A summary of a previous story on an orgasm technique, yes, an orgasm technique, along with my edging technique with the intermittent use of a mini vibrator. 

 

Some time ago I shared a unique orgasm technique and I thought it would be worth sharing again.  To begin however, I wanted to also touch upon my edging practice and how I integrate a mini vibrator into the play.  

 

I rarely, if ever anymore, masturbate just to get off quickly.  Gone are those days.  I much prefer the looooong drawn out edge sessions, with a lot of porn enjoyment and just getting in touch with myself.  I'll often edge for hours, sometimes finishing with orgasm, but not always.  I'm more into the experience than the goal of ejaculation. 

 

Mostly I start out stroking slowly, just enjoying the firmness of my dick, slowly building up the pleasure. I'll often use the numbering system, where sexual pleasure is on a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being orgasm.  I'll build up the pleasure to a 6 and then back down a bit, hovering around that level, taking in the porn.  I then stroke a little faster, working myself up to a 7, and once again, I'll back down a bit, hovering around that 7. 

 

Just as before, I move up the scale, reaching for 8, feeling my balls tighten and pull up, that edge is in reach, but not getting there quite yet.  Once I move to a 9 (EDGE), I'll modify my stroking to try and keep it at a 9 for as long as possible, just enjoying the waves of pleasure, the pulsing of my dick, the throbbing, the sheer ecstasy of residing on the edge. Balls tight, my hand barely moving up and down, just under the rim of the head, teasing, keeping it right there. 

 

After a few minutes of this fantastic torture, I'll back down and rest for about a minute.  Starting back up again always feels so incredible, quickly ramping back up to the edge and doing it all over again, feeling the pre-cum welling up my shaft, begging to leak out. 

 

After edging over and over for as long as I like, I'll then incorporate a mini-vibrator that's actually my wife's. I've found that by placing it on a low vibration and then putting it against the side of my cock, half touching the shaft and half touching the head, it rumbles all the way to my balls, sending incredible tingles throughout my entire body.  My stomach muscles go tight, my hips move up and down, my eyes roll back, and it's pure pleasure.  I can only take this for short spurts of maybe 10 seconds at a time.  Anymore and I would definitely cum.  But the feelings are so incredibly intense.  If you haven't tried this yet, go buy a mini vibe wand and give it a go.  It really enhances the edge game. 

 

 

Ok, now for the orgasm technique.  This technique takes some practice, but that's the fun part, right?  So, ordinarily, when we orgasm, we speed up stroking, and tense up our PC muscle because we want to "get there".  With this technique however, you'll need to do just the opposite.  As you feel the orgasm coming on, instead of stroking faster, keep it at a moderate pace.  AND, as soon as you feel it coming on, push out with your PC muscle.  By push out, what I mean is, use the same push technique you would use to push pee out real hard, or the same push you do when having a bowel movement.  Try and hold that "push" as long as you can throughout the orgasm.  This is the hard part, and you may feel like you're losing the ability to push as you move through orgasm, and to some extent, you are losing the ability. 

 

What happens when you "push" is, it completely relaxes the PC muscle.  But then when the orgasm contractions occur, that completely contracts the PC muscle on its own.  So, you're going from completely relaxed to complete involuntary contraction with each orgasm contraction.  What does this technique do?  It makes the orgasm last longer and increases the intensity.  The part of the orgasm that lasts longer is the onset to peak.  And that's the part you want to last longer, right?  It's the most enjoyable, most intense phase.  You may now get this technique down the first time through, but with practice it gets better as you find yourself not focusing mentally on the push so much.  Give it a try and let me know what you think.  It's a fun technique.  

 

 

Happy masturbating.  

 

Author:MikeDog69 | Category: Masturbation Male Techniques

What an amazing read- I was between a 7 and 9 the whole time.

I do something similar. When I was 13 I discovered my parents’ electric massager (like the famous Hitachi Magic Wand), and I’ve never looked back. It’s a favorite technique because it’s quick and easy, and requires no cleanup. (I usually come in my pants. My underwear stays wet for a while, then dries.) Also, as all men our age probably know, it’s not necessary to get hard in order to come. You can’t come unless your balls pull up (it’s part of the orgasm reflex), but the penis doesn’t have to get fully hard. When I use this technique, I swell up some, but don’t get very hard until I approach the orgasm.

As for the orgasm itself, I’m not a conscious edger, but like you I have found it’s not a good idea to reach or press for the orgasm. It’s better to wait and let it happen. Also like you, I sometimes consciously relax the pelvic floor muscles. Pushing out works (but don’t hold your breath when you do it; exhale slowly as you push), but so does deep abdominal breathing. You can feel the pelvic floor muscles expand and stretch as you inhale, then return to the resting position as you exhale. It’s amazing to do this as you masturbate; it makes the feeling more intense.

Have fun!

Thanks for this. As they say, sometimes it's the journey, not the destination. Good post!

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