My Mother's History With CFNM

WOW! I can’t believe it is nearly five years since I last visited this site. I notice there is a lot more CFNM stories, which I love. I also notice that most of them are not used to humiliate and degrade men in any way but a whole heap of fun for everyone. Thanks.

This story was told to me by my mother. I encouraged her to join and write her own stories but at 80 feels that she is too old to do so but enjoys telling me stories from her past. Which she has told me in the past and I whenever I ask her to retell them for my enjoyment or the enjoyment/entertainment of others, my own children included. I will write this as if I am my mother to make it simple for me. But first you will need to know a bit about her. This story will help to give you an understanding about me and my sexual adventures.

Her name is Mary and she was born in Canada in 1940, she has a brother, Tim, who is one year older than her. She was raised in a single parent home because her father was killed in 1941 while fighting for Canada in World War Two and her mother, my grandmother never remarried. Her mum purchased a house with the government money she received due to the death of her husband. Since she owned her home she was able to make ends meet by doing photography, her passion that she would not have been able to do if she didn’t own her home.

Mary’s story

I will start this story in 1956.  Mum told us she planned to move us all to Australia, my father’s place of birth and somewhere that he had wanted to take us. She said that in Australia it was essential that we know how to swim properly, not just splash around. So she planned to pay for Tim to take swimming lessons for a year followed by me for a year then we would move. She didn’t have the spare money to pay for swimming for the two of us at once as well as save for the trip.

She decided that the best place for us to learn was at the YMCA. They had separate swimming for males and females because the boys would swim nude and us girls would swim with bathers on. This knowledge gave me a tingle between my legs just thinking about all those naked boys. Mum had always been sexually open and honest with us and there had been the odd time when we had all accidentally seen each other nude. I was very curious sexually and did my best to ‘accidentally’ see Tim nude as often as possible and now just the thought of him and a bunch of other boys swimming nude had my pussy on fire. I would often masturbate to the thought of being the only girl learning to swim with the boys - of course I would have my bathers on and they would have erections then end up masturbating for me.

After a few months of Tim having lessons we were told that the boys were going to be giving a swimming exhibition for everyone’s families. Initially I thought that the boys would be supplied with bathers for this but my mum informed me that they would all be nude. She suggested that I might want to wear a pad to soak up the pussy juices that I would be making. She said that she would be wearing one. I desperately wanted to tease Tim about being naked in-front of a lot of women and girls but mum had warned me not to say anything that would embarrass him. She said that if I wanted boys to be putty in my hands and do what it was that I wanted them to do then the best course of action was to treat them respectfully. She told me to ‘watch and learn.’

During the weeks leading up to the exhibition mum and myself developed an undercurrent of praise for Tim and expectation of how good it was going to be to see how well he could swim. There was never any mention of him being nude. Tim didn’t bring it up either and seemed quite relaxed about the exhibition. I wasn’t sure if he knew he was going to be nude and asked mum if we should mention it to him. She said he was aware and that we had no need to reinforce the fact. It might look as though we were gloating.

When we arrived at the ‘Y’ Tim went to the change room and we went into the bleachers. I noticed that nearly all of the spectators were females - probably mums, sisters, aunts or cousins. There were also a number of girls from the high school Tim and myself attended. Before the boys came out the instructor addressed us spectators. I was stunned to see that the instructor was a female. She was very attractive and looked to be around 30. I found out later that it wasn’t too uncommon to have had female instructors ever since around the first world war due to the lack of men being available.

The instructor mentioned that the boys would be performing as if it was a normal swimming lesson. They would be nude and it would be appreciated if there was no giggling or anything done to embarrass the boys. She also mentioned the boys may get an erection, this was quite normal and something that often happened during their regular lessons. When they did get an erection they would most likely be very embarrassed being in front of females other than her. She also mentioned that this ‘Y’ is one of the most successful ‘Ys’ even with a female instructor because they respected and celebrated boys and masculinity. There were other ‘Ys’ that made the boys feel ashamed of some of their masculine traits, especially erections and insisted that they go and masturbate to get rid of it. She deliberately made no big deal about something that was normal and healthy and had never told them off for it. She actually encouraged them to be proud of their masculinity and that an erection was something that they need not be ashamed of. In fact she, and most women were flattered that a male would have an erection with them watching.

