your friend’s mom’s bed & shower?! There must be a backstory to that!

Little bit of a back story. Our families were VERY close so we spent a lot of time at one another’s houses. I had a real thing for her. She had that 1970’s busty housewife look. So they were on vacation and my buddy asked if I would feed their fish when they were gone. So I think it was the second or third day and I go over there. I always wanted to know her bra size. So I went into his parents’ bedroom and found her underwear draw. I pull out one of her bras, 36D, and just get instantly hard. Something just came over me and I pulled down my shorts, lied down on her bed, wrapped the one bra cup around my dick and stroked until I blew this massive load in it. Now I don’t know what to do. It was a white bra so there is definitely going to be a stain. I just stuffed it down my shorts and took it home with me. Needless to say I got quite the use out of it. It wasn’t white by the time I was finished with it! LOL. The shower wasn’t any big deal. I was staying over there one night and I took a shower right after she got done. Thinking of her naked body in the shower right before me I couldn’t control myself and shot a quick load.

[toesucker17]

M or F? M
Age? 36
First time you masturbated away from home? In the gym locker room at 13. Couldn't cum. First time I came away from home was at 13 while at camp.
First time you masturbated twice in a row? At 13.
First time you masturbated together with someone? At 13 a few months away from turning 14 with my friend during a sleepover.
First time you masturbated in presence of someone who was not masturbating? Probably in the pool locker room.
First time you masturbated with a homemade “toy”? Never
First time you masturbated with an actual sex toy? Never
First time you masturbated by screwing or humping a large inanimate object (i.e. piece of furniture, inflatable, Saguaro cactus?) 13, that's actually how I had my first orgasm.
First time you masturbated after partner turned you down for sex? Ohh like in my 20s.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) picture? At 13 to a barefoot picture of Martina McBride in Country Weekly.
First time you masturbated to an erotic (to you) movie? At 13 after taping Rip Girls off Disney Channel. Lots of bare feet
First time you masturbated in a voyeuristic situation? At 16, was in the bathroom at school and a couple came in to have sex.
First time you masturbated hearing someone having sex or masturbating? At 16 see above
First time you masturbated after getting married? Never married
First time you masturbated after getting divorced? Never divorced
First time you masturbated (by yourself) knowing, but not caring / worrying that your parent(s) or roommate(s) knew what you wee doing? Um... never lol
First time you masturbated in someone else's bed? At 13 at my friend's house.
First time you masturbated in someone else’s shower or bathtub? At 14 but he was in there with me
First time you masturbated while in hospital? Never
First time you masturbated in front of your girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband? At 20, my girlfriend and I watched each other