Not Cumming On Purpose

Every Thursday evening, a bunch of guys would pay $7 each to attend a tantric clinic. There were usually around thirty of us that met on a third-floor dance studio in a very industrial area. The studio had mirrors along one wall, and the other wall was entirely windows. It surprised me that no one seemed to care that there were no curtains. People working in nearby offices could easily look in and see what was going on. But that seemed to be OK with everyone else, so who was I to complain? So, all the guys took off their clothes, and basically massaged each other and gave each other handjobs. We grouped in threes, and over the course of an hour, each of us would get 20 minutes of massage, and give 40 minutes of massage. During each guy's 20-minute session, he was massaged by his two group mates. In general, the general massage portion lasted around 10 minutes, and the handjob portion filled the other ten minutes. The idea was to not ejaculate. Now and then a guy would slip and blow a load, but most managed to enjoy the attention with a rock hard penis, but not go over the edge. A few experts could have dry orgasms and still not ejaculate. Those guys were highly esteemed among this crowd. So, I told my wife who has lost interest in ordinary sex, about it, and she started helping in a similar way every few days. And she continues to this day, many years later. Not so much massage. Instead, she jumps right to the handjob part. At first I had to let her know when I was getting too close, and when I was ready to continue. In time, she became better at reading my physiology. In the first sessions, I'd last anywhere from a couple of minutes to a half-hour without cumming, but I almost always shot off before she was done with me. In time, I became able to last the whole time. I don't mean I was soft and uninterested. Most of the time, I was as hard as a two-by-four, and right on the edge. But, I learned not to cum. After a half-hour or so, she'd say she was done, and that was that. Now, if you're normal, you might think that it would be terribly frustrating to get that close to ejaculation, and then not have the final event. And at first, I sort of felt that way too. In fact, a few times, I wanked myself to ejaculation afterward, sometimes when she laid next to me and fell asleep, sometimes later, in my office or in the recliner in the living room. In time, however, it became quite a treat to get her non-ejaculatory handjobs, sometimes with dry orgasms, sometimes not, and then ride out the rest of the evening and well into the next day without cumming. It turns out to feel invigorating. People claim it helps with mental clarity, emotional stability, overall health, and even lowers blood pressure. Try it sometime!