Masturbating Grandfather

I enjoy this site very much. It encourages honesty about the intensity of our sexuality and the large part sex plays in our lives.

My story is about sex and older people.

I assumed, older people were rendered sexless, by age, until I became a senior citizen. I enjoy being sexually aroused, and many men my age and older do, also. Some women too, but I won't speak for them.

My own experience tells me that sex is part of good health. Unless an older person is physically ill, sex can and should be a part of his or her life, perhaps as often as every day.

I realize that my grandchildren probably think of me as old and without sex urge (although my 16 year old walked in on me when I was masturbating once.) They're wrong. Any teenager who masturbates can look forward to masturbating when they're my age too, and all the years in between. I encourage them to.

Probably the same things turn me on as turn teenagers on - provocative clothes, a very fine pair of breasts and/or buttocks, a tender voice, a caress, the way a woman may walk, sing, sit, stand, smile - everything about women is beautiful - and just because I'm not 22 years old any more, it doesn't mean I don't see and appreciate it.

Yes at age 64, about 4 or 5 times a week, I get comfortable, find an image in my mind, on the internet, a video, whatever - take my clothes off, caress various parts of my body, eventually taking my penis in my hand and stroke myself. The pleasure is always great, even though the quality of my erection may not be what it was 40 years ago. I take my time, I enjoy the mounting arousal, and, when I am ready, I apply an ample amount of baby oil, or KY-Gel, or coconut oil,(suntan lotion- my favorite) to my penis. When I don't want to hold off any more and am ready to have my orgasm, I make a fist around my penis (that feels very much like being inside a sweet vagina!) and I squeeze and slide my hand up and down until my orgasm comes.

Yes, at 64 I still produce sperm, sometimes quite a lot of it. And, I moan and sigh and arch my back and give myself pleasure for as long as it feels good, for as long as I can make it last.

Then, I sit back, more relaxed than I may have been in days, and, without guilt, I lie back and listen to the good sounds of the world, and feel and hear my pleasured body as I am filled with gratitude for being me, for being sexual, for being male.

Sex, masturbation especially, is very beautiful all throughout life - from 12 until 64, for me. I look forward to being a sexual person for a long time. Why would anyone think an older person would want to give up self pleasuring just because we are not so young any longer?

I think my prostate is in better shape because I have frequent orgasms. I believe my penis is stronger and harder than it would be if I did not masturbate.

Well, it's early evening. I have the house to myself. I think I'll rent a good video at the adult store, and come home and masturbate.

Be well. Be healthy. Be sensual. Be safe.