The boys were then brought out to begin the proceedings. There was fifteen or twenty of them. They must have had a pre-swim shower since they had water droplets running down their bodies. They looked sooooo hot. I’m glad I had a pad on because I was immediately wet, my pussy felt as though it was going to flood and that I would cum by just watching all these naked boys, some of them being in the same class as me. I gently squeezed my thighs together to help relieve some of the tension.  A few of the boys already had partial erections. This was going to be the best time of my life!

Throughout the program there were always a number of erections to be seen and enjoyed, including Tim. The boys were at an interesting age because they were at different stages of puberty. I couldn’t get enough of watching them.

I think most of the females were aroused because there was a strong scent of female arousal throughout the bleachers. I became embarrassed because I was sure the boys must have been able to smell our arousal. It seemed to me that some of the women were having small orgasms, including me by pushing my thighs together while gently rocking my pussy on the seat. However, I was glad it was the boys naked and not us girls. I could watch naked males all day every day. I especially loved seeing them go from flaccid to erect. I was imagining what it would be like if they were to be lined up and give us a masturbation demonstration.

Going home in the car was interesting. I thought there might be some tension due to Tim being embarrassed but there wasn’t and the talk led us into a new phase of our life. Mum asked Tim how he felt about the event with him being naked in front of a lot of females, especially girls his own age, while they were dressed. Tim said that overall he was fine with it, although he thought he would have enjoyed it more if the swimming was mixed with everyone being naked.

He thought that he may get a bit of a rush with being seen nude and that he had been experimenting a bit at home with letting me accidentally catch him naked. I went bright red and felt a hot flush come over me - busted! And I thought I was being careful. Mum told us both that nudity wasn’t a problem and Tim showing me and me deliberately watching wasn’t an issue. She said that we would talk more about that and other things at home but she really wanted to know why Tim had started to experiment with exhibitionism.

Tim told mum that it had to do with the swimming but the instructor had made all the boys promise not to say a thing about it so he couldn’t tell us. I was disappointed but mum managed to convince him that no one would be in trouble and that it would be fine to tell us. So he did.

He said that initially Helen, the instructor, had all the boys together with their clothes on and explained to them what was going to happen. At first the boys were tense about having a female instructor because they had been told that they would be naked. She said that she saw her job as more than just teaching them how to swim but also about life and relationships. She asked the boys to wait where they were until she came back with her bathers on.

Once in front of them she told them that she understood about male arousal and expected that they did too and she understood that part of their embarrassment about having a female instructor was becoming aroused i.e. getting an erection in front of her. She said that she would be disappointed if they didn’t because she saw that as an affirmation of her and that in no way would she tell them off because of it but would be flattered and enjoy it.

Helen then explained to them about female arousal. She said that although nipples could become erect due to cold but if the temperature was warm, like in the swimming complex that it was most likely due to arousal. She also explained about vaginal lubrication and the scent. She said that she would probably become aroused looking at the naked boys and that they were to take that as an affirmation that she was turned on by their masculinity and that she would not try to cover it up. She said that she would love to be naked with the boys but the rules didn’t allow it.

Helen explained about voyeurs and exhibitionist and she felt that she had a good mix of both in her. That is why she would be happy to be naked with them but that her voyeur part enjoyed them being naked and especially seeing them aroused. However, to help with her exhibitionist side she had taken out the inside lining of her bathers so that she was more visible to them and when she lubricated they could easily see the wet area between her legs and not to be embarrassed looking because she was going to be looking at them.

She also told them about the exhibition days that were planned and said that if the boys all turned up and acted as if the spectators were not there then she had a special treat for them.

She also told them that some males enjoyed being naked around females who were clothed and that the exhibition day with our families could be a good indicator of this. If they felt especially aroused it might be worthwhile experimenting being naked in the presence of clothed women. She also mentioned that once a male was no longer as aroused his erection would go down but once a females panties were wet the scent stayed, even though she may no longer be aroused.

Tim said that the first time Helen became aroused she told the boys to gather around and take notice. She said that it would stand them in good stead for later in life. She also encouraged the boys to get up close and smell her arousal. She said that it was easy for women to know when a male was aroused but men had to be more attentive. Tim said that he could smell the arousal from the women in the bleachers and he could smell it quite strongly in the car now.

Mum smiled but I tried to deny it. Mum told me not to deny it, that it was the same as asking the boys not to try and hide their arousal and not to be embarrassed by it. She said that it was the sign of a perfectly well functioning person. She then asked Tim what the special treat it was that Helen gave the boys.

