I have been lurking for years and had a previous account where I did some chatting. I can't talk about women because I haven't really seen the same effect, but there seem to be many guys on here who have discovered a craving for cock in their later years (myself included). I know we're a self selecting bunch of randy pervs, maybe not representative of the world at large, but I wonder why that is?
In my case, whether partnered up or not, I have always wanked regularly. I guess it was in my 30s or 40s when I started using mental images of sucking cock and handjobs to help get myself off, and the craving and curiosity has only increased. Sucking cock was on my fucket list and I finally managed it after I retired and moved, in a somewhat risky environment with a couple of strangers. I haven't managed to find someone I know to be a discreet FWB for regular meets, but I live in hope. It was everything I expected, and more. Knowing all the ways I can pleasure my own cock and balls, and all the things "I" wanted, it was easy to close my eyes and get stuck in, licking the head and under the foreskin, sucking it deep into my throat, pulling on his balls and waiting for my first taste straight from the tap. Heaven. I thought I was addicted to cunt secretions but cocks taste just as good.
The guys on here fall into one or more camps as far as I can tell:
1) those who have had the opportunity from their teenage years to wank and suck cock and who have either continued it or put it to one side while raising kids, only to go back to it as they got older.
2) those whose partner has lost all interest in sex, leaving a very horny hubby to look for other ways to get satisfaction. Maybe tugging on a cock, with no emotional involvement doesn't feel like cheating, I don't know, but there are lots of guys willing to give it a go.
3) those (this may be me) who are just hedonists addicted to sexual pleasure in all its forms without emotional aspects being necessary. Trying new things and being curious about the next big hit. It's like a hobby and you can park any social and cultural pressures about being gay or being found out to be cocksucker to the back of your mind as long as you don't get caught. I'm sure many of us, like me were brought up in an era when the slightest sniff of being gay would lead to merciless bullying and ostracisation.
I'm sure there are other categories as well. It might be a load of bollocks what I've said, but I'm just trying to fathom why I am so obsessed with cock as I get older. And why many others are as well.
Feel free to tell me I'm talking nonsense, I'd be interested in hearing why other guys need dick more as they age, all personal takes on this are good.
Sorry, it all turned a bit serious. But at least I know where to put it now
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