Masturbating With Husband

I have been masturbating since I was 12. Happily my husband loves it when I masturbate in his arms in bed. He puts one arm under my neck and while I slowly bring myself to orgasm he gently fondles my breasts with his free hand --never to a point of distraction, always to a degree of enhancement. I love to explode and then lie back as he holds me gently and tells me that he loves me. Some times he then masturbates while I watch. We have great sex together, but fairly often masturbation is the focal point. I just love the build up, the control, and the feeling of total acceptance.