The default rule is that incest should remain taboo, with the caveat I will discuss. It is almost unimaginable that two people grow up in the same family and then, without any kind of grooming as children and after both are adults, they decide one day to have sex. That’s not impossible, I assume, an...

I’m in good company in this thread. My earliest sexual experience was age 7 or 8 when we visited family friends, and the boy who was a year older taught me how girls get pregnant. Now he had the detail as to which hole it went in wrong, he didn’t know about vaginas and thought the boy fucked the gir...

I think the question is an extension of a broader one, why do we enjoy watching any sexual activity? And I believe the answer lies in the unique nature of the sex drive. By that I mean that sex, in my opinion, is not simple pleasure seeking. Rather, as part of the reason humans are so successful in ...

I’m 62 and grew up and still live in the conservative American south. From TV shows and similar cultural interchanges, I’ve learned that in the UK and seemingly Australia and surely other countries, wanker (or a local equivalent) is frequently used as a pejorative in many contexts. Whereas here, in ...

Good for you! She is desirable to many men, no doubt, but she is married to you. It’s wonderful that you’ve overcome any jealousy and realized that it is her entire life history that makes her who she is. I have a slight cuckhold fantasy,mwhich is an interesting phenomenon. My wife isn’t interested ...

Both are essential. As to a preference of one over the other, it depends on the desire of the moment. It changes and shifts all the time. I sometimes masturbate fantasizing about sex (duh) and sometimes fantasize about masturbation while fucking. I’m new to same sex interactions and so on those occa...

When I was a kid I tried to make a jock strap out of a pair of tighty whities using scissors to cut away whatever didn’t seem to look like part of a jock strap. It didn’t really work.

We are moving to Atlanta soon and it has a very active masturbation club that meets once a month. See https://twitter.com/atlantajacksb8?s=21&t=XjPoIAnCGc7z5PPY3u8RMg (Did I post that link correctly?) Atlanta Jacks appear to average 40-50 attendees. The rules are very reasonable and strictly enf...

It’s harassing to most women so please don’t do this.

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I need both but would find it more difficult to give up masturbation. As I’ve aged, now 62, orgasms take more physical effort to achieve. My wife and I fuck at least once a week and occasionally I can still cum inside her but more often I finish up myself, often while she finishes her own self. Or m...

I’m 62 and for several years I was on a medication that inhibited the sexual response and during that time it wasn’t unusual for me to come without being fully erect. It also typically was not as pleasurable as it needed to be. But now things are different. I changed meds from an SSRI class drug to ...

I rubbed my cock against the mattress and sheets virtually every night from the time I was 6 or 7, without any notion that one day there would be a potential release at some point that would be extra pleasurable. When at 7 or 8 a slightly older friend told be about how boys get girls pregnant I imme...

Ha! I remember using a pen to enlarge the amount of cleavage girls had, for example Betty and Veronica in Archie comics.

To me, dry is a young man’s game. Back then I could go either way. At 61 I can’t get enough sensation unless there’s lube.

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Almost always afternoon romps.

In the past year I’ve expanded a bit into anal. My mood for it is rare but I really get into it when it strikes. I have a butt plug, can take a large dildo, and sometimes use a vibrator. What I really want inside me is a cock. My wife know all this and offers to peg me, and maybe one day but it for ...

Testosterone levels are highest in the morning.

Astroglide X is my fave. It’s a silicone based lube with just the right balance of allowing some friction while also lubricating. But I like toys, which usually require a water based lube. Until recently i was disappointed with water based lubes, until I found Turn On. It has a lot more staying powe...