The mysteries of the G-spot…..oh, and clitoris. 

 

They seek them here, they seek them there… well, actually, more often than not, they don’t. Adolescent/pubescent boys are already reeling in shock having discovered, sometimes the (literal) hard way about spontaneous erections, and the horrific embarrassment of wet dreams. Oh, they’re apparently told something called a “clitoris” exists, but no guy I’ve ever spoken too has told me that in their sex ed classes they were told how to work the bloody thing. 

 

Result? Well, ask any girl what her first experience of a hand in their panties other than their own felt like. Lucy said luck me! It was like being strapped to an electric drill on hammer action! He thought the faster and harder he mashed my clit the better. “ Or Jane. “It took…hmmm…let me see…..four months, I think. Of trying three or four times a week. He just couldn’t find it poor lamb. He got confused with ‘labia’ inner AND outer, and thought my clit was where, and I quote, ‘it was all welded together.’ Fucking useless.” 

 

 

Without doubt, the guys that learn best and fastest are those who have actually seen a girl masturbate, or who are at least open to some hands-on guidance.

 

 

And then we come to the g-spot. Many disbelieve it exists, some do believe it’s in there but haven’t got the first idea what to do with it. Physically (take notes now boys) it feels like a small pad of smooth skin. Yes, we know you like the ridges and wrinkles in there….those rings of muscles that allow you such pleasure when rubbing up and down your cock, but there’s more…at least for us. 

 

 

Fingering itself is a fine art. No, shoving two fingers up us and pounding away, well, maybe there’s a time and place for that but it sure as shit isnt the first thing we like. Now, contain your excitement, and push a well-lubricate finger S-L-O-W-L-Y inside her, pad of your finger facing upwards. (Assuming she’s on her back.) about an inch and a half, (it varies girl to girl) you’ll feel a little smooth pad…ah! Yes! There! Well done. Now, again, listen to her body! Some girls DO like their g-spot fingered firmly, some even enjoy it being pounded. It’s connected to a whole bunch of pelvic nerves, and yes, it does bring about a kind of ‘need to pee’ feeling….and it’s exquisite. 

 

 

As with all things, some girls love it, some hate it. I met a guy once who absolutely loathed having his balls sucked. Other guys seem to like it. 

 

 

As with most things to do with us complicated females, time is the key. Time and timing. We warm up slower than you guys. Even if we say we already feel horny, it takes time to get us there. Yes, sometimes it’s nice….glorious, in fact…just to be thrown on the bed (or ground..or up against a wall) and with absolutely no preamble at all, not even any foreplay, fucked senseless…..but we have to be in the mood for that and YOU, my dear guys, have to somehow read the signs. Get it wrong, and trust me, it hurts like fuck. 

 

 

Next time you’re with your girl, take your time to slowly kiss her, using ALL her erogenous zones, however “weird and wonderful” you may think they are. With me, having my ear gently kissed and licked drives me crazy. Having my belly button tongued also makes me wet as fuck. And yes, I adore my bum hole being licked too. Do all that to me, in the right order and taking your time, and by the time you slip your hand in my panties, you’ll find me more than ready! (Don’t worry, I’m a firm believer in equality….ill do the same things to you if they’re what you like.) 

 

 

Unlike guys, a girl can cum repeatedly. Over and over and over. No diminishment. Every time a girl cums, her cervix dips up and down into the pool of semen you’ve just shot up her. The more she cums, the better the chances of pregnancy if that’s what you’re after. 

 

 

Making a girl cum using her clit and g-spot can be messy. Many a girl has had her first squirt like that. Many a girl has peed herself cumming like that….and both she and her boyfriend need to learn that there’s nothing wrong with that. 

 

 

Take time, my lads, take time. Seek, and who knows, you may find the promised land! 

 

Author:Wetgirl2 | Category: Masturbation Female Solo

Yep @Wetgirl2 and @Guinevere in my experience, I'd say it's more of a rough than smooth area... but you definitely know when you've hit the spot by her reactions

Super. I had ben masturbating for a couple of years, I has been an early starter. An older cousin, I think she was not quite sixteen, educated me in pleasing a woman. Which I did plenty. !!!

Unfortunately i guess I'll not have the opportunity to find this elusive spot anytime soon. I didn't really know about it when I was married to my first wife. My present wife doesn't really like me putting a finger inside her and my Asian lady on the side steadfastly will not let me put a finger inside her either. She says that she finds fingers are too hard and boney and uncomfortable. So I just have to keep practicing, using my 3rd Dan (degree) black belt skills in cunnilingism to drive them crazy. 🤪 YUM! 😋

I’ve talked with my medical friend Tig since writing this. It turns out some girls do have a “rough patch” rather than a smooth patch. Huh! Who knew? All the girls I’ve been with have had an easily palpable smooth area, but we’re all different. One things for sure, it does exist.

Like Alphabitabc I was taught a few things, at 17 I dated... well was sleeping with a friend's sister who was 27 and found me curious and malleable enough to practice making her come. My aunt's nursing texts and that family's sex education books "secretly" read in their basement got me to the correct places and she taught me to slow down and be persistent. Since then I've found that all the women I've been with are different, several radically different from each other, but that one taught me it is well worth it to find out. It's such a shame that communication on such a big part of people's lives is so repressed in many segments of the population, but I digress. I dated one woman who would cum really hard once and not want her clit touched for quite some time after, and several that can cramp one's jaw when they get on a roll. Great thoughts on this.