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[blazer]

I am currently 71, and nearly every day I am touching myself. Recently I have been watching porn, and pose this question: Have any of you older men experienced ejaculation from a flaccid or semi-hard penis? I have no trouble stiffening up, but it takes a bit more time and effort. However, without touching myself, I can often view a particularly hot vid can begin to cum.

[gaijin]

Yes. I’m 60 and sometimes I have half a boner n still can complete the job with porn. I use viagra for a full boner n edge for a while before I let go.

[jacker]

I'm 75 and I can get hard when I jerk to porn. Frequently, however, I begin to go soft just as I start to cum. Still enjoy a nice orgasm but don't shoot - just dribble. I miss the good ol' days!

[stony]

Yup, I am the same as you guys. I am 73 and when I get hard it is difficult to keep it longer than 3 or 4 mins. I take the little magic pill and it helps but many times I have oozed out a load while only semi. Still feels great. The days of "shooting" are over I am afraid.

[chestnutoak]

Don't give up. I'm older too. It takes more time and more physical stimulation, but yes, it can happen simi or even less. We old guys carry a lot of mental baggage too, plan a quiet time and place when you only focus on that one thing. We are just old. The blue pill is a miracle, I reccomend. As is Cialis. Ask your doc for the generic. Its like I'm 16 again, only minus the 45° angle, more likely 70°. You will be edging for an hour or so. Have fun.

[blazer]

I am currently 71, and nearly every day I am touching myself. Recently I have been watching porn, and pose this question: Have any of you older men experienced ejaculation from a flaccid or semi-hard penis? I have no trouble stiffening up, but it takes a bit more time and effort. However, without touching myself, I can often view a particularly hot vid can begin to cum.

Same here. I have been ejaculating lately just watching, no touching, flaccid or semi-hard, and it feels super great!!

[thelonliestmonk]

I enjoy it; even though I can have a typical erection sometimes I don’t want to stroke.

When semi- I like lubing everything head, shaft perineum, nipples, anus. I relax into an INTENSE session. I treat my dickhead as a dude-clit; I rub my perineum between my testes or use my red-hot dickhead to rub between them. All the while I am charging my nipples. Before I get too hard I rub my anus with the head…WTF! Sensation overload!

[goander]

I have came flaccid many times during prostate massage. More of a flowing of hot fluid that a shooting ejaculation or spurting.

[mash2014]

64 and can't get hard for a long period; maybe up to 5 minutes. However, sometimes I'm at the wrong place and get a real hard one but can't pull it out to masturbate. Had a business meeting and there was this woman who was attractive and sexy and I couldn't take my eyes from her. She gave me a real hard one but by the time I got to the bathroom my cock had softened. Jerked off but no shooting, just ooze. That's the price of aging.

[jjosh]

i use a cock ring which seems to help keep me hard... been wondering if anyone uses cock rings during sex with misses... been wanting to introduce cock ring during sex with wife.. any suggestions on what rings are good for wearing during sex

[blackboxer500]

I’m 62 and for several years I was on a medication that inhibited the sexual response and during that time it wasn’t unusual for me to come without being fully erect. It also typically was not as pleasurable as it needed to be.

But now things are different. I changed meds from an SSRI class drug to Welbutrin, which not only is more effective but also has no inhibition of sexual response or pleasure. Indeed, it seems to enhance the experience, which other users have echoed anecdotally. I’m also receiving testosterone replacement therapy and using sildenafil, or generic viagra.

As a result, all sex is better, alone or with another, and usually I’m rock hard when I come. So I encourage everyone to talk to your health provider if you have issues with sex.

[softiedad]

I am currently 71, and nearly every day I am touching myself. Recently I have been watching porn, and pose this question: Have any of you older men experienced ejaculation from a flaccid or semi-hard penis? I have no trouble stiffening up, but it takes a bit more time and effort. However, without touching myself, I can often view a particularly hot vid can begin to cum.

I have a softer penis, been declining for several years, I jerk off daily and if I don't find something that really excites me , makes me cum...i'll just spontaneously start to ooze cum...if i catch that as it happens I can stroke myself to a fuller orgasm and more cum. Otherwise, it just dribbles out and I feel...cheated

[blazer]

Thanks. Not just me. The sensation is great, often hands free. I love to cum. Wish I had a buddy to cum with.

[ginger58]

Four months to 65 and I have found my erection can't last as long nowdays. I still enjoy masturbating on my own. I have also cum without being erect. Not as good as it dribbles out. Oh the faults of getting old

[jimmyl55]

This is a useful post for me. I'm going to be 68 soon and can still manage a pretty good stiff erection for masturbating. When I have sex with my wife, I use a silicone cock ring to stay extra firm. Still, I sometimes notice I start to lose my firmness if we have an extended sex session. I also can take a while to ejaculate during sex. My wife doesn't mind, because she gets a nice fuck and knows I'll be ready for more the next day.

Still, I wonder what happens as I continue to age. So, good to hear that while erections can diminish, you can still cum, even if limp.

[rathb69]

I'm in my mid 60s and so far I still get a nice hard erection (contrary to what I thought might be the case when I was younger.)

I think it might take longer to cum through masturbation, but I also have more time to devote to edging so I like to draw it out.

The one age related change I've noticed is that I don't always produce as much semen as when I was younger. I might have to go without jacking off for 4-5 days to shoot as much as I used to each time I ejaculated.

[steelydon]

Late 60's here and still get as hard as I always have (and am now!) but occasionally only produce a small amount of ejaculate when I cum as opposed to my usual huge spurts. It still feels like I am making as much as usual but it isn't making it to the outside world and I presume it's related to my enlarged prostate.

[oldbuck55428]

77 here and have had two TURP’s, that’s where they stick a laser up your cock and blast away some of your prostate. I can get hard if I take the blue pill, but otherwise just semi. Takes a long time to get off and there is not much cum, just enough for a little taste.

[iamnaked]

Google PGAD
I’ve dealt with that for decades. And luckily for me I have a mild case of this intrusive disorder. The doctors think it was from a very bad low back injury.
At 60 I still get hard, it just happens when ever it decides to. I don’t have any control over it. Imagine a sudden orgasim and cum dripping down your leg. Oh it feels just like a normal orgasim but with no build up.
It often is not welcome and rarely brings relief from the horny feeling.
I precum three or four times a day and have dry orgasims with no reason sometimes four or five times a day.
But sometimes I shoot a good size amount.
I’m at work or sitting in a restaurant and a full erection happens.
Or I’m walking along and I ejaculate.
That’s hard to hide. Sometimes I can’t stay on my feet.
Unsightly wet spots on your pants,
The worst and best part is straight sex. Even in my thirties women grew tired of me quickly.
Only one out of say five or six fuck sessions would go well. If the stars were aligned in my favor, and hers.
I could stay hard and hold back the cum for more than a half hour !
But all the other times the majority of my ejaculations would happen before sex began or before I got my clothes off.
Then I could cum again but from a soft penis. I had girlfriends but could not satisfy or keep them for long.
My wife of more than twenty years is disabled. She lets me be and is ok with my lack of prowess in the bed.

[norcalman]

I'm 68 and still get hard but sometimes I will begin to get soft before I ejaculate. When that happens I slip on a cock ring which helps in getting hard again and staying hard.