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Men and their orgasms

Posted by: SoloTouchArchive Author: Happygirl Posted on: 03 Jan 2004 1 comments
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Coincidentally enough, the last three men I have been with have had trouble with their orgasms. Contrary to the popular belief that some men, particularly younger ones, tend to be premature, I've been lately experiencing the opposite. Please advise.I just got back from a holiday visit in New York to see my boyfriend who I will call "John." We had a great time walking around the city and catching up on the sex we haven't been having because we are in a long-distance relationship. He is really wonderful in bed. I have never had so many orgasms with anyone else before. However, he doesn't usually have orgasms with me, and it makes me feel like I'm being selfish. I also feel inadequate because I think that I must be doing something wrong, but he reassures me and says that it's just the way he is and that he is being satisfied even though he doesn't climax. For the record, he is 29.Prior to John, I had been with "Adam" who was also very good in bed, but he had the same problem (just to a lesser degree). Adam seemed to be fairly consistent about having orgasms during intercourse so long as he was the one on top doing the thrusting. And even when he was thrusting, it would take an incredibly long time. When I did the thrusting, it wouldn't happen at all. Also, he never had orgasms when I orally pleasured him. Like John, Adam was always very gracious about giving me pleasure and seemed concerned that I was overly preoccupied with not pleasuring him. He insisted that the only thing that he wanted was to turn me on and that he would be satisfied so long as I was. Adam was also 29 at the time.Before Adam, it was "Paul" who only had orgasms orally, and he also took a long time which wore out both my mouth and my hand. Paul didn't ever have orgasms during intercourse. Paul was 33 when I was with him.Is this way of being for men more common than most people think? Help!