Totally at Ease

after 25 years of marriage you begin to realize that the true sign of a successful loving relationship is when the realization occurs that your partner is completely confortable with all sorts of sexual behavoir--particularly masturbation....

my wife and i both have come to accept that there are times when one of us is not in the mood...we also understand that this does not mean that the horny party should go without some kind of relief for the evening...and so if one of us is not in the mood for mutual sex play...the rule is simple --masturbate to you hearts content --in total comfort with your lover next to your side...this makes for great sex even though the other person is not directly involved in the activity....

in my case. i will rest my wife's head on my chest while she sleeps...with my free hand i will stroke myself gently for 15 or 20 minutes until i cum....she is somewhat unaware of the activty but will often kiss me when i'm done...as if to say good job...

when she needs relief and i'm out of it,my wife will lay on her back and masturbate much the same way...gently massaging herself for about the same amount of time..until she has one good orgasm...if she feels extra horny,she will contnue for a few more quick orgasms...

neither of us feel a need to try and cover up what where doing nor do we what to...its just that we are confortable partners---totally at ease...i think this is sign of great relationships...