One of my go to ways of getting relief 

I like to read the female with female stories especially mother daughter or sister sister stories until I am rock hard. Once I am throbbing and dripping pre cum I like to take a vibrator and place it on the underside of my cock just below the head and I will increase the pressure and then let off right before I am about to cum. Then I start over until I just can't take it anymore.  At this point, I pump my fist up and down over the head and I burst, spraying cum all over the place.