More than masturbation, poly lifestyle offers much to a new generation

 

I'm always excited when I cum across news and research about modern sexuality and masturbation. We know that the masturbatory lifestyle has grown and has been embraced by the mainstream, by gay and strait alike and mutual masturbation a valued, casual activity even between hetero men. But more is happening.



I've read and written about this before but for a mix of reasons, men's ejaculatory urge or need has just grown so strong as has their overall need for cock pleasure so it is no suprise masturbation has increased so much. Even among older generations, a growing proportion of older men report ejaculating more often now than even in their youth and masturbation has helped them achieve this dream.



But recently I came across artices about the growth of open and polyamorous relationships. As more people realize they are bisexual, a traditional monogomous relationship is simply not sufficient to satisfy them as it would a hetersexual. In a way, being bi is a curse in such a relationship since you need other sexual partners to be as satisfied as a hetero would in their mongomous relationship. The hetero is lucky in a way, not having to seekout sex with others outside their relationship.



Fortunately, as open relationships have become more common, bisexuals are able to be themselves and enjoy sex with others without fear they will lose the love and support of their partner.



Also, as more women enjoy and embrace a highly sexual lifestyle, they find they no longer need to sacrifice long-term, meaningful relationships to maintain it; They are finding refuge in polyamorous relationships.



Such women are cursed as even frequent masturbation is not enough to satisfy and so they have little option but hope to find a partner who supports an open relationship. I'm fortunate that masturbation is so satisfying for me as it can be tiring costantly seeking out new partners and having so much full on sex.



Your gal friend Marti

Author:Martheb123 | Category: Sex Stories Group Co-ed

I love the post and how it clarifies how to reference your sexuality as e.g.bisexual/ hetero-or poliamorous. I also believe that we are all on a spectrum of bisexuality, much like the Kinsey scale suggests. I also believe that there is a social side to sexual stimulation that is widely ignored, but that needs to be addressed. The latest Harvard study that found that men should orgasm around 22 times per month for prostate health only confirms that orgasms cannot be restricted to one partner only. Sharing e.g. masturbation with a good friend or friends then makes perfect sense and to detach sexual behavior from committed love is as valid.
This post then also suggests that some people needs one person as the focus of their love, where others may be able to project that love onto several others, which place that also on a spectrum ... most probably true ... Thank you for your contribution. The amount of responses suggest that this is a very relevant topic for discussion and that people need to talk about it more. There us a need to share how they feel about sexual behaviour and committed love.

A very interesting contribution, although I wouldn't agree that bisexuality is a curse. I would agree with my great friend and lover Melissa who says that being able to love both sexes is a blessing from God, and says that even though it has caused her some problems in her life. (She was unable to come out as bi to her husband, from whom she is now divorced, as he disapproved of same-sex relationships). I myself have been lucky in that my husband, who is himself bisexual, has never objected to my having intimate relationships with my female friends. Like Melissa I am both bisexual and bi-romantic, whereas my husband would class himself as bisexual and hetero-romantic; he enjoys masturbating with cute guys, but says he could only fall in love with a woman. We have had both boy-boy-girl and girl-girl-boy threesomes.

I should add another reference to the article, "Are we moving towards a society where everyone is polyamorous or in open relationships?" Turns out, we are, and that's not a bad thing either...
Less and less couples now are purely monogomous, in fact recent polling suggests that that less than 20% now are, and shrinking. That is, the majority of relationships among age 40 and below are open or polyamorous or swinging. That percent increases at age 30 and below. This together with the rise in masturbation may explain the strong increase in frequency and intensity overall of orgasms/ejaculations reported.
One thing is for sure though, we are becoming much more sexual creatures.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2019/05/27/are-we-moving-towards-a-society-where-everyone-is-polyamorous-or-in-open-relationships-9635982/amp/

I am an old man, I had my adventures when I was younger. Now I am having fun sharing my fun and masturbating, what solo touch gives me that I did not have before is a place to share my fun and to read about others.
I think that these things always existed but now in modern times they have been given a name.

Thanks for bringing an intellectual view to ST. My wife says I’m bisexual/heteroamorous, which means I like sex with women or men, but can only fall in love with women. Understanding this about myself has been liberating.