My thoughts on a comment from a pastor and his masturbation.
First my apologies for not asking permission of the writer for using his comment.
But it was so lovely I just had to share it.
"My wife and I absolutely love masturbating for each other! In fact, I'd say over half our sexual encounters involve watching each other masturbate. So, it was very easy to imagine my wife touching herself for me while reading your words. And just as easy to stroke myself to a much needed climax. Thanks for sharing."
To hear a Christian leader say that is beautiful and encouraging.
There has been so much written in the last few years defending that masturbation is not a sin.
No where in the bible does it list masturbation as a sexual sin - it lists them: adultery, fornication, harlotry, and same sex sexual activity.
For men it just says if you have an emission of semen - go wash.
Personally, I like my hubby to have emissions of semen, in my pussy of course, because as much as I like masturbating (which I do - a lot), I love having a husband who fucks me. Like the pastor I am quoting above, a healthy Christian marriage has good amounts of both fucking and frigging/wanking. I like hubby preparing for a date by wanking into his undies. So sexy finding evidence that he had wanked himself. I also like finding my used knickers in the laundry with his semen in them, means he jerked off thinking of me, I find that very sweet, and arousing, especially as I would have cum in my knickers a time or two or three. As Christians we are not bound by the Levitical hygiene laws, so our men are free to ejaculate in their hands, on themselves, their wives and on and in clothing.
The story of Onan has nothing to do with masturbation, if in doubt, read it for yourself, Genesis chapter 38.
Writing about this has made me so horny, excuse me a moment for this Christian woman to frig herself before she continues - with hand up my skirt and through my knickers!
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Nice sitting here with my knickers freshly cummed in. Much better.
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Now about women - the bible explicitly describes a moment with the Shulammite getting out of bed with her hands (plural) 'dripping with myrrh'! For those who try to explain it away as something else, read it for yourself, Song of Songs chapter 5. A handful of scholars agree with me that she was masturbating herself and look at how she is described:
Chap 1:8 “fairest among women,”
Chap 4:7 ‘You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.’
Chap 5:2 “flawless”
Chap 5:9 “O fairest among women”
Chap 6:9 "... perfect,... pure,... blessed..."
Shulammite: the meaning of the name is “From the verb שלם (shalem), to be or make whole or complete”.
1 Cor 6:20, glorify God in your body
Romans 12:1, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God
Looks pretty clear to me.
You Christian women want to honour God and your husband, Glorify God in your bodies, including your sexuality, be, flawless, perfect, pure? The Shulammite is the example, with her 'hands dripping with myrrh', then you need to be women of self masturbation.
To those of you who are not Christian. Have you rejected Christ on the belief he is against pleasure? Against masturbation? God himself made, made the pleasure, yes, there are rules, there are restriction on sex with other people, but no restriction with yourself, (still don't deprive your spouse, that is terrible - a healthy marriage has both fucking and frigging/wanking - bot, not either/or).
If single, of course your should be frigging or wanking yourself, it is beautiful, all beauty comes from God.
How often? You should pray everyday, should you not also offer your body and sexuality to God everyday, love God - so masturbate yourself everyday.
And teach that to your mother, father, sister, brother, daughters, son.
I think it will be pleasing to God if everyone in church was masturbating themselves every day... and talked about!
God is good.
Love Sarah.
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