Tim said that after the program finished she went into the change rooms with them and stripped down so that everyone was naked. She stood up on a bench so that all the boys could get a good look at her. The boys instantly had erections, which made her happy and aroused. She pointed to her nipples, which were very hard and opened her labia show a very wet slit. They all showered together naked.

Mum said that she noticed Tim had an erection during most of the program and was wondering if his level of arousal was normal or if he felt more aroused tonight. Tim said it was hard to tell because he regularly had an erection during swimming lessons so didn’t know if he was more aroused or if it was being in the presence of women whether they were clothed or not. He felt that some of his arousal during swimming lessons was due to Helen being aroused and tonight might have been because he could smell the arousal of the women.

Mum said that the night had been a real watershed for our family and that from now on we were all going to experiment with our sexuality and got Tim and my approval for participating in some practical sexuality lessons.

Once we were home mum told us she had some special photos to show us, most of which were taken by mum.

She had us sit on the lounge, one on each side of her. She explained that dad was an exhibitionist who especially enjoyed being naked in the presence of clothed women, although he also enjoyed seeing naked women. That is why she asked Tim about his experience tonight and believes he is very similar to our father. Mum on the other hand is more of a voyeur, hence the love of photography but is also very partial to being naked in the right setting.

The photos were large format, very clear, and of a professional standard mainly of our father. He was naked in every photo, very aroused with a beautifully erect cock (I could see where Tim got his lovely cock from) in most photos; masturbating and having an orgasm in some; surrounded by clothed women in quite a few photos - including masturbating and having mum masturbate him in front of the women. In every photo it was evident that dad was really enjoying himself.

There were also a few photos of mum in the nude mixing with people who were all naked. These were taken at a nudist retreat they used to visit. There were also a couple of photos of mum being naked surrounded by clothed men. Mum said that while she enjoyed being nude she preferred the voyeur side of things and dad was quite happy being an exhibitionist so it suited them down to the ground.

Mum said that while we were on a roll, how about we go to our rooms, strip down and come back to the den naked. I shot a glance at Tim then questioned mum about all of us being naked. I thought that since we had already seen Tim naked that maybe it was going to be just him. Mum assured me she meant everyone including herself. She said that if dad was still alive we would have been doing things together nude as a family for years however she wasn’t confident about how to go about it on her own but with Tim now doing nude swimming it had brought up the opportunity.

We went to our rooms, stripped down then came back to the den. Tim was sporting a very firm erection and I was worried that my own arousal would be evident. I’m not sure why because we had already talked about it. Mum had brought a couple of towels with her, one for me and one for her. She said they were to soak up the vaginal lubrication from our arousal. I noticed that Tim had some clear liquid seeping from the tip of his cock.

Suddenly all my curiosity about boys came bubbling up to the surface and I began asking Tim a bucket load of questions. Mum settled me saying that she was sure that over the next few years all of both mine and Tim’s questions would be answered.

Mum said that our dad was an incredibly attentive lover from the start and when asked how he came to be that way he told her that he had an aunt that taught him, with his parents permission. The only thing she didn’t do with him was to have intercourse but they had come close to it while experimenting with other things. This same aunty also introduced him to the idea that he might be an exhibitionist. She did this by taking him swimming.  

Mum explained that over the last couple of hundred years women rarely swam but men did. However, the men were always naked when they swam. It wasn’t uncommon for the women and girls to be on the beach while the men and boys swam nude. Gradually a shift occurred where women began to swim but they had bathing costumes while the men were still naked. There was a mixture of separated swimming and mixed swimming. When the YMCA built pools all the males swam nude and initially women didn’t go to the ‘Y’ but that gradually changed with most places having a strict policy of separate swimming times for male and females. However, at beaches and swimming holes there were no such segregation rules although the boys generally did their best to make sure there were no girls around.

During World War One there was a shortage of male swimming instructors so the ‘Y’ began to employ women. Ever so gradually it became more common practice to see clothed females mixed with the naked males. Some of the ‘Y’s’ introduced days where the family members of the boys would watch the boys swim and get their certificates - the boys were always naked while the audience included clothed women and girls of the same age as the boys.

