When did you start?

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At what age did you start masturbating?

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DoctorsBro
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When did you start?

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Personally, I don’t remember when I started, but it was very early on, because I do have a very early memory of sitting in my bed having just done it. I always did it by humping pillows or blankets or stuffed animals. Amusingly, I didn’t realize that I could do it with my hand until I was 16 or 17...at that point I started having relatively unfettered access to internet porn for the first time, and I really wanted to masturbate while viewing it...not really possible while lying in bed, when all I had was a big old CRT monitor on my desk! Necessity is the mother of “invention”, they say, and so I became the gazillionth person to re-invent the ancient practice :D Nowadays, I prefer various forms of hand wanking, because the pressure of humping is too intense, which makes it very difficult to edge. I usually prefer to use toys like Fleshlights because they feel more natural and a "complete" experience. I'm also trying to learn deeper experiences with Aneros and other prostate toys.

I’m slightly jealous of people who learned later in life, because it must be nice to have the memory of such a thrilling discovery... :)
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I was about eleven years old when a boy in the neighborhood taught me how. I can remember it vividly still. We spent a lot of time together that summer.
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The good old sears catalog. Being a pain in the ass. My mother gave me the catalog to keep me quite. And told me to pick out what I'd like santa to bring me for Christmas. Flipping through the catalog I came across women in panties and bras. My little thingy got tingly and hard. And the rest is history. So you know I'm old having to use the sears catalog for my jerk off porn. Now Victoria secret catalogs come in the mail every month.
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First time was when I was 12. I was getting erections all the time and didn't know what to do. One night I was goofing around and wrapped a fleece blanket around my erection and then BLAM!, shot my first load. Scared the shit out of me but it didn't stop since that day. Jackmine I can relate to the sears catalogue. In the days before the internet back in late 80's, the panty sections of the sunday paper was gold to me. Probably explains why I love to stroke to women in thongs the most, among other things. Thanks for sharing guys!
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I was 9 years old and one of my friends asked me and another friend ( we are all 9 years old) as we were playing one summer in the school yard, did we want to learn about where babies come from. Of course we said yes. After giving us all the info about intercourse, he talked about jacking off. The three of us pulled out our now erect dicks and he showed us how to stroke there on the playground. It felt so good so I started doing it a lot as just a young kid. He told us we would not be able to shoot our spunk until we got older. He was right. That didn't happen until I was 12 or 13. He never told us that girls also masturbate or that sex in also enjoyable for girls. It wasn't until I was in High School I learned about a girls clit and how they enjoy sex as well and masturbate.
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Guys, please refrain from referring to yourself at an age under 13, as that is against the site rules. Vague references to yourself as being younger are okay, but not specific ages. I'm sure everyone can understand the possible "issues" involved.
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Probably 13. I remember having erections here and there well before then and I enjoyed pushing my crotch against things when that was happening, but I didn't put two and two together until around 13.

Was by accident, too. We had a small pool in which I spent lots of time. The water circulating through the filtration system would get pumped back into the pool by two nozzles on the pool walls. The angle of the nozzles was about 45 degrees, down and toward the center of the pool.

You can probably see where I'm going with this. One day I was swimming and headed toward the edge of the pool for a rest. I had an erection and the water jet from one of the nozzles caught me just right. It felt strange but also good. So at first I just held m crotch up against the stream.

It wasn't powerful enough and the material of my swim trunks was too thick for it to reach orgasmic levels but I did it fairly regularly anyway. Then one day I had the idea to look around, make sure nobody could see me, and then pull up one side of my swim trunks and pop out my erection. I experimented with the positioning and found the sweet spot, below the head on the underside of my penis.

I just let the feeling build up and was then surprised by my first orgasm. Soon enough I also realized that I could have fun outside of the pool.
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Depends what you mean by "started" I can't remember a time when I did not get erections or touch my cock because it felt nice but my first orgasm was when I was 12. Scary and wonderful at the same time and from then on it was more than "feeling nice", I was hooked.
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Growing up in the 1950 and 60s--lived in a small 2 bedroom house with my mother, father, and 2 sisters. I shared a bedroom with my parents --other stories there-- and slept on a roll-away bed inches from my parents bed. Not sure but like other posters have stated found that "humping" the mattress I could get a very good feeling in my penis. These dry orgasms started for sure by age 11 and by 12 I was producing wet spots on the sheet. This was my form of masturbation until age 14 when we moved to a larger house and I discovered my hand.
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I don't recall exactly when I started. My earliest memories involved lying in a bathtub, pushing my groin so it was just out of the water, and dragging a warm wet wash cloth slowly over my hard little cock. I didn't orgasm but it felt really nice. My first real orgasm occurred when I was 12. Alone in the house I lying on my stomach on the couch, I could feel the pressure of the cushions against me and it made me hard. I just started slowly humping the cushions and it started to feel very good. I pulled my penis out and inserted it into the crack between the cushions and pumped it in and out. In less than a minute I had my first orgasm and ejaculation. Cushion, pillow and mattress humping were my standard methods to achieve orgasm for another year or so. I didn't really use my hand until and older friend demonstrated how it was done, but that is whole other story.
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I was very young when I discovered that my hard penis could give me pleasure. I figured out if I used my thumb and finger to rub the loose skin under my cock head it soon would feel better and better until it stopped. I still remember the day when I did this the pleasure peaked and a little drop of clear liquid came out of my piss hole. I was a little bothered by this but continued to masturbate. Then one day I had my first real orgasm and some thick white stuff spurted from my piss slot. As I got older I surprised how far my ejaculations shot out. In my 20s I could shoot my first load over my head as I layer on my back. The other 4 or 5 spurts would then cover my hair, forehead, chin and chest.
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I learned to hump my pillow so early I had no idea what sex was. I clearly remember wondering why it felt so good to rub my pecker against the pillow and what was the curious tickle to which it ended. I was about 12 or 13 when I first heard about jacking off and didn't really understand how it was done. First I tried to hump my hand like my pillow but it didn't work. A little later I got better instructions and learned the right technique.

