We'd Rather Be Masturbating!

My girlfriend prefers masturbation over sex. She works in the field, far from civilization, 4-6 months of the year, in camps populated mostly by men, and she spends much of her free time masturbating, and not because lovers are not available! She discovered masturbation fairly late in her life, after many relationships brought together mostly for sex. She would finger herself for the quick orgasm now and then, but then one summer when she was in graduate school a woman doing research with her introduced her to her g-spot and the wonders of vibrators and dildos. She began squirting the second time she used them, and had multiple orgasms pretty much every night from then on.

Her dependence on guys for sex all changed when she became, as she calls it, 'sexually sufficient'. She had never had such great sex before, or as much of it-and she was ecstatic at being free of the heavy entanglements of selfish lovers. As her sexuality blossomed, she began attracting guys like flies. Given many choices, she gravitated to older men who made fewer demands on her, or none at all.

We met and had coffee, then coffee again, then dinner several times with just a little kissing and petting at the end. She's got a real woman's body-curvaceous, full, rich, that kept my cock at least little puffy at all times, and made it very hard when pressed against her. I frankly thought that she was just being kind to me when we kissed and petted a little, and probably had younger lovers who she let fuck her. I didn't mind-just being with her was fueling my masturbation as nobody else had done.

One night I asked her how she 'fullfilled her needs' in the camps, if she had lovers-she seemed so sexual to me that I couldn't imagine otherwise. I had certainly masturbated imagining just that!

She laughed, and said she was her OWN lover, and that she doubted any man could satisfy her sexually as much as she could satisfy herself. I was floored at what I heard her say, and her frankness. I was a devoted masturbator, too, but afraid to let on to anyone! After I recovered, I asked for more, and she told me of sex with her early boyfriends, and then about the woman who introduced her to masturbation (as well as lesbian sex), and of how she no longer dated 'for sex'. She was very out front about her preference for masturbation. In fact, so open that I found myself confessing to her right then of the long hours I spend masturbating, and even some of my kinky fantasies. We both laughed when we discovered that we both masturbated intensely after seeing each other. Even so, we were embarrasssed to masturbate in front of each other, and it was three or four more dates before we did.

We're together because we like each other a whole lot, love each other, and also we share a preference for masturbation. We regularly, but infrequently, make love, and we masturbate often. She has a girlfriend she occasionally sees for sex. She's very frank about telling me that sex with a man comes in third place. When she first told me, I felt waves of humiliation that turned to the most erotic passion I'd ever felt.

After my intitial fear of masturbating in front of her, I now can't get enough. We often masturbate together, but she also indulges my fantasies by dressing in kinky lingerie and allowing me to masturbate on her. She's taught me how to masturbate her the way she likes, using her favorite toys. I have to admit that I totally love kneeling in front of her, bringing her to orgasm after orgasm by masturbation, while my cock is hard and dripping precum. I guess it's kind of 'submissive', but I'm never happier than when, after she's exhausted with masturbation, she lets me finally jack off in front of her.

When we're apart-which is for long periods, we're able to fully devote ourselves to our most erotic fantasies, and we share our fantasies with each other by email. I love hearing them from her, and often masturbate over and over to her emails.

I've enjoyed masturbating to erotica with men since I was in high school, and I entertain a man now and then when she's away. She finds that a big turn-on, especially when we send pictures, and she sees me covered in cum. I suppose you could call it an 'open' relationship-but deeply bonded through masturbation. Our love and partiality to masturbation is still a secret to most of our friends, who would think us pretty wierd. It's a shame, because we both feel sexually more fulfilled than ever, and would love to share our happiness.

Wow, this grew to a long story! Thanks for being here to listen. It's nice to know there are others out there who love masturbation as much as we do, and especially some who, like us, prefer masturbation over all else. Your stories make us feel really great!