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Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Sun Jan 28, 2024 1:13 am
by mistergb
Does any of you have that experience ? I was in a happy relationship for 6 years that ended. I am now 28 , when I was a teen of course like every teenage boys I was horny but when I went steady and for the 6 years I was with my now ex girlfriend I was not as horny at all, actually I did not masturbate that much when I was in a relationship, very rarely actually. We would have sex occasionally but I was not thinking of it all the time. Watching porn was never on my mind. However since we broke off and I am back being single I started to have sex a lot more on my mind , I watch porn regularly and I beat off everyday, sometime twice a day. It is very weird, it feels like in terms of my sexual urges I am reverting back to be a teenager again 😆 I actually wonder if it is the same for my ex on her side. I wonder if her also started getting hornier since the break up, It was a friendly break up but I will never dare ask her that haha Maybe the day I find someone else it will cool me off once more. Also being single again made me want to experiment more with masturbation , it made me more adventurous, I go online looking for techniques to enhance orgasm, to last longer and stuff like that. I am meeting people around my age on the internet and we are thinking of setting up a cam sessions and I was always super shy, I would never think of doing something like that befors but now I'm like "Yeah Ill do that". A part of me love feeling this way because it proves my sex drive is intact and well but on the other side it can be too much. Like I jerk off nearly every night before going to bed because I get hard due to my overactive imagination and if I do not do it I won't be able to sleep . I just find it interesting and I did not expect this to come out of the break up. Am I becoming a sex addict :lol: Just joking but sometime I think to myself that...

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Mon Jan 29, 2024 3:35 pm
by wonderdick
Sounds pretty natural to me. Perhaps the most I’m married now, 60 years old, and my wife and I have delicious sex 2-3 times a week, when she has the energy for it. But I’m constantly thinking about sex and masturbating as often as I get the chance. That used to feel unfaithful to me so I would repress my sexual thoughts and fantasies, thinking it should be expressed with only her and I should save up for her, and it felt like infidelity to masturbate and especially to imagine other women real or imagined. For some time now I decided my sexuality was my own and a mysterious and beautiful drive and I share it with her sometimes but I enjoy experiencing it in other ways as well. Often after I’ve had a hot solo session in the afternoon I will be even more hot when we have sex that evening, so through that experience I concluded its even good for the relationship to indulge my own fantasies.

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Sun Mar 17, 2024 6:02 am
by spunkluvr
Had two long-term relationships and have wanked my way through both of them. Ending a relationship had no effect on my love of wanking.

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Thu May 16, 2024 4:02 pm
by gmcguy2023
I was in a relationship with an extremely CO dependent person from about 2004 to 2018. It turned into a toxic sexless marriage. Yes! I experienced the same feeling. I had no sex drive by the end of the relationship and other than masturbation with a close male friend I had zero sexual interest. After I left her I went to a men's clinic and got my hormones checked and my test levels were super low so I tried TRT, HCG Cialis etc and I was a fucking machine! I experimented with cock rings, vibrators, Fleshlight, cam masturbation and women that just wanted casual sex. I have been in relationship for about 4 years now but I needed to get that out of my system! Life is too short to be miserable.

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Fri May 17, 2024 4:53 pm
by jeep
Liking this thread. Personally, I’ve jacked my way all through every relationship I’ve been in. When you’ve got the cum in you, it’s go to get out!

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Fri May 17, 2024 11:11 pm
by wisher
jeep wrote: ↑Fri May 17, 2024 4:53 pm Liking this thread. Personally, I’ve jacked my way all through every relationship I’ve been in. When you’ve got the cum in you, it’s go to get out!
Yeah. Maybe at the very start of a relationship when you're young and staying (shagging) in bed all day I didn't feel the need. But apart from that I have wanked, no, I have *needed* to wank all the way through every coupling I've had.

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Sun May 19, 2024 5:37 am
by spunkluvr
wisher wrote: ↑Fri May 17, 2024 11:11 pm I have wanked, no, I have *needed* to wank all the way through every coupling I've had.
I understand completely. I have always NEEDED to wank, whether in a relationship or not.

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Mon May 20, 2024 9:52 am
by iamnaked
My first wife was a total sex addict. I married a young one. I was 28 and she was 19. I could not fuck her enough to satisfy her. She was a total exhibitionist but needed sex more than once a day. Yeah let your mind fondle that concept then trust me when I say too much of a good thing is too much.
We divorced after seven years.
Luckily for me no kids.
After we split I became a super horn dog. Needed a shrink and all that.
I went back to only older women after that. I’m better now.
She got pregnant and I lost track of her.

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Wed May 29, 2024 5:53 pm
by gmcguy2023
iamnaked wrote: ↑Mon May 20, 2024 9:52 am My first wife was a total sex addict. I married a young one. I was 28 and she was 19. I could not fuck her enough to satisfy her. She was a total exhibitionist but needed sex more than once a day. Yeah let your mind fondle that concept then trust me when I say too much of a good thing is too much.
We divorced after seven years.
Luckily for me no kids.
After we split I became a super horn dog. Needed a shrink and all that.
I went back to only older women after that. I’m better now.
She got pregnant and I lost track of her.
Wow that's interesting! Do you think the difference in sex drive led to that divorce?

Re: Becoming very horny after a long term relationship ending

Posted: Fri May 31, 2024 12:23 pm
by iamnaked
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Wow that's interesting! Do you think the difference in sex drive led to that divorce?
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Yes most definitely. I was out of town over night a couple of days each week.
Two different very young boys were coming over when I was gone. I staked her out one night. She liked teenagers.