Coming Back After a Break from this Site

In summer of 2018, I finished out the year at my previous job as a school librarian in one state, packed up my apartment, and moved to the state where my boyfriend lives.  We had split up 4 years before that and got back together during Christmas vacation in 2017 after a long discussion about what our relationship would look like if we rekindled it.  Long story short, we decided to do it, which meant me leaving my job at the end of that year and finding another one where I live now with him.  At first, my new job was only part-time, teaching literacy classes to adults, but I've since been promoted to full-time at the same organization.

My boyfriend and I are very emotionally compatible.  I'm probably more sexually compatible with myself, being autosexual, but we make it work.  For instance, he really loves to watch me masturbate, and one of the things I really missed about exclusive autosexuality was giving a masturbation show for someone else, having an exhibitionistic streak.  Much of the sex we have together is me showing off for him and him watching, but we do other things, too, like intercourse and oral sex.

The most challenging thing for us to work out was carving out time for me to have sex with myself without him being involved.  I was worried I was offending him when I did it while he was at home and it was a day when I didn't want to include him.  I feel very self-conscious in the room masturbating with the door closed when he's home, and when I orgasm, I find myself consciously stifling my vocalizations, because I don't feel comfortable with the arrangement.  It's still something we are working out, but we're mostly happy with how we are with each other.  

Anyway, I hope to get back into being more regular on here soon!