I usually get right to the anal play, lubing up the inflation balloon, inserting it and, pumping it up as high as it will go, I feel the pressure, backing it down and, repeating, it feels so good I don't need to jerk off. The sensation is incredible and, it really gets me in the mood. I will jerk off in, stop, for several hours, using the toy intermittently. It tends to cause an huge orgasm which, feels great.