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Hi, I can't find you in the list of members so don't know where you are. Here in the UK you could look at two mail order businesses for toys. One is 'Bondara' the other 'Love Honey'. I have what is called here a 'Masturbator' which is basically a substitute vagina. Rather like a Fleshlight but much cheaper to buy. If you are in the States there must be mail order businesses you can look at. Good Luck
zuscrinal wrote: Mon Dec 17, 2018 10:34 am recently I've been involved with a man that is open to the idea of using best male sex toys He has never considered it before until he saw my treasure trove. The thought has crossed my mind to get him a couple, but I don't know where to begin. Men from my past would not even consider opening up about their interest in sex toys, so the thought never occured to me that I could consider him when I shop. Any reccomendations for a beginner male's toy that is easy to use, reasonably priced, and effective on the pleasure scale? I'd greatly appreciate the help from other "connoiseurs of sexual pleasure
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I particularly like the dolls from "sexdollpartner", they are realistic and sexy.
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I'd be happy to help you. Did you try to purchase a sex doll for your boyfriend? The price is not too high, but it must be high-quality and realistic. I see the dolls from bestrealdoll company can satisfy your requirements.
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Does anyone use a cock pump. Curious on what it does and how it feels..I am always looking for new fun ways to get off. thanks
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jjosh wrote: Fri Dec 13, 2024 3:03 pm Does anyone use a cock pump. Curious on what it does and how it feels..I am always looking for new fun ways to get off. thanks
I have a penis pump, a medical grade “vacuum erection device” like those often offered as a treatment for men experiencing ED. Urology offices that treat ED often offer this as one alternative for treatment. By pumping air out of a tube sealed around the base of the penis, the penis is enlarged by the negative pressure.

I obtained this at a time that side effects from a medication diminished my sexual response. Even though sex and masturbation were still in the picture, I was using all known methods of enhancing sexual pleasure to counterbalance the drug side effects. Viagra and Cialis, a powerful Doxy vibrator with attachments, Fleshlights and various offshoots and sleeves and rings and such, an Eddy by Giddy cock ring, for a while testosterone shots, and so on. The vacuum erection device was one tool in the toolbox.

Although you pump it up slowly, increasing the pressure in small increments, once the penis is fully engorged with blood it is quite large. At this point there is a technique to simultaneously slip a very tight band onto the base of the penis as you release the pressure on the pump. The band is necessary if you are otherwise unable to maintain an erection because it retains the blood in the penis, but it is quite uncomfortable and I prefer other methods. I fucked my wife one time while pumped all the way up, with a band. It resulted in my cock actually being larger than usual, big and hefty but not rock hard, but enough to penetrate and orgasm. The semen doesn’t come out until the band is released . But the increased size made it a bit uncomfortable for my wife, who is naturally snug. I didn’t like the overall experience but if it were my only option to get off then I wouldn’t think twice. And with more experience it would become more natural.

It is very pleasurable in its own right to simply repeatedly pump up your cock. I personally couldn’t cum from just pumping it up but I'm pretty sure some guys probably could, with work and patience. It feels wonderful to feel the pressure surround your cock, alternating with release of (some of) the pressure, and repeat over and over, gradually increasing the amount of pressure you can tolerate. But even as it makes you yearn and long to rub it more than ever, the movement you’re able to make with the pump doesn’t fully satisfy that desire to thrust and rub, and so you can build yourself into very high states of arousal and strong desire to masturbate in earnest. In other words, it feels very good, but more than that it makes your crave more than the pump alone can provide . A pump seemingly would be perfect for guys who like long edging sessions, where the sensations on the penis over a period of time are valued as much or more as orgasms.
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I don't get the appeal of sex dolls. I obviously never tried one, but I fear I would feel like fucking a shop-window mannequin. They are very expensive and you can't return them if you are not satisfied with the experience.

Then there's a big stigma around sex dolls, much bigger than around other sex toys. If someone finds the doll in your house you look like a pitiful pervert for owning one (say you go to the hospital unplanned and you need someone to pick up clothes from your home).