Your dad’s aunty was involved with a group of women who really enjoyed being around nude males while they remained clothed. These women would invite males to go swimming with them. When your dad was about sixteen he was invited to go along to these events. They would go swimming first - with the males naked while the girls had on bathers - then they would end up spending the day having a picnic and playing games. The males were never invited to get dressed after swimming while the women were always dressed. It was not at all uncommon for the day to end being sexually charged with the women doing their best to elicit an erection from the males. They would have competitions to see who could become erect the fastest or who could maintain the strongest erection. Most times the women would stroke the erections and the men would orgasm either from the hand or mouth of a woman or by having a masturbation competition. To help keep the men interested the women would usually masturbate but this would be done while maintaining full coverage. After all, why should the men be the only ones to be sexually satisfied.

It was being involved with this group that your dad realised that he was an exhibitionist. Not all the males involved ended up continuing with it as a lifestyle but with encouragement from his aunty dad took to it like the proverbial duck to water. Dad introduced mum to the practice when they started going out and it was rare for him to be clothed when they were home. He also found that he enjoyed looking at nude females so altered the way he and mum did things. That is why there are a good number of photos of mum being naked.

Mum turned her attention to Tim telling him that she would like to help him explore his exhibitionist tendency because she felt that he had inherited it from dad. She would like to especially explore the possibility that he might be just as much into being naked around clothed women as dad was. Therefore, unless mum gave him permission while he was home he was to be naked however us females would also be naked from time to time, like we were right now.

Tim asked what he would do if some of my friends from school were over or some of mum friends came over. Mum said that he would remain naked unless she gave him permission to get dressed. Tim screwed his nose up over this but mum just reassured him, telling him that she believed he would end up really liking it, but, if after experiencing it for a while, he was uncomfortable with it then it would stop. She showed him the photos again of dad around clothed women telling him to see if he was happy or unhappy about the experience. Tim acknowledge that he appeared happy. He said that he noticed dad often had an erection around the women and what was to happen if he got one. Mum told him he could do whatever he felt like. If he wanted to masturbated to relieve it he could - he could then choose to either go and do it privately or to allow the visitors to watch and be educated. However, if he wanted to wonder around with an erection he could.

Mum thought that it would be good practice for him to try to maintain his erections for as long as possible and that she would teach him and me how to get a man to be able to regularly have an orgasm while maintaining an erection afterward then continuing onto another orgasm. She said that most people didn’t have a clue about this.

While Tim was the focus of our talk mum explained what the liquid coming out the end of his cock was and why his cock was throbbing. She went on to encourage both Tim and myself to taste the pre-cum and after he came to also taste his cum.

Mum gave me the best sex ed lesson ever. She explained about the different parts of the male genitals and got me to feel and fondle his scrotum and balls then handle his cock including stroking it, rubbing his frenulum, palming his cock head and masturbating just his cock head - this sent Tim into a frenzy of ecstasy and pain, wanting it to keep going but also to stop. I was on an absolute high.

Tim’s responses to all that we did and the power I had over him had me totally hooked on playing with the male genitals. Later, when we watched him masturbate for us also got me hooked on watching males masturbating and ejaculating.

Mum told us that once most males orgasm their erection tends to go down and then takes a while to come back up. However, a younger male can maintain an erection and it is possible with the right stimulation and incentive to have most men pretty much maintaining an erection. We saw this with Tim. I had the privilege, under mum’s instructions, to edge Tim to the point that he was begging to orgasm. Once mum let me take him over the edge the release was just amazing, but he kept his erection. Mum gave Tim a couple of minutes to get his composure before getting him to then masturbate himself to orgasm.

Mum had me stroke, massage and cradle Tim’s body to help bring him down. She said that doing this help him to maintain an erection and then once he had cum once it generally took men longer to cum again allowing us to have a longer and better show of him masturbating or us enjoying intercourse for longer.

I was so engrossed in watching and learning about Tim that I forgot that it would probably be Tim’s turn to learn about me. When mum said that it was Tim’s turn to learn about the female body I went bright red and tried to back out of it, but mum would have none of it.

This part of the story might be for another time but my main aim was to let you know how I got involved with enjoying a lifetime of nude aroused men and passing that passion onto my daughter - ned460.

The last thing we did together that night was to watch each other masturbate to orgasm. I think watching mum masturbate and orgasm also led me to realise that while I enjoyed men the most I came to love watching anyone enjoy themselves sexually.

If the interest is there I might also tell you some stories about the fun I had with just Tim and myself, or the fun I had with inviting my school friends over so we could play with Tim or should I say watch Tim play with himself.

I know some of you might have doubted what my daughter got up to at times but she came by it honestly having had excellent practice and coaching. I think that out of my mother, myself and my daughter my daughter has the most sexually fertile mind of any of us.