I’m 64. If this question is asking about technique, there has been a change in how I masturbate that began in my 50s when I was taking a medication that desensitized the sexual experience. I could get hard but just couldn’t feel it like I always had. Desire was completely undiminished. This inspired...

Years ago, porn made by pros was all that was available, it seemed, probably because of the need to distribute physical media to a theater or video shop. . And I never really cared for plot lines and so forth, in which way too much time was wasted, for my tastes, before getting to the action. And po...

I apologize for my remark. Your point is correct and I overstepped common courtesy and the spirit of ST.

I used to masturbate at work with some degree of regularity, maybe once or twice a week at the peak, more like once or twice a month years later when the urge was a bit less urgent. The times I’ve done it at work were typically situations where it was needed so my mind could get back on work. Indeed...

Sears catalog and seasonal ads truly were the near nudity content providers of the day. Attractive girls and guys dressed in underwear, swimsuits, and sportswear. And it was ok for me to have a Sears catalog down looking at it because there many departments that a youngster might want to look at, li...

Wow just the thought of everyone in this thread cumming on their favorite spot is hot as fuck. I like ejaculating on the bed sheets, towel, my belly, my wife’s belly, her pussy. What is really nice is shooting onto something black, which contrasts beautifully with the semen. I have a lot of black te...

It is an idiom, and as with practically all idioms, metaphorical. I won’t beat around the bush, and I’m always willing to cut people some slack before things get out of hand and everyone gets bent out of shape, but some may think every cloud really does have a silver lining, so the point is well tak...

My understanding is that sexual fluidity refers to changes in sexual identity, orientation, or desire. And apparently some use the term as having to do more with gender than orientation. I’m not 100% clear as to its precise meaning, and not sure that when two given individuals discuss it that they n...

M&M. I look at it more generally in terms of how weed affects sex of all sorts. Marijuana almost always makes things I’m interested in even more interesting, and I’m very interested in sex and masturbation. In addition, when I was younger it physically made me hornier and enhanced the intensity ...

Anyone who thinks married people do not or should not masturbate are, respectfully, naive. It’s been proven many times that the majority of us do, and of course it is healthy and wholesome activity whether one is married or not. Every individual owns his, her, or their own body, and so long as we do...

It’s not even remotely cheating. Each of us owns his, her, or their thoughts. We are free to fantasize about other people in any way we want. I could not be with someone who felt I must think of them and them alone, not only because it’s my freedom to fantasize about whom I want, but also because I ...

There’s a reason humans dominate the planet, and intelligence is only part of the answer. Our sex drives developed in a way that makes us want sex regardless of whether the female is ovulating, which means vaginas tend to be continually replenished with semen, therefore increasing the chances of rep...

I am not qualified to give nutritional advice but I have strong thoughts about diet. In no particular order these are the guidelines I follow: 1. Base as much of my diet as possible on plants. I am not a vegetarian but meat is a treat that I do not have to have every day. That will be difficult for ...

I do not know if this will help others but what I’ve done in the past when overuse causes such irritation is moisturize it with polysporin. In the U.S., Polysporin is an over the counter topical antibiotic ointment that helps prevent and treat skin infections. Of course if you have an infection then...

I’m 64 and have a bit of experience that might be helpful. I really like viagra/sildenafil but it took a while to stop having unwanted side effects. At first I felt kind of spacey, I think because of the way blood flow in my brain might have been affected, and erections and organs seemed a bit off b...

I thought I’d never have to ask this, but what do we define as masturbating? If it’s simply manual manipulation of one’s own genitals for sexual pleasure, then about 30 minutes ago. I was at the computer working on an erotic fiction piece I’m writing and I reached down and squeezed my cock for a whi...

I’m not sure there’s an exact parallel given physiology. I would answer “horny and frustrated.”

I like to masturbate in front of a mirror , which is the main reason I might do it in the bathroom these days. In earlier times, bathrooms were frequent site for privacy, and I believe that’s the origin of watching myself. I have videoed myself masturbating, too, and like to watch the those on occas...

In college one summer while living alone I cut a hole in a watermelon and fucked it. But I couldn’t feel it well enough to repeat the experience. I forget where I got the idea because this was around 1980 when porn meant either a magazine or going to a porn theater in a larger city, or a videotape, ...

I would assume that sex and all related sexual matters have more slang terms than practically any other area, because of its special place in almost everyone’s life, and the the potency of the sex drive, all coupled with a long history of social repression and suppression. In my family, grown people...