I still get off mostly by humping my pillow. I use my hand only when I am too lazy to hump, and then I need a lot of fantasizing or porn to get off, but the climax is rather weak compared to my pillow humping sessions. A few years ago I learned to use disposable diapers. A warm wet diaper feels better than my hand and makes an excellent masturbation toy.
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I also started when I was younger. I was playing with a neighbor friend who was 3 or 4 years older than me, and we were in a tent in my back yard. He asked me if I wanted to do something really good and it felt great. I don't remember too many details but I recall his erection looked a lot like mine - no hair yet, cut but loose skin on the shaft, even the same shape of head on his cock. He taught me how to cum even though they were dry orgasms. Once I knew how to do it, I was hooked. I would sneak out of class to use the bathroom, and stand at the urinal masturbating until I got "the feeling". I also clearly remember the first time I ejaculated, and a single thick drop of cum appeared at the end of my cock after my orgasm. Never stopped stroking since then, regardless of whether I was single, dating, married - always stroking.
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I started when I was 10 or 11.

I remember reading a sexy/trashy paperback book I stole from my mothers nightstand. It gave me a wicked hard on, and i was rubbing my cock. It really felt good.

It was really explicit, and I had never read anything like that before, stuff like 'he was pounding her with a cock as big as his forearm', and 'she had her huge boobs rocking back and forth'.

All of a sudden it felt like I had to pee, so i jump up, and started to run to the bathroom, right past my two other brothers room, cum spurting out my cock and me still holding it like it was exploding or something.

They ran to the bathroom, I was still squirting white stuff (had no idea what it was) and asked if my dick was broken or something. Later that year after I had the method perfected, I showed then how as well.
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i started when i was younger my bro who is a few years older than me showed me. we grew up sharing the same room and one night when everyone was asleep he showed me how.
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I can't pin it down exactly but I am guessing somewhere between the ages of 10 to 12. I discovered it by accident. It was in the schoolyard and I was climbing up the post that supported a group of swings. This was a round metal tube about 4" in diameter. I had my legs wrapped around it and the underside of my penis was pressed against the pole. Through my clothes of course. I discovered that inching up the pole and then sliding back a bit brought a really nice feeling in my groin. So I would inch up, slide back, inch up, slide back. After a few minutes of this I would achieve orgasm. Dry. Of course I had no clue what was happening and in fact thought I had discovered something that nobody else knew about. I am really amazed that none of the teachers present ever called me on it as they had to know for sure what the hell I was doing. But nobody ever did.

Using this procedure to masturbate came to a screeching halt when I felt a sharp pain and discovered my dick was covered in blood. I guess I had rubbed too hard and tore the foreskin on my dick. Fortunately I lived within walking distance of the school and in a panic I told my teacher I had an emergency and had to run home but would be back. I got to the house on the dead run. By that time it had stopped bleeding. I cleaned myself up and put on a new pair of tighty-whites and went back to school. I threw my bloody underwear into the woods alongside the road back to school. I never did that pole thing again because I was afraid I would cut myself.

Not sure when I actually did learn to masturbate or how I learned. It's possible that my kid brain deduced that if I could get that glorious feeling rubbing my dick against a pole, maybe I could duplicate that feeling by rubbing it with my fingers.

Unlike a great many young masturbators I never did the humping thing. And some time after I did learn to jack off my little dick, an older kid took me and my best friend into the bushes and whipped out his much larger cock and started jacking off. He tried to get us to join him but we were both too shy. Pretty soon streams of white cum shot out of his cock. That's the first time I had ever seen that happen and was totally fascinated. Not long after that I started being able to shoot my own cum.
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I started at about 11 after I had been given a dry orgasm by another guy. I didn't do it often until I had my first nocturnal emission, then I told myself it was nicer and more convenient to have a wank and so avoid the embarrassment of the wet bed.
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Very young. Very very young. I learned to orgasm quickly and haven't stopped in 36 years.
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Probably I started masturbating at a younger age than most boys do. I recall I used to look at my mother's medical dictionary at every opportunity so that I could just marvel at the frontal views of a naked man on page 184, and a naked woman on the opposite page. I always got an instant erection just looking at the man's big penis and pubic hairs, because they stood out so obviously to me in the photo. However, I thought that the woman in the other photo looked comparatively boring because I could only see her pubic hair, and so that photo didn't interest me very much at all. Some time later, a friend who was a year older than me, came around when my parents were at work, and I showed him these photos of a naked man and woman. These seemed to make him very impressed as well, and when I said I wondered why the man's penis was so big compared to mine, he told me it was because t man had done a lot of "wanking" to make it bigger. I'd never heard of this before, and so he volunteered to show me what wanking was. He took his cock out from his trousers (which was not only hard, but also bigger than mine), and started masturbating in front of me. One thing led to another and before long I was copying the way he showed me, by rubbing my cock up and down. That feeling felt so amazing to me and we kept doing it together for quite a while until he eventually told me that he was "cumming". Of course, we were both too young at the time to produce any sperm, although he was able to get a full climax all the same. From then on, I worked on masturbating at every opportunity, and my friend would often call around so we could wank together, over and over again.
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