The closest toy to real sex for me is my Liberator on a mission. A large solid cushion with a mount for a Fleshlight. It's mostly for simulating missionary position sex, but you can use it to mimic other positions too. If I use it with porn or nude imagery, the experience can be very good. I don't think, a sex doll would improve the experience significantly. But maybe you need a little bit of imagination to make it feel like real sex with the Liberator.
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I recently bought a gadget from Amazon which pumps, vibrates, sucks, and rotates - it really puts my cock in a spin!
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zuscrinal wrote: Mon Dec 17, 2018 10:34 am recently I've been involved with a man that is open to the idea of using best male sex toys He has never considered it before until he saw my treasure trove. The thought has crossed my mind to get him a couple, but I don't know where to begin. Men from my past would not even consider opening up about their interest in sex toys, so the thought never occured to me that I could consider him when I shop. Any reccomendations for a beginner male's toy that is easy to use, reasonably priced, and effective on the pleasure scale? I'd greatly appreciate the help from other "connoiseurs of sexual pleasure
Are there really any sex toys for men that can sufficiently simulate and take the place of a real vagina?? Any recommendations on anything that might even come close???
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jschwa wrote: Thu Jun 19, 2025 2:39 pm Are there really any sex toys for men that can sufficiently simulate and take the place of a real vagina?? Any recommendations on anything that might even come close???
No, I don't think that there are any sex toys who can sufficiently simulate a vagina. But there are some, that make the experience significantly better. Fleshlights have a nice, soft texture and provide the feel of wetness if lubed up properly, but if you use it with your hand, it still feels like masturbating. If you use it with a mount, like the mentioned Liberator on a Mission, it feels way more like the real deal, because you move like having sex.

Vibrating toys like donuts masturbators improve the experience significantly too, but they don't feel like a vagina at all.
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There’s nothing I have found that really fully simulates a vagina - I know there are guys here who say they would rather masturbate than have sex, but to me there is nothing that beats an eager woman with a wet pussy ready to fuck. That said, being married and older I don’t get nearly as much real fucking as I would like and so do masturbate frequently. I have tried a number of ‘toys’ and for me a Fleshlight masturbator (or probably equivalent other brands) is pretty close to the real thing, feeling more like real sex and better than a hand. There are several types of Fleshlight, which vary in how close to real they feel. The external orifice can look like a pussy, a mouth or an anus - effects are just psychological, I like pussy best. Insides vary too, the best have variations along the length of the tube that you insert your cock into. I tried a ‘stamina’ trainer that was just little nubs along the whole length, was ok but not nearly as good as one with more variations. To make it more real feeling they recommend warming with water before using, but I didn’t find that necessary. They do need some lube, mine came with a sample packet which was ok, but usually I would just start stroking and drip a few drops of precum into the opening before inserting my cock, then further precum leakage when I was in made all the lube I needed. As noted in the last response you can move the tube containing the sleeve by hand, an elaboration of jacking off by hand - provides stimulation along the whole length of your cock which is nice. However for me the best was to have it fixed, the easiest way I found is sticking it between the matresses on a bed, kneeling on a pillow facing the bed, and thrusting into it - for me thrusting gives more real sensation of fucking, can vary depth, speed, etc. and have hands free to hold a screen with videos or whatever gets you off. I found I could edge for quite awhile thrusting like this, and at the end pushing deep inside and unloading. You even get to see the creampie you created, you can tip it up a bit and watch your load drip out. The down sides of Fleshlights are that they are a bit of a pain to clean and dry after use (so not great for a quickie), they’re sort of big if you want to hide them, and they’re fairly expensive. I love to hear/feel my partner orgasm and they don’t do that - but they’re always in the mood when you are. Unless the cost is prohibitive I definitely recommend giving one a try.
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There will never be anything greater to stick your cock into then the original orifice it is intended for. A woman's vagina is incredible! Warm soft folds of flesh that has an alluring scent and taste, and when it is a part of someone you are deeply in love with, the two of you become one in a way that you know was meant to be. You will never be able to replace that.

He's a lucky guy to have a woman like you who is looking to find new ways to show him pleasure, whatever you get for him, I'm sure he will be more than satisfied!
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