Reponse to Hand Job Question

I've been masturbating for more years than I can remember, and I've taught many ladies how to give me excellent hand jobs. Of course, a couple of them already knew pretty well how to do it. Let me start by saying that you'll learn much more at first by watching him do it. This is very important. Guys do it differently, even if only in subtle ways.

After you've watched, and learned what makes him respond to his own touches, start joining in by rubbing his inner thighs, softly. Get him used to your touch, and also you're getting used to him. Go very slow. Evey movement should be very deliberate, and try to pay attention to how he responds as you touch him. Sliding your hand up and down his penis is something I'm sure you know already. But, pay particular attention to the soft area under the head of his penis. That is a very sensitive area. Some guys like to have their balls rubbed, also. Caress the hairs on his balls very lightly. Also, if you're doing it without any lube, as you would do to start, slide your hand up and down very lightly, barely touching him as your hand goes up and down.

The main thing is after watching him do it, and taking your time, you can pretty much figure it all out. If you want to really get going, take something to lubricate his penis while you're doing it. KY liquid is great, and easy to clean up.

I remember getting my 1st hand job. She was a little ackward at first, but after I showed her how I did it, she did a great job. I was 15, and she was a neighbor, 14. We had dated a few times at school dances, etc. We were at a party after a dance, at a friend's house. Her and I drifted off to my friend's bedroom, and we decided to masturbate each other, but nothing else. What I remember best besides having a shuddering orgasm was how hard my penis got. It was literally throbbing in her hand. Well, it sure didn't take long for me to cum. Afterwards, I played with her pussy, after getting her to masturbate for me. I had never seen it before. I laid on my stomach, with my face in between her legs. I watched her finger herself, then I started rubbing her wet pussy, then took over for her fingers. I finally got it right, and it was the most beautiful thing.

As we held each other, I got hard again naturally, and she did me again. While her hands were on me, I could have agreed to anything. The main thing is to really love his cock. Because it's going to LOVE you.

Good luck, and have fun!!!! Let us know how it goes.