Keep some lube at hand, not too much, just enough to keep things smooth. You might need it during, so not only at the beginning.
Get your penis erect/standing and rub your head in circles with the palm of your hand (keep your hand/head lubes just a bit, you want some smooth friction)
Dance around the head of your cock and you'll feel the sensation coming. Might feel spams and a bit uncomfortable but just keep on going.
Even when you reach the point of no return, try to keep swirling over your head with your palm.
Enjoy!